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What is the whole tight/ loose thing?

Q.   *OP's own title* i don't understand the whole tight and loose hing for a girl. if you have sex and then after you are loose then who is going to ever going to have sex with you. the guys say they only want a tight girl. i'm confused...

A.   27 March 2010: Just as men have different size penises, women have different size vaginas, breasts e.c.t, I and my partner have been together since 2002, compared to my ex girlfriends I would say she has the largest lady bits but would love her just the same if i... (read in full...)

How do we make anal sex less painful as a couple?

Q.   Hi, all! My boyfriend and I have been together for a fairly long time (three years), so we've done almost every kind of sex imaginable... except anal. He's literally the only guy I feel comfortable being naked in front of but anal sex is definitely ...

A.   17 March 2010: I and my boyfriend have anal, I was apprehensive at first but enjoy it and do it quite often, if you are going to try then make sure you use lots of lube and you are relaxed, don't have him enter you straight away, try 1 or 2 fingers at first and ... (read in full...)

For some reason he won't go down me...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we just started having sex 2 weeks ago. For some reason he won't go down me. He licks my fingers after I finger myself so I know it's not that I taste bad. He is such a good boyfriend and he loves ...

A.   14 March 2010: If he has never done it before then it may be beacause he thinks he may not be good and you won't enjoy it, If you have only been having sex for 2 weeks then you are only just finding your feet with each other, it's not something us guys know how... (read in full...)

Would guys like a 19 year old virgin. Or would the innocence drive them away?

Q.   How many people like me still a virgin? I mean as far as age goes..I'm not ashamed of it but here where I live there's very few girls who remain virgins. Reason being I just haven't found the right guy yet. I also wonder do guys usually like ...

A.   13 March 2010: there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 19, it's rare to find someone who wants to wait untill they meet the rite person, there is no rush at the end of the day.... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a girl to masturbate?

Q.   i am a girl is it nomal for me to masturbate? because i feel i want too ...

A.   13 March 2010: Yes it's normal for women to masturbate, my partner used to do it before we met and still does after being together for 8 years, it's your body and it's not weird or does any harm, explore yourself and have fun.... (read in full...)

Did he tell me he loved me just to get into my knickers?

Q.   Hi Aunts. I just wanna get your opinion on something. I'm in a relationship with my bf, and he just told me he loved me. Which was a really big moment for me. Because I feel the same way for him and 10x more. But lately he's been very sexual and ...

A.   13 March 2010: How long have you been seeing each other? do you trust him? do you feel ready to have sex? If you are in any way unsure then do not go ahead, some guys will say things they don't mean to get what they want, but he may be genuine, thats for you to... (read in full...)

Swinging... Can it happen without things getting messy like jealousy etc?

Q.   My new girlfriend wants to swing with another couple she and I consider friends. I am very turned on by the the thought of this but worry about the aftermath. The other couple suggested it to my girl so everyone is on board. Has anyone ever done ...

A.   13 March 2010: If it is something you are both equally interested in trying and are both 100% happy with your relationship then there is no reason not to try it, if you do decide to give it a go and either of you find it's not for you then don't carry on, it can ... (read in full...)

She says she doesn't want anal, but she seems to want it.

Q.   I spoke with my GF recently about fantasies we shared some. She has known for sometime I want to have anal sex, however, I absolutely respected her choice not to. Fine, not a huge deal, as a relationship is caring about your partner not forcing ...

A.   13 March 2010: If she enjoys you fingering her analy and has an orgasm when doing so then you are a lucky guy as I don't think the vast majority of woman would like it, maybe you could buy an anal probe or small vibrator, my partner likes anal fun mow and again ... (read in full...)

If you are on birth control can a guy cum inside you as many times as he wants?

Q.   If a guy cum so many times while you're on birth control pill, and you never miss a day. Can you still get preganent?...

A.   13 March 2010: there is a very small chance you could get pregnant, I have been with my partner for 8 years and she is on the pill and has not got pregnant.... (read in full...)

Need help climaxing.

Q.   I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been masturbating for a while now. I mean, I don't know if it's even considered that because all i do is rub my clit till "orgasm". I've just recently tried fingering myself. I only can use one finger because it's so ...

A.   1 March 2010: I have been with quite a few girls and not 1 has found the 'g spot', it has not been proven that it exists either, if you are having fun otherwise then carry on, and don't think you are too tight, don't forget your vagina is designed to give birt... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says my vagina is loose and that he does not feel a thing... what can I do? How do I fix it?

Q.   I have not cheated why does my vagina feel loose... my boyfriend thinks that I've cheated... before he even mentioned it, I have been noticing a diffrence with our sex life... when we have sex my vagina has no tightness to it.. I try and ...

A.   1 March 2010: I think he may be insecure, do you feel him when having sex? do you enjoy it? if yes to both then it's a problem on his part, if he says he cannot feel you he must have an issue with himself and maybe he's paranoid and thinks he is not big enough to ... (read in full...)

Oral Sex Odour - Is it normal?

Q.   hi, so the thing is that when i give my bf a blow job his cock smells HORRIBLE, like really nastly, kinda like fishy or of pee a bit..... is that normal?? thankyouu x...

A.   7 February 2010: no it should not smell, if you are having oral fun it is best that you are both clean down below, if not it is a real tur of!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says my vagina is loose and that he does not feel a thing... what can I do? How do I fix it?

Q.   I have not cheated why does my vagina feel loose... my boyfriend thinks that I've cheated... before he even mentioned it, I have been noticing a diffrence with our sex life... when we have sex my vagina has no tightness to it.. I try and ...

A.   7 February 2010: Well I have found that every woman I have been with are different down below, and I think all us guys are as well, My partner has a very spacious vagina but has no children, I only have a 6.5" penis length but we still have great sex, We enjoy ... (read in full...)

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