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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we just started having sex 2 weeks ago. For some reason he won't go down me. He licks my fingers after I finger myself so I know it's not that I taste bad. He is such a good boyfriend and he loves me but when it comes to sex he is very selfish. He always wants me to give him oral. I don't know why he won't go down on me. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, joiney  +, writes (14 March 2010):
If he has never done it before then it may be beacause he thinks he may not be good and you won't enjoy it,If you have only been having sex for 2 weeks then you are only just finding your feet with each other, it's not something us guys know how to do straight away, it's trial and error at first but is a lot of fun in the end, I enjoy giving my girlfriend oral and do it on her more times then she does on me.
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (13 March 2010):
 Did you ask him to go down on you?
I mean he can't read his mind, especially when it comes to sex. If you are just expecting him to do it because you are, you are going to be waiting for a long time. Men are kind of selfish in that way, but still, he doesn't know unless you tell him to.
Has he had sexual experience in the past? Maybe it's intimidating to him because he's never done it before. The thing about sex is that it has to be something that you can openly talk about. If he knows that you want him to give you oral, and he has already said that he's uncomfortable with it, there's no reason that you should give it to him. It's a two way street. But seriously, I would just be open about it and request for some 'down under' time. He probably just isn't connecting the dots, and it's really got nothing to do with you personally. Men are like that. :)
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