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writes:Hi Aunts. I just wanna get your opinion on something. I'm in a relationship with my bf, and he just told me he loved me. Which was a really big moment for me. Because I feel the same way for him and 10x more. But lately he's been very sexual and physical with me.. I think he wants to move forward in our relationship since we aren't sexually active. Anyway, my worry is that he only said he loved me to sway me into being physical with him. But I don't really know. He's a really genuine and nice guy. And personally I don't think he'd say those words without really meaning them. I need to know what you think. Any advice is appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Im 15, he's 17 and I'm a guy.
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reader, joiney  +, writes (13 March 2010):
How long have you been seeing each other? do you trust him?do you feel ready to have sex?If you are in any way unsure then do not go ahead, some guys will say things they don't mean to get what they want, but he may be genuine, thats for you to decide as you know him,As you are young I think you should wait a while but if you are sure make sure you both use protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): ok safe better than sorry hunnyas it seems ur relation is already shorti did say let it take more time so u know he;s playing or not
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010): Well, you know him better than any of us. If he really is a genuine guy and you guys have been together a while, then odds are he means what he said and really is in love with you, therefore wants to be more intimate with you. But of course some guys do lie to get into a girl's pants. Do you honestly believe he is that sort of person? Only you can decide that. I'd advise against having sex at such a young age, but if you do please make sure to use protection, i.e. the pill, condoms.
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