Can you get trust back?
Q. I've been seeing this girl for about a year and 2 months now. I did some hurtful things to her. I cheated around 3 times but came clean about it. She always forgave me. I had been emotionally unstable from my childhood and previous relationships. A...
A. 15 May 2010: hi there, when it comes to cheating it very hard to win trust back. Maybe if you only do it once, you might win trust back as she will put it down to a silly mistake... but do it more than once and she will find it very hard to trust you... Mayb... (read in full...)
Husband sending out mixed signals...
Q. We are coming up on our 6th anniversary. Hubby has become more distant - we don't communicate, he is not into kissing/hugging/romance- basicly we are roommates with the benefit of sex. When it comes to sex- I am the one to initiate it- he lays there ...
A. 9 April 2010: You should talk to him about it. Maybe to start with it would be better not to put all the blame on him and share the problem. Use words like "us" and "our" instead of "you". e.g. You can bring it up by saying we used to have better sex than this, ... (read in full...)
I like her but I'm not head over heels for her, should I stay with her or get out now?
Q. well this girl that i am dating i like her. but i am not head over heels for her. She is sweet and quiet and pure. a girl that i really would want. but the thing is she is just cute. i don't find her greatly attractive. but i like cuddling with her ...
A. 16 March 2010: If you really enjoy being with her and you like her enough that you are not thinking about other girls I would say stick with it for a while.
Relationships don't always have to start with a thunderbolt, sometimes the best and healthiest rela... (read in full...)
I need help moving on from my ex!
Q. i got with my ex over last summer and i got really close to him, even though it was only around 4 months everything seemed so perfect i really think i fell for him he made me so happy. i never wanted to split from him.. he was so gorgeous and im ...
A. 16 March 2010: I thought I would never get over someone after a breakup and it did hurt for a long time, but time does heal and you always do find another special someone. One thing that I did find to get over the person was to challenge my thoughts about h... (read in full...)
How do I go about not acting insecure even if I am?
Q. Please help me i feel like a lost cause anymore... kinda.. anyway ive had a bad string of relationships always the guy getting hurt or cheated on... well im dating a girl now who until about a week ago i thought everything was great... she pretty ...
A. 2 March 2010: If your genuinely not happy with the way things are going with her, then you might be better off just breaking contact with her for a while.
There is nothing worse than hanging round waiting for someone when you know they are not going to give you... (read in full...)
How do I go about not acting insecure even if I am?
Q. Please help me i feel like a lost cause anymore... kinda.. anyway ive had a bad string of relationships always the guy getting hurt or cheated on... well im dating a girl now who until about a week ago i thought everything was great... she pretty ...
A. 25 February 2010: Dude just take things slowly and relax a bit more about things. Give her space, let her know your there for her but dont crowd her out. She'll come to you if she really wants to and if she doesnt then it just means she is not ready for a ... (read in full...)
I don't know what went wrong in our relationship! What should I do?
Q. There is this girl i like.We were good friends and the friendship turned into love and we were really good together...there were fights but we managed...there were times when we went on a break and didn't speak to each other for a month or so but ...
A. 25 February 2010: when you have a lot of break-ups and make-ups like that in a relationship, it is a sign that something is fundementally not working in your relationship. Something is not right. You need to have a long hard think about whether you are really any g... (read in full...)
Should cheaters get a second chance?
Q. I found out my boyfriend cheated on me because I checked his email. He has since then apologized, said he really wants to be with me, and has treated me much better like when we first started dating. (I knew something was different when he was with ...
A. 25 February 2010: I think everyone deserves a second chance... but not a third.
Alot of guys cheat physically but not emotionally.
Women find it hard to seperate sex and emotion, were as men do not. I'm not saying that makes it right. But just trying to explain t... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone that great? Will I ever find someone better?
Q. Hello everyone. For a while now I've been struggling after my first love broke up with me. It was a two year long relationship that was undoubtedly amazing. However, I made a horrible mistake and was unfaithful. After I told her, we both cried all ...
A. 25 February 2010: Of course you will find someone as great again.
I thought I would never get over someone after a breakup and it did hurt for a long time, but time does heal and you always do find another special someone.
One thing that I did find to get over... (read in full...)
Masturbating Won’t Make You Blind, BUT
Q. ~ I recently read an article about masturbation, and it got me wondering about the effects of too much masturbation. The article focused on men being unable to orgasm during sex, but there are other dangers as well. First of all, let me say that ...
A. 25 February 2010: I have suffered from masturbating too much in the past (more than 3 times a day).
I think for a combination of reasons, to relieve stress, boredom... but I think when you do it everyday for a year or more it becomes a habit that you cant stop, you ... (read in full...)
Getting closure from the person you thought was your ultimate soul-mate...
Q. Sorry, the story below is a bit long but needed to explain my situation. Hopefully wont bore you too much! About 6 years ago (When I was 27) I had a long distance relationship with someone who I was crazy about. At the time I couldn't believe ...
A. 25 February 2010: Thanks you to the reponses I got to my initial email.
Just wanted to give an update to say that I finally did manage to get over this old love... I used self help with cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT), which bascially changes the way you look at t... (read in full...)
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