Another guy advises my girl on relationships and I am concerned he will plant negativity in her mind about me.
Q. Here's my situation. Both myself and the girl I am dating are christian. We believe strongly in long term relationships, ones that seriously could someday grow into feelings of marriage. For the first time in my life, I have found a girl special e...
A. 24 March 2010: I would ask her how she would feel if she knew you were discussing your R issues with another woman---one who has already expressed disapproval of the R.
The breach of privacy would bother me.
I think it's a good rule of thumb to never discuss... (read in full...)
Jekyll and Hyde, Narcissistic Personality Disorder? What is this about?
Q. I never left him, everytime I do it just falls apart but I have changed . I was right of being suspicious about the other woman. He plays away, he has sexual affairs yet he tells me I am the only one he loves blah blah blah.. I know him well l...
A. 10 February 2010: Okay, I'm back.You asked "Why does he behave the way he does? Because he's an empty vessel completely lacking empathy and regard for your feelings.He needs to have a constant source of Narcissistic Supply..(NS).That'a partly why he seeks the att... (read in full...)
Jekyll and Hyde, Narcissistic Personality Disorder? What is this about?
Q. I never left him, everytime I do it just falls apart but I have changed . I was right of being suspicious about the other woman. He plays away, he has sexual affairs yet he tells me I am the only one he loves blah blah blah.. I know him well l...
A. 10 February 2010: Oh goodness, you've got a nasty one.I'm so sorry you're going through this.
I've done extensive studying on NPD so there's a lot of insight I can share with you.
Unfortunately I'm super busy at the moment, but I will post to you again soon, wh... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to her sister and my gf is on to me!
Q. My girlfriends sister and I have had a "relationship" for a couple of weeks now. My relationship with GF has been shaky lately and I am really attracted to her sister, who has already said she loves me and would give up everything for me. Now my GF ...
A. 9 February 2010: Think hard........
Could you ever really trust anyone capable of betraying their own flesh and blood?... (read in full...)
My wife no longer trusts me over online conversations with my landlady.
Q. Hello there, I'd really appreciate your advise/help on my situation. Here's my story... I'm 29 and my gf/wife is 32, we live together now for about 2 and a half years, the relationship is going on about 3years now. We got married last m...
A. 9 February 2010: I agree that the sex issues in your relationship needs to be addressed.
However, your divulging of you and your gf's most private issues with another women, crossed the line. I've been in your gf's shoes on that issue, and I felt horribly... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome and I don't.
Q. My boyfriend asked me if I would be interested in a threesome. It's not something that really appeals to me, but I decided to entertain the idea and at least discuss it with him. Not surprisingly, he was trying to push a threesome with a third ...
A. 9 February 2010: Your bf's response was rather juvenile, IMO. It sounds like he views being a feminist as unappealing, given that he used the term in a derogatory manner.Not all men find it off-putting, either.In fact, some men respect an outspoken woman who won't ... (read in full...)
Boy, revenge is sweet...
Q. Hi, my wife recently cheated on me with a guy who lives in a small town about 10 miles away from me, anyway to cut a long story short I found everything out, confronted my wife and then I confronted the guy in question and gave him the mandotary ...
A. 4 February 2010: I'm not sure what the laws are in your country, but here in the states, some states have laws where you can sue an affair partner for "Alienation of Affection"...........
Something to look into.........
I agree with the other posters, you'll ... (read in full...)
My huby thinks I should forgive and forget his 2 year affair!
Q. I found out my husband has been having an affair and texting this woman for 2 years i accidently found itemised bills and now he expects me just to forgive and forget and move on. how can i do this we have been married for 41years ...
A. 4 February 2010: Of course he thinks you should just "forgive and forget".
It means he doesn't have to face any consequences for his actions.
How very convenient.......For him, that is.
during his two year affair, he lied to you.Repeatedly.He delibe... (read in full...)
Should we risk it?
Q. I have decided not to go out with one guy that was willing to break up with his gf for me but i still have feelings for this older guy. i suppose we could be together but im not risking any thing. so should we keep having this "secret fling" until i ...
A. 4 February 2010: Any guy that will break up with his gf to be with you....
......is someone who may do the same thing to you someday.
There's a good chance you'll always wonder if he's got someone else waiting in the wings. Do you really want to go through th... (read in full...)
I admit being OTT about hubby talking to another woman, but he says I am nasty and vindictive!
Q. I have recently got married for the third time. My new husband speaks daily with a woman we both know and I asked him to stop. He told me that I was trying to censor him, nothing is going on and that he won't stop contact with her as there is no ...
A. 4 February 2010: Ummmmmmmmmm.........
She's an ex.
who your H talks to... ..daily?????
I believe you have every right to be upset and concerned.
Why is he prioritizing his friendship with her over the health of your M? And, he's flirting with her over... (read in full...)
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