I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend but I'm curious about a female friend
Q. I don’t want to cheat on my boyfriend. I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. But here is the problem: he is bisexual and has had girlfriends before who he has had sex with. I am not sure if I am bisexual but have never slept...
A. 6 November 2012: Curiosity. I thought it happens in the adolescent years? :) Just kidding man.
I presume, your confusion arises from the doubt in yourself that you are sincerely and acceptably gay. That doubt is not about your relationship. It's more of about yo... (read in full...)
My girlfriend developed feelings for my friend so she dumped me!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. We had our occasional fights, but nothing ever too serious. She recently became closer with one of my good friends. I didn't mind them hanging out at first, but then it started to become more ...
A. 6 November 2012: Hi,
This is actually a very common relationship dilemma and though common it may be, it really happens and going through this rough times to accepting the situation is difficult especially to the one left behind. I fully understand your point br... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend, but my feelings for him won't go away.
Q. I really need help, I broke up with my boyfriend like a month ago and I´m having hard times trying to move forward, we had really good times together, but we ended up in really bad terms, he was rude and mean to me. Trying to escape from my reality ...
A. 25 July 2009: Break up is always painful in whatever way it happened. More specially when the two parties parted uneven and in bad terms. And moving on will be hard to do as well. Don't worry, if you really love him and as what you have said that both of you have ... (read in full...)
How do I escape this silly routine and take the plunge?
Q. Hi, I’m really shy when it comes to sex, I usually have to know someone for quite a while before I’m comfortable sleeping with them. Only…I haven’t been with anyone in almost 5years now! – I haven’t so much as kissed a girl! I’m a fairly attracti...
A. 7 July 2009: Ok. Don;t worry, you are not alone with the problem. i'm sure hundreds of people suffers on the same thing as well. Including me. I'm also experiencing the same thing, though, i've never been on the situation like you have. i haven't engaged myself ... (read in full...)
How do I escape this silly routine and take the plunge?
Q. Hi, I’m really shy when it comes to sex, I usually have to know someone for quite a while before I’m comfortable sleeping with them. Only…I haven’t been with anyone in almost 5years now! – I haven’t so much as kissed a girl! I’m a fairly attracti...
A. 6 July 2009: I really want to say that you are a reincarnated monk, but too bad for me, you already thought about it. LOL! We do have different personas that we present to other people. We have different modes of gaining attention with quite a need for everyon... (read in full...)
Lack of trust/insecurities caused breakup, how do I get her back?
Q. Dear Cupid.... My fiance has recently broken up with me because of my insecurities and lack of trust. Thing were going fine, marrage was only 6 months away but she relocated and we were having a long distance relationship for 6 months...
A. 6 July 2009: this sounds more of personal problem than a relationship problem. She told you she needed some space and you being paranoid simply self pity yourself and blame everything on yourself. "Space" requires really some space thinking, deciding, acknow... (read in full...)
Do you think I should meet up with him or is he just using me?
Q. Earlier this year i got in a relationship with this boy i really like, just like most relationships things went wrong which resulted in us going out separate ways. Left me devastated, i ending up making myself ill. Silly thing to do... But recently ...
A. 6 July 2009: Meeting up with him doesn't really mean that you are "together" again. Why not give it a shot and then you will know if what he is saying is true or not or if he is just using you or not. give it a shot and at least you will be relieved of the ... (read in full...)
Please help...I don't have the strength to leave my married man.
Q. I am having a relationship with a married man and have been seeing over 11 years now. i have made up my mind to leave him but he is the source of my family and i up keep. what should i do cause i dont have the strenght to leave, i am feeling ...
A. 6 July 2009: When you talk about your family. is it your own children and he was the father? In that case, it's his obligation to support you and your family no matter what. If what yyou are talking about is the family you have with your parents and siblings, ... (read in full...)
I have a special bond with him. I don't want to be gay!
Q. I think I might need help. I have a special bond with someone with the same gender. At first he was just my idol,but now I think about him all the time. I don't want to be gay but im asking you guys,do you think I have an attraction to him?...
A. 5 July 2009: Baing gay is about sexual preference. Ask yourself first if you think about him on a sexual basis or just a personal attraction to just hang out with him and feel comfortable because you're with someone who is far superior than you are. Being a man ... (read in full...)
She lied about where she was, should I dump her?
Q. me and my gf havent talked to eachother in a coupl of weeks, and she says shes at cheerleading camp. yet a friend saw her yesterday in town.should i still date her, or should i dump her?...
A. 5 July 2009: who do you trust more, your girl or your friend? Investigate first of why she makes false excuses? There has to be a reason behind her lies. Understand it. And learn the situation well and decide for yourself, if the time spent with her will ge... (read in full...)
5 months pregnant need to tell my parents and don't know how!
Q. I'm so frightend, I'm 16 and I found out about 5 months ago I was pregnant. The guy who got helped in this little creation of ours blamed it all on me and moved to a different school.I wouldn't dare tell my parents, they've done so much for me and I ...
A. 5 July 2009: the more time you spend hiding your condition to your parents, the harder it is for you to reveal the truth to them and also to hide it to everyone. Time will come, your tummy will be very obvious and you will experience something only experienced ... (read in full...)
Can a really straight guy be in love with me? I am a very discrete gay guy...
Q. Can a str8 friend be really in love with his gay friend through their deep friendship? He say's he love me but I doubt it to be true. We have one of the greatest fight last night because we are arguing why I can't believe him saying that he loves ...
A. 22 June 2008: Yes! he does know I am gay! HE says he loves me and it's quite sincere though but it's impossible to happen right? He says if only I am a girl, he wants me to be his gf like that. But of course I cannot be his gf, Im not a girl. ... (read in full...)
I'm a straight guy but turned on by sex thoughts about men-am I gay or Bi?
Q. I am a stright boy, i think, i have a great girlfriend, and love being with her, but recently,i have been having tought of men, i watch gayporn and i get horny and often "wank"as well to it, i have kissed a fella, and think about doing it again, but ...
A. 28 May 2008: Being attracted to both sexes, either sexually or emotional commitment, is a sign of some personality formation. They once said that naturally, a person is a bisexual during the prenatal period, but his sexuality is based by how he is raised and ... (read in full...)
Could a straight guy fall in love with a gay guy ?
Q. Is it possible for a straight guy to fall in love with a gay guy I,m 41, he,s 25 I,m gay he,s straight we get along really well buy he,s very anti-gay I think he suspects that I,m gay but doesn,t seem to bother him Should I let him make the first m...
A. 27 May 2008: I do have the same situation dude. We were so damn close to each other, so close that he once said, if only your a girl, you will be a perfect mate for me. I told him that, I can't take the risk of losing our friendship for the sake of having him in ... (read in full...)
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