What do you do when you have to do something that you dread doing?
Q. Words of comfort...what do you do when you dread doing something but have to? I sound like a baby getting worked up over this but I'm freaking out about a phone call I have to make this week. This is really not a big deal compared to some problems...
A. 12 August 2010: When faced with something you dread doing you don't actually realise that avoiding it only increases the panic and cost you energetically. The key is simply to just do it as soon as possible and have it over and done with, you will feel so much ... (read in full...)
Should I be nice? Or let her have it and cause trouble?
Q. I was seeing a girl for a while. she became my best friend also very close relationship . she gave me the friend talk for those that have been following . I bought her a tiffany co bracelet with alot of charms for other things and special ...
A. 12 August 2010: ummmm if she was your best friend and you claim to still care about this girl then of course you should not try and sabotage her relationship now. Sounds as if you are extremely jealous that this girl has moved on and is seeing someone else by the ... (read in full...)
Aggressive boyfriend when angry. Should I try to help him? Or leave him?
Q. when me and my bf get in little petty arguments he tends to get a little aggressive..he starts to push me and get in my face..recently he actually put his arm on my throat wanting to choke me..i love him and i know that he has a problen with his ...
A. 12 August 2010: Sorry to say but this sounds really bad. Violence only escalates in an aggressive person like this the longer you stay with them. I was with a guy for 2 years and at first he would call me names and push me every now and then. I stupidly stuck ... (read in full...)
Does flirting with other guys equal cheating?
Q. Does flirting with other guys equal cheating? I've got a bf but I tend to sometimes flirt with other guys, no touching, nothing, just teasing them. Is this wrong and does this mean I'm cheating in any way? ...
A. 12 August 2010: I don't believe that a little harmless flirting can be construed as cheating in any way. Everyone likes a little ego boost every now and then and to know that they still 'have it.' Just watch that the flirting remains harmless..... (read in full...)
I fantastize about ugly old dirty fat men! What is wrong with me?
Q. Hello, I feel as if I am abnormal...I am a 23 year old girl and in a good relationship yet the only thing that really turns me on is if i fantasize about much older, ugly, fat dirty men. I dont know why this is and it makes me feel like a freak. I ...
A. 12 August 2010: Thanks everyone for answering and not being very judgmental as have to admit its a little embarassing admitting to a fantasy which you know is a little strange...Alot of what you said has been helpful and has given me a little bit of insight so ... (read in full...)
How much do you communicate when your not together?
Q. Hi there, if you were in a long distance relationship (about 2 hours away from eachother) how much communication would you expect from the other person? Would you expect to talk everyday?Phone, texts, emails etc...or would you expect communica...
A. 12 August 2010: I was in a long distance relationship for a year with my bf being in new york and me in london and we talked all day every day. This is one of the worst things u can do with long distance relationships yet the easiest trap to fall ino (especially ... (read in full...)
Do I let him go because I am not ready for sex or make him wait and see how genuine he is?
Q. I have been interested in my current boyfriend for a long while. Things have occurred so we couldn't have courted earlier, but now I am having doubts and confusion about whether things are moving too quickly between us. We have been dating for ...
A. 12 August 2010: You have the right to take as much time you need/want before you are intimate with someone and if this guy cannot accept that then he is not the guy you should be with. As for sharing the bed with him etc he probably is expecting it to progress ... (read in full...)
What does this non-serious ex keep contacting me a year and a half later?
Q. Hello, about a year and a half ago I dated a guy I was crazy about. We only dated for four months and only saw each other maybe ten times. We broke up on good terms, but basically because I wanted something more serious than him. He started con...
A. 12 August 2010: Sound like all this guy wants is a bit of your attention and to know that you are still passionately crazy about him as you used to be. Everyone likes to feel wanted and it seems as if this guy still wants to feel wanted by you hence the messaging ... (read in full...)
I'm the cheated wife!
Q. Hi I'm the cheated Wife. My Ex found his true love at work and they both conspired to Divorce their spouses. She has a kid and I've a little boy as well. My ex was not sure in the beginning but she pressured him to get the divorce first and she woul...
A. 12 August 2010: This sounds more like a passionate love affair derived from unhapiness in both theyre lives rather than true love. When people reach a stage of comfort after being together for a while, some may experience a need for something new and different and ... (read in full...)
Do you believe that there is only one true love in your life?
Q. Do you believe that there is only one true love in your life? ...
A. 12 August 2010: Not at all. I believe that as you reach different stages in your life you are drawn to different people who you consider at the time as being your true love. There are many people out there who you are compatable with and who you will grow to love ... (read in full...)
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