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How importants are breasts to a man

Q.   Hi, I was wondering what the general male opinion on boobs is- how big is too big? is there a limit? are small boobs really that bad? how important are they to a mans sexual arousal? Thanks...

A.   26 January 2013: Like other readers have said, it really just depends on the guy. However, in my opinion and I think a lot of other people agree with me that the size of a ladies breasts really doesn't matter. If you like the person you are going to be happy wi... (read in full...)

I feel embarassed that I'm still a virgin

Q.   I'm a senior in college and still a virgin. It's not for religious reasons so much (although I am a faithful person), but I've always felt you should lose your virginity to someone you really love and have a future with. I've had several serious ...

A.   23 January 2013: Don't rush into sex there is no need. Just do it when you feel comfortable and ready with the right person. A lot of people see sex as a big deal before they do it and then after you don't see it as something so big anymore. It is great but it isn't ... (read in full...)

Why do some women find aggressive behaviour in men a turn on? I don't get the female mind!

Q.   Hey all I have a question on the confusing female mind! I was chatting with a couple of women recently and they both confused the hell out of me. One had slept with some chavy guy who she regretted sleeping with but said she did it because the h...

A.   22 January 2013: I didn't expect so many replies so fast, it was just something I was thinking about while bored on a work break. Thanks for all the replies and mixed opinions though. I figured I might have ended up meeting a couple of nut jobs but it got me think... (read in full...)

Is hair removal cream safe to use on the penis?

Q.   Hey all! Just a quick question about hair removal. I have quite long hairs on the underside of the shaft of my penis. I read this was common in circumsized males when I first noticed them but I would prefer it if I could remove them. So i...

A.   18 December 2012: I want to remove unwanted hair on the shaft of my penis not my pubic hair. Thanks for the help everyone.... (read in full...)

Is hair removal cream safe to use on the penis?

Q.   Hey all! Just a quick question about hair removal. I have quite long hairs on the underside of the shaft of my penis. I read this was common in circumsized males when I first noticed them but I would prefer it if I could remove them. So i...

A.   16 December 2012: I don't really know much about hair removal cream so I didn't know it would leave stubble. Surprisingly, plucking doesn't hurt there in the slightest. It is just a pain having to do it every couple of weeks because they are harder to grip than nor... (read in full...)

Should I just get my virginity out of the way?

Q.   This is really personal, but I think I need a little advice in this area. I'm still a virgin, which is shocking to some people. I'm 20 which isn't that bad but in my generation isn't very common or even looked at as a good thing, its almost ...

A.   8 June 2012: Do not just rush into it. Losing your virginity is no big deal and if you just throw it away with somebody who you don't really care for it will not be that much of a special experience. Being a virgin at your age isn't that unusual. I have a f... (read in full...)

Do you please your partner before sex or just expect them to be ready?

Q.   Some people say that men are always ready for sex and can be ready seconds if they have someone to sleep with. Now I am not saying people aren't like this but I also have a question about not so giving people when it comes to sex. What I am wand...

A.   3 January 2012: At chalice, please go through the posts before posting. I have already mentioned that we both communicated and asked for what we wanted. She just refused to do what I wanted, after I had pleased her. I am not saying I expect the exact same bac... (read in full...)

Do you please your partner before sex or just expect them to be ready?

Q.   Some people say that men are always ready for sex and can be ready seconds if they have someone to sleep with. Now I am not saying people aren't like this but I also have a question about not so giving people when it comes to sex. What I am wand...

A.   3 January 2012: At Miamine, thanks for the reply. I do agree, a one night stand after a few drinks probably wasn't the best example here. I have in the past had partners who were similar to this though. Back then I was a little nervous and less inclined to say ... (read in full...)

Do you please your partner before sex or just expect them to be ready?

Q.   Some people say that men are always ready for sex and can be ready seconds if they have someone to sleep with. Now I am not saying people aren't like this but I also have a question about not so giving people when it comes to sex. What I am wand...

A.   2 January 2012: Firstly, thanks for your replies. Secondly, do not just assume things. At male reader, anonymous, I did not take advantage of anyone, I did not set any rules and I did not expect sex. The girl I took home came home with me because she wanted to an... (read in full...)

How can I overcome my nerves about drunken sex?

Q.   Basically I have a problem with drunken sex. So here's the story. I was out Friday night at a party and my cousion brings her friends down and this stunning girl but about 5 years older than me. I have a pretty good wing man though who can usually ...

A.   24 July 2011: Sorry about that no she was not drunk she had a couple but was going out after the party so it was not enough to have an effect. Also I am not asking for your beliefs on drunken sex, just how to control my nerves more if I happen to be doing it ... (read in full...)

How can I overcome my nerves about drunken sex?

Q.   Basically I have a problem with drunken sex. So here's the story. I was out Friday night at a party and my cousion brings her friends down and this stunning girl but about 5 years older than me. I have a pretty good wing man though who can usually ...

A.   23 July 2011: Yeah I suppose there is that but when I'm out I just never think about how much I'm drinking especially when I'm having a good night I never think about it. I just get nervous and I'm a worrier over everything so when it comes to drunken sex which ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend caught me masturbating and said I was cheating!

Q.   Hi everyone, So ive been dating this guy for 2yrs now, and i always ask him to take showers with me and his response everytime is no, then when i was in the shower i was masterbating when he caught me. When i got out of the shower he was so mad a...

A.   13 July 2011: Your guy is crazy. I loved taking showers with previous girlfriends and masturbating in front of me was a real turn on. So it's nothing to be ashamed of. I wouldn't stick around with someone who has reacted like this and I bet he masturbates. So ... (read in full...)

I am 24 and planning to lose my virginity to a prostitute. Any tips for a first-timer?

Q.   Well I'm 24 and still a virgin and really tired of waiting. So I'm looking into losing my virginity to a prostitute in a few weeks. It's legal where I live and weekly STD testing are mandatory for prostitutes. I've given up on finding a girlfr...

A.   13 July 2011: Trust me, there are a lot more people in your situation that you think. 24 is still young and you have your whole life ahead of you! Don't go and sleep with a prostitute just to get it out of the way just wait. There is someone out there for you ... (read in full...)

Kids today indeed!

Q.   I made a joke the other day to my boyfriend, and while it was a little sarcastic and crass, it was true. Let me start this off by saying that this site is a wonderful thing, and I have recieved some very valuable advice from it. I've also been t...

A.   13 July 2011: I totally agree with you, my sister and honestly the majority of my family are or were these girls. I hate it and all the girls I know are pretty much like this because they are the girls I meet through my family. Usually boys, especial... (read in full...)

I know I need to leave him after all his cheating, but I don't know how I will manage on my own, I have nothing without him......

Q.   Dear all my h/b has cheated several times in the past but he promised that he will never cheat again since i had found out, we are talking all though our marraige he has been cheating can he truley stop ? He says he loves me and he was selfish a...

A.   29 March 2011: I honestly believe you should end it. I have never been married and am not any where near the right time for getting married. However, the way I look at relationships is that you should get on chance with a person and if you blow it by cheating you ... (read in full...)

I know I need to leave him after all his cheating, but I don't know how I will manage on my own, I have nothing without him......

Q.   Dear all my h/b has cheated several times in the past but he promised that he will never cheat again since i had found out, we are talking all though our marraige he has been cheating can he truley stop ? He says he loves me and he was selfish a...

A.   29 March 2011: I honestly believe you should end it. I have never been married and am not any where near the right time for getting married. However, the way I look at relationships is that you should get on chance with a person and if you blow it by cheating you ... (read in full...)

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