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Our first kiss was not anything like I imagined it would be!

Q.   me and my long distance boyfriend kissed for the first time today,it is the first kiss ever for both of us. i didnt feel anything although i love him so much,actually the kiss was terrible,it is nothing like i imagined ..he was so nervous and just ...

A.   12 August 2010: Well.if the first kiss sucked it might mean there is not enough attraction between the 2 of u. But u can always kiss him again more times, just to make sure.And if, by then, u do not feel anything- passion and warmth- in his kiss, Girl, I´m tell... (read in full...)

Would you kiss someone back that you weren't attracted to?

Q.   i made the first move and kissed a guy that i like a lot. i think this wasn't a good idea i'm sure it seemed like i was coming on too fast. and also he is acting weird around me. he did kiss me back though and i ended the kiss... but i'm worried ...

A.   12 August 2010: Hello. This is a tough one.You will only know if he likes u if he kisses u or says in ur face thast he likes u. I really don´t know if guys draw back from kissing women they are not attracted to.but men are men.I suppose it is possible.... (read in full...)

How often should I mention 'our future' or should I leave it up to him to bring it up each time?

Q.   Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is almost 32. We have been together for just over a year and discussed marriage from early on. I have acted totally crazy at times by being mistrusting and possessive but seem to be much improved on this front now. ...

A.   12 August 2010: Hello.Well, yes. I think u should give him an opportunity to talk about marriage too.Don't force much on the subject. Just be natural and eventually things will happen.... (read in full...)

Do I break it off with my fiance and try to get back with my high school sweetheart

Q.   Ok here is my Issue. I just got engaged to a guy I have been dating for 7 months. He is a wonderful guy. He takes care of me and puts me first in everything. The problem is every sunday I see my first love. He and i dated for 3 years off and on, and ...

A.   12 August 2010: Hi.Well the first love, so I heard from many people, you never forget.Don't ask me why cause I don´t know the feeling.But u can see it's bloody true.But that does not mean u still love him.U need to see how ur fiancé makes u feel.I u will be happ... (read in full...)

I'm the cheated wife!

Q.   Hi I'm the cheated Wife. My Ex found his true love at work and they both conspired to Divorce their spouses. She has a kid and I've a little boy as well. My ex was not sure in the beginning but she pressured him to get the divorce first and she woul...

A.   12 August 2010: hello. it is indeed a mess of a situation.But you see it is only complicated because people want to. I think it is up to u to have the baby or not.but as for the father u should avoid him.Hhas made up his mind.U need to let him go.If he says he... (read in full...)

When are you supposed to know if the relationship is just physical or there is potential for more?

Q.   so I started casually dating this turkish guy 9 months ago after initially meeting in a nightclub. the first 2-3 months were great, we would speak daily and see each other either every week or every 2 weeks. and i must admit i was extremely happy ...

A.   30 July 2010: It is just physical... (read in full...)

What was your first time like?

Q.   I am a teenage girl. I do not plan on having sex until I find someone I love and they love me back. But I wanted to know , what was your 1st time like? How did it feel? How old were you? What were you thinking? Was it someone you loved? Where was it ...

A.   28 July 2010: First time was with someone i love and i was 19. but it was hurtful. yOU CANNot get any pleasure of it, trust me.but u will further on.... (read in full...)

Advice needed! :)

Q.   OP's own title. hey, i had been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We broke up about 3 weeks ago because i met up with some guy, nothing happened, i just wanted a chat and me and my boyfriend had argued. About a year ago, me and my boyf...

A.   28 July 2010: Hi, u are so young.if he does not want u back.its not the end of the world.U move on and find someone else.u both seem confused-It is best that u both give each other some space to think about the situation, to understand ur real feelings.... (read in full...)

How do I get through to an uncaring boyfriend?

Q.   I have been with my boy almost 3 years now. In the beginning everything was amazing, i fell deeply in love with him and we couldn't take our hands off each other. At the time we both felt like we had truly found the one. After probably 18 mont...

A.   27 July 2010: Just leave him,get over him.He clearly does not know what he wants.stop suffering for someone like that.... (read in full...)

How do I know he's really changed?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We live together, share a life and goals, and he has right out told me that he is in this for "the long haul". During the first 3 or 4 months of our relationship, he continued to "play the field" - ...

A.   27 July 2010: Hum.It seems like he was not ready for a serious relationship, as usually most men aren´t.That is why most of them cheat. They are afraid of commitment.Afraid of getting too attached that if u break up with them, they fall apart. It is possible that... (read in full...)

My wife slept with my best friend on our annniversary!

Q.   my wife slept with my bestfriend, on our 10th year anniversary. We have being married 13 years. She just told me after i found an email from my bestfriend asking her if they could have sex again. I asked her about it and she told me i was not paying ...

A.   27 July 2010: hi.I think u should dump her,since she got caught.Especially if she hasnt emmended herself. What she did was pretty BAD. u deserve better, mate.... (read in full...)

How do I walk away from this married man?

Q.   hey all. am madly in love with a married guy and hate myself but cant walk away. how do i walk away?...

A.   26 July 2010: We all know it is hard, trust me I do.but u really need to avoid him.He will never leave his wife if ure giving him what he lacks. If he loved u back he would leave his wife. Married men are weak.they see things in marriage are not well but they... (read in full...)

My soon to be ex wife wants us to be friends and have sex...but part of me thinks it is wrong. What do you think?

Q.   My soon to be ex wife has very firmly indicated she wants to have sex with me and keep me as her fuck buddy while she is single and has "the need". The irony of this is, she almost never asked for sex during our marriage, and in fact, the lack of ...

A.   26 July 2010: hELLO. I think u should have a more serious conversation with her.If that does not solve the problem u too should split and stay away from each other for a long period of time. I t seems she's got a lot going on inside her head and she can´'t deal... (read in full...)

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