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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: my wife slept with my bestfriend, on our 10th year anniversary. We have being married 13 years. She just told me after i found an email from my bestfriend asking her if they could have sex again. I asked her about it and she told me i was not paying much attention to her. Am a business man so i travel alot, i do it for her and the kids so i can give them what i didn have when i was growing up.shes very sorry, what do i do? The reason i was a day late for our anniversary is that i was making plans to take my family to the bahamas for a week.my flight got cancelled.
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reader, Janice25 +, writes (27 July 2010):
hi.I think u should dump her,since she got caught.Especially if she hasnt emmended herself.
What she did was pretty BAD.
u deserve better, mate.
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female
reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (25 July 2010):
Yep, I agree with male anon; you need a better wife.You get back at your husband for missing your anniversary by throwing his golf clubs out the window, not sleeping with his best friend. Sleeping with your friend is some real passive-aggressive shit, and she did this to hurt and humiliate you. I'm not you, but I don't think I could ever be in a relationship with someone who intentionally meant to harm me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): So let me get this straight. You are working your butt off to provide a better life for her and your family and this includes having to be out of town on a regular basis. So she then cheats on you with a friend while you have to miss your own anniversary and then has the gall to blame you for it.
Brother, you need a better wife. Divorce her and get one that won't be screwing someone else while you are off working.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): You need to leave her now. She is walking all over you, if she felt you were bot giving her enough attention(which is no reason to cheat) then she should have said to you so you could change.And your best friend?! Leave now and tell them that they're discusting people and your off to find real friends and love.
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reader, greencapri54 +, writes (25 July 2010):
the question is why would you want to stay with someone that cheated on you .and worst! she made a promise to god not too sleep with other men! get YOURSELF help and get rid of her! YOU DON'T NEED A WIFE THAT YOU CAN'T TRUST..( you didn't pay enough attention to her!??? what? ...is she a kid and needs a lollipop too?) you better off with out her !!!!!
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reader, greencapri54 +, writes (25 July 2010):
the question is why would you want to stay with someone that cheated on you .and worst! she made a promise to god not too sleep with other men! get YOURSELF help and get rid of her! YOU DON'T NEED A WIFE THAT YOU CAN'T TRUST..(
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reader, Chippy2 +, writes (24 July 2010):
If you dont want it to happen again you better adjust your priorities - Who says the family wants what YOU didnt have growing up? Maybe they just want YOU to be with them more.
There is nothing sadder than to see a woman wither or lay in the arms of another because YOU were a day late. I am not excusing what you did - but late for your 10yr anniversary? and to blame it on a trip you were PLANNING?
Nah - you need to think what matters to you and you need to talk to your wife and find what her needs are. Not just what you are willing to give her.
Good luck
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female
reader, Chippy2 +, writes (24 July 2010):
If you dont want it to happen again you better adjust your priorities - Who says the family wants what YOU didnt have growing up? Maybe they just want YOU to be with them more.
There is nothing sadder than to see a woman wither or lay in the arms of another because YOU were a day late. I am not excusing what you did - but late for your 10yr anniversary? and to blame it on a trip you were PLANNING?
Nah - you need to think what matters to you and you need to talk to your wife and find what her needs are. Not just what you are willing to give her.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): She doesn't deserve you, not on your anniversary, not with your bestfriend. I don't have any kind words here, i'd send her packing. Once she cheats, all trust goes out the window...things will only get worse. She messed up, if she was truly sorry, she'd have told you herself when it happened..Now its just hard to believe.
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