We were great together when we were friends, but now that we're dating... it's different!
Q. Hi there's a girl that I really like and before we started going out we were great together. I could be myself which was amazing because I'd never felt that way around a girl before. Now that we are together feels like she doesn't really care abo...
A. 21 August 2005: Hi Cave! It's difficult to make the transition between just being friends with someone and then going out with them. The problem here could be that you're girlfriend is finding it difficult to adjust to your new relationship - perhaps she's finding ... (read in full...)
I feel rejected because my partner "just doesn't like" having sex during my periods...
Q. I'm wondering whether I'm making a fuss over nothing, as it's hard to get men's honest opinions on this: should I be bothered that my partner "just doesn't like" making love during my periods. For the record, he is not squeamish about anything else ...
A. 14 June 2005: No you're not expecting too much. It's only natural to feel rejected and unwanted in such a situation. I think while many men don't mind having sex during a woman's period, there are men who don't like to do so. Some men are a little frighten... (read in full...)
Did I make a terrible mistake saying I wasn't interested any more?
Q. I have met someone on internet and we got on absolutely famously. He had stated he was attached on his profile but acknowledging his honesty I started communication with him. He turned out to be local and was very honest with informat...
A. 13 June 2005: We all go through things like this, irregardless of age and it is always difficult. What you must ask yourself is do you really want to be with this man, despite the fact that t5hings are quite complicated in his life, or did you just send that ... (read in full...)
My ex says she's pregnant with our baby, but she keeps the promise of our getting back together just out of reach...
Q. Hi, me and my girlfriend split up 2 months ago and I couldn't leave her alone at all, which made her angry at me and hate me. Two weeks ago she told me she was pregnant with my child and was 3 months gone. This has made me happy and I really w...
A. 13 June 2005: You need to give your ex some space. She's just reached a crossroads in her life where she is pregnant is probably still trying to adjust to the idea and what it means for her and her life. I know it's frustrating, especially when you feel the way ... (read in full...)
My b/f says she's an old family friend, but when he sees her, it's like I don't exist...
Q. My boyfriend has an old family friend that he totally gets lost in when he is with her. He ignores my calls when he is at her house. When we see her, he acts like he has never seen me before will not hold my hand or be lovey dovey, as he usually is. ...
A. 13 June 2005: That is quite strange and you have every right to feel the way you do. What you need to do is talk to him about this. It is probable that he doesn't even realise that he is acting this way and upseting you. You need to let him know how your feeling ... (read in full...)
Too scared to ask him out, since he rejected me 3 years ago!
Q. Hi! I'm hoping someone can help me I am in a really strange situation. I've been in love with my ex-boyfriends best friend (for years!). We all get on really well together and even though I've been split from my ex for over 5 years we are st...
A. 13 June 2005: Hi! I was in the same situation as you a few years ago and my advice to you would be to go for it! You've had feelings for this guy for years and although you did ask him over a few years ago, things change in a few years and so do people. You sa... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend softening me up for a letdown?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we've recently hit trouble. We don't do anything exciting anymore and he recently told me he sometimes thinks of me more as a friend than his girlfriend. Is this normal or is he letting me ...
A. 6 June 2005: It sounds to me from what you said that you are both quite unhappy in your relationship. What you need to do is to talk to him about where you stand. Tell him exactly how you're feeling and where you would like things to go. You won't know how he ... (read in full...)
Dating is harder than it needs to be, because I don't like small talk...
Q. I don't like making small talk and more often than not can't think of things to say. This is making dating hard. Any suggestions?...
A. 6 June 2005: You are thinking about it too much! Just be yourself when you're on a date. Remember your date is probably as nervous as you. Start by asking your date about themselves e.g. what they like to do in their spare time, about their family etc. People ... (read in full...)
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