I'm happily married but fell for a colleaque! What shall I do?
Q. I know this sounds crazy-I am truly happily married but fell for a colleague who's been dating someone else (not seriously) for a while. I've been trying to hide this feeling by being just a helpful friend to him. Not sure if he suspects anything. ...
A. 15 December 2005: what do you want to happen? do you really want this colleague to know you fancy him? do you really want to jeopardise your marriage for a schoolgirl crush? because thats what this is.
Perhaps you need to do something to spice up your marriage. Alth... (read in full...)
I poured my heart out - did I blow it?
Q. Everywhere I read it says not to let your ex-girlfriend know how you feel and that you still care. But what do I do if already told her everything and still want her back? Is it to late? Thanks...
A. 15 December 2005: Theres nothing wrong with telling your ex girlfriend how you feel. Not telling may preserve your dignity but it can also lead to a lifetime of regret and wondering "what if"?
If you have been honest with her about how you feel you can do no more.... (read in full...)
My best friend is dating and now ignores me. It's very upsetting so am I over reacting?
Q. hiya, i have been best mates with this girl for 3 and a half yrs and we get on really well and have a laugh. but this all ended when she started dating this boy. she has left me on my own for hours standing in the cold because she is to busy with ...
A. 28 November 2005: Hi, Its always difficult when romance comes between friends. it sounds like your friend is in the first flush of love and only has time for him. maybe you will experience a relationship like that in time too. If you have already told her... (read in full...)
What do I do about my horrible best friend?
Q. my best friend is recently being horrible to me and being bitchy. i don't even feel like going to school because of her.what shall i do?...
A. 27 November 2005: Its horrible when someone who is supposed to be a friend treats you this way but avoiding school is avoiding the problem. Best friends dont act like that without good reason. it sounds like she is angry/ upset/ hurt or maybe even jealous. you need ... (read in full...)
Is the grass always greener on the other side? My ex seems to want me back...
Q. Should I get back with my ex? I have been in a serious relationship for 5 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter together and we just now have started living together. We plan to marry, but I love him, I just don't think I'm in love with him. ...
A. 25 November 2005: you say you dont want to hurt anybody and you dont want to get hurt, but if you continue as you are doingg your partner, your daught and you will all be hurt. perhaps you havent kissed your ex but you are still betraying your partner, jeopardising ... (read in full...)
We've had some hard times in our five years together, but is it time to move on now?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship which has so far lasted 5 years. My partner and I have not had an easy run at things, yet I refuse to give up on a relationship which does have some really good times. I have noticed that I have given up all the goo...
A. 25 November 2005: I wonder if the good times are enough to carry this relationship through? It seems you are unable to be yourself in this relationship but you can't be a clone of him either. Who do you really want to be? what are the good things you have given up? ... (read in full...)
My husband leaves me alone while he's off hunting... is it any wonder I think about my ex?
Q. Married, Unhappy and Wanting to be with someone else. I have been married for 2 years but we've been together for 5. My husband like to hunt (that makes me a hunter's widow to those who know my pain)and that keeps him away from home. He eats, br...
A. 24 November 2005: I wonder if you went back to your ex would you be looking for someone else in six years time? it seems six years is about your tolerance level for a relationship and then you need a change. the y say the greass is alsways greener on he otherside and ... (read in full...)
How can I regain his trust?
Q. I have cheated on my boyfriend in the past but so has he!i've been going out with him for 1 year and 4 months and we've split up, seen other people and then got back with each other cos we really loved each other!He's lost all trust in me now and ...
A. 22 November 2005: do you even know what love is? love is trust, love is respect, love is acceptance. Love is what you bring to a relationship, not what you get out of it. This relationship is going nowhere. You are just kidding yourself that you love him when r... (read in full...)
His ex-wife is going to extreme lengths to try to get my fiance back into her life!
Q. I am engaged to a man who loves me dearly. We met 2 years ago and became instant best friends, it was like we had known each other our entire lives. During this time he was finalizing a divorce, his marriage had lasted less than a year. Her one ...
A. 22 November 2005: You want to understand this woman yet you already have a great understanding. As you said, this woman is desperate. all she ever wanted in life was her own baby and now she has found out that can never be. When she found out this devastating news ... (read in full...)
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