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writes: I know this sounds crazy-I am truly happily married but fell for a colleague who's been dating someone else (not seriously) for a while. I've been trying to hide this feeling by being just a helpful friend to him. Not sure if he suspects anything. But it's so hard and sometimes I am afraid that I might have revealed something. What shall I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (15 December 2005):
 If you are truly happily married and you think you will fall for someone, then you would stay away from this collegue and not be a helpful friend. People that are truly in love will not put themselves in this situation that they could actually fall for someone. Please rethink your actions.
Good Luck!
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reader, innermind +, writes (15 December 2005):
what do you want to happen? do you really want this colleague to know you fancy him? do you really want to jeopardise your marriage for a schoolgirl crush? because thats what this is.
Perhaps you need to do something to spice up your marriage. Although happily married its all to easy to lose the excitement and then seek it elsewhere. Avoid this colleague for now until you can get your feelings into perspective, and focus your energies on your marriege instead.
good luck
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (15 December 2005):
 If you are as happily married as you say, you avoid this colleague! You are responsible for your actions here and if you wish to stay in your marriage and keep your work as uncomplicated as possible it is up to you to stay away from this person until you are sure you will not act on your feelings. I really hope that things work out for you, good luck.
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