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I want to get under the covers and play again like when we were 6!

Q.   I have a family friend that i have been attracted to for a long time now. she is beautiful. we have been close since birth. when we were 5 or 6 we used to kiss. we would get under the covers in my bed and just play around for hours, nothing down ...

A.   6 December 2010: You haven't mentioned one word about your friendship as it stands today, except that she beautiful. She is not that 5 or 6 years old she once was. You haven't mentioned your current ages. I sure hope you aren't saying these things envisioning she is ... (read in full...)

Can't buy me love!

Q.   If you were a popular girl in highschool but you thought you liked a really dorky and unattractive guy who you've known all your life and he really likes you, would you go out with him? this is for a friend and i couldnt decide what to tell her...

A.   6 December 2010: I know popularity is a major thing in highschool, but ultimately she should follow her heart and not worry about what other people think. She could be wasting alot of good times at a time in her life that builds some of the best memories we cherish ... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to my sister-in-law!

Q.   Hi I am 26 year old female and I am attracted to my sister in-law she is my sis in-law by my stepbrother we have a very close friendship and I never told her, but one day I had a dream about us messing around and I told her casually about it. ...

A.   6 December 2010: OK I have to say first of all it seems like you are trying to justify crossing the line with your brothers wife because he is your step brother. whether he just became related even by marriage there are some things in life that are just morally ... (read in full...)

Could he possibly be bi and hasn't discovered it?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've been in love with my bestfriend for about 5 months. I am 18 years old and my bestfriend is 17 but is very mature for his age. He has no idea how i feel about him. He claims he is gay and is only attracted to men but sometimes he ...

A.   6 December 2010: I know of NO straight men that would say they were gay when in fact they were not. he may be bi curious, for a woman that is. He may not see you as a sexual being, in that because you are a good friend he doesn't think of you in a sexual way. Maybe ... (read in full...)

No, means no!

Q.   I met this guy when I was walking home from university the other night, we talked and I ended up getting his number. Last night he came over to my place to "hang out" and he all but told me he loved me! We did kiss, and he seemed to want more as ...

A.   6 December 2010: I say get away from him as fast as you can. His persitance when you said to back off the first time tells you he doesn't like or respect being told NO. I would just avoid him altogether, no explanations. Do tell a friend in case so they know who ... (read in full...)

I'm still not over her!

Q.   I've recently had a lot of trouble getting over a break up. It happened a few months ago and I'm still not over her. I feel the reasons were unjust and upon asking again why, the same reasons...I could talk to nearly anyone about it before but now I ...

A.   6 December 2010: I am sorry you are hurting. It is normal, but no less painful hearing that. You are not less of a man for feeling this way, nor admitting it. we have all been there. After a break up, even one initiated by myself, there is still hurt and anger. You ... (read in full...)

We took a break for him to be sure I am the one, and he slept with so many women! Now we are back together he doesn't trust me, what do I do?

Q.   We took a break for ten months just so that he was sure i am the one wants to spend the rest of his life with but now i have changed as i am pissed and hurt because he slept with so many women now we are together and he says he doesnt trust me.... ...

A.   6 December 2010: I would suggest first and foremost you go get medically checked for your own sexual health well being.With that said and done, most men that accuse of someone of cheating, is doing so themselves and trying to take the focus off of their actions. ... (read in full...)

Domestic Violence- The Necklace

Q.   So this is my story of surviving domestic violence. When people say that phrase they pre-judge i bet your thinking i'm in my late 30's/ 40's had a history of violence from my childhood? Maybe live in a poor area? Well your wrong, i'm 23, it happened ...

A.   6 December 2010: This is not your fault! You have every right to confront your mate if they behave in any way that is disrespectful to you or your relationship. I do hope you did infact leave after the first occurence, as seldom do. The promises are always the same ... (read in full...)

I've fallen in love with a female co worker but I have a boyfriend

Q.   I am very confused and am struggling with something, and I have nobody to talk to about this.. I will try to keep this short and concise... I am in a commited relationship with a wonderful guy. He is so sweet. There are no issues with us a...

A.   6 December 2010: There is a very easy solution to most of your questions. First, sit down with this amazing woman, as you put it and lay your thoughts out to her. Explain if it not reciprocated on her end, you would like to remain friends and put some distance ... (read in full...)

He called me a prostitute! I'm his mistress!

Q.   I'm having an affair with a married man. Well today his wife caught us in a hotel and called me a prostitute? Then she started fighting my man and in the midst he told her I didn't mean nothhing to him but a prostitute! Wtf?! I'm a mistress! Will ...

A.   6 December 2010: First I sorry that you are hurting, regardless of my opinion in the matter,I have sympathy for anyone who suffers hurt, even when we make mistakes and bring it on ourselves. Hurt is hurt and is painful to the soul. HER man and she is experiencing it ... (read in full...)

He is separated from his wife, but they are yet to proceed with a divorce. Does this count as cheating?

Q.   I had sex with a guy who has been separated from his wife for a year. He has a 2 year old daughter with his wife, and that is why he claims it is "complicated" and they have not yet decided whether to move forward with the divorce. Does that count ...

A.   6 December 2010: I agree with Honeypie, this is considered adultry regardless of their seperation status or not. This divorce would not be the first divorce where a child has had to suffer as the new lifestyle takes place (Daddy not around everyday).And won't be the ... (read in full...)

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