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Should I just go for it? She wants more and I do too.
Q. She said she wants more, and said i need to take chances. I think (i kinda know) she wants to move below the waist. She likes to go into things fast so should i just do it, or should i move into it? (going below i mean) ...
A. 28 May 2009: thanks. btw idk if were gonna go that far yet, but shes on the pill.... (read in full...)
Why do I love her?
Q. we got into a little argument, and after we got everything worked out she asked me what my reason for loving her was. i told her bc i cared about her, and that its amazing just being with her. she said that wasnt a reason. shes asked me twice, but ...
A. 28 May 2009: thank you for helping!... (read in full...)
Text and sex with the ex
Q. Me and my x have been flirting by text. We haven't been with new people still going through divorce. Is it wrong to have text sex then maybe even hook up, knowing our marriage is still over?...
A. 17 May 2009: even if you dont stay together, dont just leave. you should still talk, see how each other are doing. have lunch every now and then. talk about your new relationships! just be freinds. : )... (read in full...)
5 Ways to Keep Love Alive
Q. 1. Communicate regularly. There are three types of communication in relationships: informational, disruptive, and connective. Informational communication includes facts or requests like, “We need milk, can you pick some up on your way home?” ...
A. 17 May 2009: i agree, and communication is definantly the MOST important part. there are so many people on here, talking about something being wrong and not understanding why their partner is acting that way. and my answers always end up the same, ASK THEM!!! ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't I be the one who is mad?
Q. Okay my boyfriend/bestfriend of 8 years on and off cheated on me and i found out by calling a number in his phone. Then he gets mad at me for calling her and tells me mean hurtful things. Then he changed his number on me. Shouldnt i of been the one ...
A. 17 May 2009: you should, but you shouldnt have been calling #s in his phone. he should be mad to. theres a reason he was cheating on you, and it sounds like you dont trust each other and/or dont have boundries, everyone needs their own space w/ things no one ... (read in full...)
We fight soo much!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time- almost a year and a half. I love him to death but we fight SO much. I feel like if i am with someone i love then i should be happy, but i'm always upset or mad, rarely happy.We broke up last ...
A. 17 May 2009: tell him this. explain to him that he doesnt apoligize. “fighting” is how you learn and understand and solve your problems. BOTH of you need to talk about whats wrong, so its ok to fight about things, as long as you still love each other in the end. ... (read in full...)
My b/f's ex reveals she likes me
Q. my best friend's ex gf reavels she 'likes' me after breaking up with him. although i like her too, she says we can't date because of the fact that she wants to leave in peace. what should I do to convince her to give ourselves a chance? i'd ...
A. 17 May 2009: tell your bf, ask him if its ok and DO NOT FORGET to tell him that she doesnt want this to be a problem. tell him what she told you and make sure he understands. the worst he could say would be no, and dont ruin your friendship if he does. ; )... (read in full...)
Worried that he wont like me when he sees me
Q. ok so here it is. i am really nervous.. this boy (a friends, friend) and i have been talking on msn and he asked me out. ive said yes and we are going to meet in a weeks time. i have met him twice like with my friends always liked him but didnt kn...
A. 17 May 2009: idk about the braces, but from what ive heard they shouldnt get in the way. just start slow and see what its like. if he asked you out itll be fine. : ) ... (read in full...)
How do I get him alone?
Q. i am 15 and so is he. i really like him and i think its a possibility that he could like me back. what i really want to know though is how to get him away from the group. we are going on a camping trip with a load of friends and i want to make the ...
A. 17 May 2009: im a guy, so i know that its lot easier to just tell him you like him. (guys need it simple). i understand why you would want to be alone, and if your going to just tell him you like him then you can pull him away from the group. or tell him you ... (read in full...)
Suddenly there is this distance between us. I don't know what went wrong!
Q. I m 18 year old.n in luv wth a classmate of mine for past 8 year. nothng changed but i dont know why a distance grew betweem us. he is the same but i dont know what went wrong? ...
A. 17 May 2009: maybe thats the problem, no change and its always the same. you need to talk to him about it bc he doesnt know what youre thinking. it cant hurt anything ; )... (read in full...)
I'm not allowed to hang about with her any more...
Q. My good friend just started dating someone who is not that great of a guy. He smokes, he does drugs, has sex and is only 15. My mom told me that if he is hanging out with her I'm not allowed to hang out with her but I want to, she's my friend....
A. 17 May 2009: he may not really be like that, and people do change. i was like that (w/o) the sex. i cant really tell you what you should do. i wouldnt listen to my mom, but i think you should find a way to talk to your friend about this.... (read in full...)
He's my best friend, but I love him otherwise, how do I approach this?
Q. Hello! im 16 years old girl and im inlove with my bestfriend! he's a great guy and all of our class's are together and we talk and see each other like 24/7 and he keeps saying i love you but i know he means it as a (friendship kinda love) he k...
A. 17 May 2009: i agree, you need to tell him. relationships btween friends are easier and usually last longer. my gf is my best friend bc she took a chance and told me she liked me when we barely knew each other. he does like you, but i dont think either of you ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Torn between the two...
Q. Dear Cupid, I been dating this boy for 5 months and the relationship is boring. He acts different around his friends and at school he acts like he doesnt see me. For the past week this other boy came along and he is always there. He likes me and I...
A. 17 May 2009: you choose who makes you happy, but if youre going to choose the other guy then you need to break up with youre bf NICELY.... (read in full...)
He's so 'hot' and 'cold' with me, I don't think I love him anymore..
Q. over the past 5 months I have been having an on and off relationship with my boyfriend. Although he's been acting really off lately and hardly talks to me anymore, leaving me to start conversations. I've asked him if he's okay and he seems fine. I ...
A. 17 May 2009: tell him how you feel. if you need to end it, or “take a break” then just stay freinds. whatever you do, dont cheat on him.... (read in full...)
I SAW the email from her, confronted him and now he's angry with ME!
Q. hi, my boyfriend recieved an email from a woman it said Hi, Thank you for your diary. Have a nice evening. It was nice to spend time with you. again we do it bye Smiler I asked him about this. all he said was that he has ...
A. 17 May 2009: if youre bf cheats on you he doesnt deserve a second chance. you gave him a third. you can do better than him, but the choice is up to you.... (read in full...)
How do I move to the next step with him?
Q. Apologies, this is going to be long. I've met this guy, all we've done is kissed, but we're not going out. There are things he has said that makes me think he wants more than a fling, but at the same time i don't really know where I stand. ...
A. 17 May 2009: he definantly wants more. if you really want to know what he wants or how he sees you , you should just ask. itll be a lot easier for both of you. believe me im a guy, guys need it simple. : )... (read in full...)
I don't know if he cares about me but I still love him after everything.
Q. hey, i lost a guy who meant the world to me a while ago he was my first love and best friend for four years, and he left without saying why. the only one i can think of is that hes moving away, and he is trying to help me let go because he saw how ...
A. 17 May 2009: he does still care about you. if hes moving away, and hasnt given you a reason for the way hes been acting its probably because he doesnt feel like he has any other choice. you need to tell him how you feel and even if you cant keep a bf/gf ... (read in full...)
She doesn't believe me! She wants me to prove it! She wants more! What do I do??
Q. ok, idk what to do so i was thinking someone might be able to help. ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months, but she “doesnt believe me” when i tell her i love her. (i do). but its a little more complicated than that, she wants me to show her i ...
A. 16 May 2009: i dont think she wants me to “prove” anything, she just wants to understand. and i want her to.... (read in full...)
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