Any tips on making friends?
Q. So my problem is I can't make friends. I mean I hang out with a group of people at school but we don't talk outside of school or anything and so it feels like I have no friends. I am in clubs and stuff but I can't seem to make friends. I've lived in ...
A. 25 January 2010: Well - this is not a hopeless situation at all! You are almost there...you have a group of people you hang out with at school and you're in clubs which means that you already have some people around you who have common interests. The thing is that ... (read in full...)
Lapse of judgement or liar
Q. I have been in a relationship with a man for about a year. He recently moved in to my house. He tends to be a bit odd he has been cheated on and so- he tends to peek thru my phone and I don't mind because I have done nothing wrong. I had anouther ...
A. 25 January 2010: When you saw her phone number for last weekend do you know if they talked or maybe she called and he didn't answer? It's interesting that he knows how much it hurts be be cheated on and lied to and yet there's a possibility that he's doing that to ... (read in full...)
I'm really falling for him but I'm terrified he'll get over me.
Q. My boyfriend and I (both 22) have been dating about 5 months. Things are going pretty well, he said he loved me three wks ago, but we don't talk as much as I would like. We can only really see each other twice a week (because of hour distance btwn ...
A. 25 January 2010: He said he loves you and guys don't just let that slip out if they don't mean it. He obviously cares about you. My husband and I have been doing the long distance relationship for the past two years. He travels for work and so is gone for a month ... (read in full...)
.....i know what I should do- but why cant I do it?
Q. I really don't know where to start...i met a guy a year back- he has just broken up with his girlfriend at the time..he made me feel good (i am a very pretty girl- he is also good looking- but we connected at a different level), the first guy who i ...
A. 25 January 2010: The way people look on the outside is obviously irrelevant because this guy is very ugly on the inside and I can't understand why you would even consider for a minute a purely physical relationship with him when he doesn't care about you. He's ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend bailed on me and is now on dating site...
Q. I have been dating this guy for almost two months. (we are both in our late 30s) A couple of weeks ago he began acting a bit distant when we were apart which made me concerned so I ended up doing some poking around and found out that he did ...
A. 25 January 2010: I'm sorry you're hurt and I'm sorry he's not giving you answers to why he freaked emotionally. It's always hard to get over a relationship when you don't understand where things went wrong but sometimes that's just what happens...Maybe initially he ... (read in full...)
We had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of things
Q. I've been dating this guy for only 2 weeks and he's been saying he loves me since before we even started dating. He's always been a really good friend of mine and well we had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of ...
A. 25 January 2010: I'm sorry the experience wasn't filled with other, more positive, emotions. Think through things - what are you regretting? You can't change regrets but you can change things going forward. And the doubts - well, we're women...we can think ... (read in full...)
Does our relationship have potential, or are we just friends?
Q. I am completely confused. Completely! I've been getting close with this guy for the past month and a half. It's been one thing after another. First, I was hesitant because I thought he was still with this girl. Actually I still don't know whats go...
A. 19 January 2010: The only way you'll know is if you talk to him about it. He seems like a very sweet guy. Let him know what you like about him and see if he's willing to give a relationship with you a try.
Hmmm...I need to follow my own advice :) Why does it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend needs to be more motivated...
Q. I have recently got back from a year travelling. My boyfriend and I met one year before I went and as it was something I always wanted to do I decided to go anyway and we decided to try and make it work as we really liked each other. We worked at ...
A. 19 January 2010: Well, there do seem to be a lot of stressors in your relationship right now but I guess that's a good time to see what the relationship is really made of. If you guys can communicate through all of this and come out stronger then great, but if ... (read in full...)
I wanna lose weight! Any tips?
Q. can someone help me understand how many calories I might have to eat a day to lose weight.. I am 27 yrs old I weigh approx. 205lbs and am 5'7 , I did the bmr math thing but it doesn't seem to be rite.. im hoping to lose 2lbs a week if possible. ...
A. 19 January 2010: Check out www.sparkpeople.com
It's a great website where you can enter your height/weight/how many pounds you want to lose per week and the site tells you what calorie range/exercise goals would be appropriate for you to say within in order fo... (read in full...)
Spicing up the sex life.. advice on confidence and outfits!
Q. hi everyone! basically i want to buy some sexy outifts/lingerie for myself so that i can bring something new and spice up the sex life.. but im very self conscious and havent let him see me fully naked or anything in the time iv been dating him! im ...
A. 19 January 2010: First of all - congrats on keeping things exciting! One of the most important things is confidence and as women we all have our areas that we wish we could change but guys aren't near as critical about us as we are about ourselves so rest easy ... (read in full...)
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