My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me. How can I deal with this?
Q. I've been dating this girl since August, but recently she built up the courage to call me and tell me how back in November, she got very drunk and accidentally slept with this guy. She was all in tears about it, and she truly seemed like she was ...
A. 27 January 2010: "I got very drunk and accidentally the whole thing", is a classic.
Play it cool, and deal with it how you want. Calm, cool, and confident will ALWAYS pays off in the end.... (read in full...)
Tried to hack my girlfriends hotmail and got locked out! how can I tell her?
Q. i tried to log onto my girlfriends hotmail and got the password wrong too many time and now she has to enter security questions and is going to know that i tried to hack her account. how can i say i did it by accident?...
A. 27 January 2010: don't ever read or want to read your partners emails.
you might as well tell her now, because this relationship officially has issues. as do you. you learn. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend buys porno mags and hides them but I don't understand!
Q. I was 17 when I fell for my brothers best friend. He was 25. He lived in Alabama and I lived in Michigan but he had come up to visit and that's when we got together. I moved to Alabama on my 18th birthday and I am now 21 years old and he is 28 ...
A. 27 January 2010: Never, ever, take "guys and their porn" personally. Porn allows a man to get a certain something done and finished quickly and easily... don't know how to be anymore vague than that lol. Some of us need to do that certain deed every day, others a ... (read in full...)
I was raped and need advice on what to do
Q. i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security ...
A. 27 January 2010: you're lucky. you have had an experience/trauma few get to go through. but through your life you will meet and find, perhaps even help, so many others that will be going through what you went through, and are going through now.
what would yo... (read in full...)
Feeling sad! I don't think my boyfriend is the one but don't want to end it either!
Q. Im in my mid twenties, living at home, have a good steady job and a boyfriend of 7 years. I am now utterly depressed. My boyfriend and I were about to fill out a form for a flat but i just broke down in tears and couldn't face doing it. Problem is, ...
A. 27 January 2010: you have to have faith in yourself. you have to know that you are the ONE, and live accordingly. right now, you don't think he's the one, and yet from what you said your ENTIRE life is dependent on him.
it's all you. if you can't be happy an... (read in full...)
Got back with my gf and she wont get over me sleeping with someone else!
Q. My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me and i slept with someone else because i thought there was no chance that we would get back together. Now we are back together she cant get over it and keeps making me feel really guilty about it ...
A. 27 January 2010: now is your chance to make this the defining moment of this relationship.
sit her down, explain what she did, explain what you did, and why. and if she can't move on, YOU CAN. and end it.... (read in full...)
She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.
Q. Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my f...
A. 27 January 2010: you know the answer.
the only thing you CAN do is end the relationship and move on. the kid is yours (...or is it?). and make sure she knows it, and you want to take care of it, and a part of its life. but as far as you and her are concerne... (read in full...)
Will his children ever forgive me for breaking up their family?
Q. About a year ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. Well, shortly after that, a family member of his (whom I've always been attracted to but never thought anything would ever happen because he was married) contacted me to consol me for my ...
A. 26 January 2010: Is it your fault? Do the children really not have their "daddy" anymore?
The question you have to ask yourself is, is it you, or was it the marriage? That marriage might have ended anyways, maybe not as soon, but perhaps at some time. Perhaps it w... (read in full...)
I suffer from really bad anxiety attacks, can anyone help me???
Q. I am a 'survivor' I suppose you would say...but when do you stop trying and give up? Hope is all that has kept me going. I suffer from anxiety; have done for 20 years. This takes the form of panic attacks, sometimes agoraphobia. I have deep seated f...
A. 26 January 2010: There are clearly two of you, of us. I can see it clearly in yourself as well myself, and everyone else. Anxiety is horrible; but look what it brings to your attention.
A part of you wants more; to do more, to make more of your life and to bring... (read in full...)
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