I consider myself average in all aspects, is it a hindrance?
Q. Hello there, i would like to know readers' honest opinions as to why i just can't get a boyfriend. People i know tell me I'm attractive, and i do get hit on by random guys, but i would like to know why i can't find someone who is genuinely ...
A. 19 March 2008: Hi, Akay .... you have mentioned that you are average in everything i.e looks etc. What you need to do is stop looking! from NOW! your Mr Right will come to you. Thats it stop looking you might feel bored and impatient but trust me he will find ... (read in full...)
Is he too perfect for me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I love him, he's too perfect for me, but I can and will exist without him. I met him two years ago, he knocked me off my feet then left to go overseas. After a month of intoxicating deep emails, i visited him overseas. When we were fac...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi,
He sounds to perfect, so perfect that its all a lie. If he didnt want to be with who he is with now he would be with you it sounds like he is enjoying the excitment of having someone run after him but also ahving a girlfriend at the same tim... (read in full...)
Please tell me how can I get through this heartache?
Q. I'm quite young, actually, and I do think I'm too young to experience actual love. But, I've been suffering through unrequited love for 3 years. It seemed great to have a friend who I had this feeling about. But I guess I was too late, and someth...
A. 14 March 2008: HUney i know it hurts to get your heart broken but ther has got to be a reason whyyour realtionship with him as a friend has just died like that. You need to talk to him see if hes still the same with you. So waht if your friend likes him you are ... (read in full...)
Very attracted to my cousin, should I act on it?
Q. i really like my cousin she and i are both 15 and i think she really likes me also. i desperately wanna kiss her make out and all that stuff because shes got nice boobs nice posterior hot body unbelievable attractive face. what should i do, i just ...
A. 14 March 2008: 1. You cant
2. Shes your cousin
3. You just cant what you need to do is go out and find someone you are not related to.... (read in full...)
Is he just being friendly or what?
Q. there is a man in a shop i go in he is georgous and we have started talking . and he always smiles and says hello and when we talk he looks me straight in the eyes does he fancy me or do you think he is just being friendly...
A. 14 March 2008: You wont know if he likes you until you go out together try dropping a hint in 1 of the conversations like have been to that resturant or something like that. True say he could just be being friendly but you arent going to know until you both go ... (read in full...)
Is it selfish to expect this from a close friend?
Q. Here's the scenario: Before my friend Vicky's birthday, she went clubbing with my ex and one of my ex's friends. My ex and I had a really bad break up and she knew that he hurt me pretty bad by cheating on me. Anyways, she invited him thinking that ...
A. 14 March 2008: No she shouldnt have invited him in the 1st place. He is your ex and she must know that you had a bad break up what im trying to say is that she was out of order for doing that she knew that you were going to be there with your boyf so why did she ... (read in full...)
He says he needs time to think if we are compatible, how much time am I to wait?
Q. My boyfriend (of a little more than a year) and I recently had a small spat, but it seems to be a culmination of little unhappinesses lately. He says he needs time to think about whether we are compatible. I'm giving him that time, but at the same ...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi,
You need to sit down and talk to him your not a dog so dont waste time waiting for him if you dont even know that there is a chance he will want to get back with you. Ask him what hes thinking does he want to be with you or not dont let him ... (read in full...)
Why am I nervous about having sex with an older guy?
Q. Have you ever been scared to have sex with someone who is alot older then you? Especially ten year diff. I cant figure out why im nervous to and im not a virgin but iv never had sex with someone who was older then me. Im 22. ...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi,
You probably just nervous because you have never been with someone who is ten years older than you. Dont let himforce you if your not comfortable then dont do it because you wont enjoy it. ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to overcome my shyness?
Q. My ex bf broke up with me because his friends didnt like me. They thought I was weird because I am quiet/shy and dont drink. Whenever I would go out with him and his mates and I wouldnt say much, as soon as they would leave he would start yelling ...
A. 14 March 2008: HI,
It isnt right that your ex boyfriend dumped you because his friends didnt like you to be honest that just pathetic and imature, if someone likes you that much then they would understand that it takes you a while to feel comfortable aroud pe... (read in full...)
Ex made video on youtube saying I have emotional problems! Now he's saying he still loves me, what does all this mean?
Q. My stupid ex had a youtube video made about us about 6 months ago and for the comments he put things like how i had emotional problems and that's why we're not together. Truthfully, though, I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive. ...
A. 14 March 2008: I dont mean to be rude but look how he treated you i dont see why you care that he has said stuff like that if i was you id let him know his place and write back to him on you tube saying hes got no chance if he wants you back he will have to prove ... (read in full...)
I really like both of the girls, but I don't want to have to go through anyone cheating on me again!
Q. Ok, my gf and i were doing really well until i caught her with another guy. I broke up with her and i got another gf. Then today, my old gf comes to me and begs me to come back to her, and that she was really sorry. I really like both of the ...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi,
If i was you i wouldnt get back with her. I know its gay but once a cheater always a cheater. She shouldnt have done what she did in the 1st place really, she cant have liked you that much can she?. Stay with the girl you are with now you obvi... (read in full...)
I feel as though I am virgin again, having a new partner. Any advice? Anyone ever felt this way before?
Q. I've only have had one sex partner and we're not togather anymore. I'm in a relationship now and it's becoming sexual but i'm nervous to have sex with him. He says it's always the first time with someone new. I feel like i'm starting out as a virgin ...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi,
Yes i have felt this way before, i have had about 4 proper relationships and none of them i have felt comfortable with my boyfriend seeing me naked. I am now in a relationship and i feel really comfortable with him, the way i see it i cant hav... (read in full...)
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