Why cant I stop having sex with this married guy, I don't even like??
Q. I am having a affair with a married man at work. I see him at least once a week when he comes into work in the AM, which is when we have sex, before I go home to my boyfriend of 15 years, who I really do love. The man I am having the affair with ...
A. 3 December 2007: You should not try to look into consequences but reasons why is something happening. The reasons why is this satisfying and unsatisfying in the same time for you. try to see a bigger picture: what are the things in life you appreciate? what would ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent
Q. My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent. I have always been faithful to my wife, but we have on a few occasions attended swingers parties and through them hooked up and had sex with other couples. We have been married fou...
A. 29 November 2007: Experiences are crucial for the way we percieve the world. Once you have some experience it becomes normal to you. You say it happened to me so it is probably happening to others too, so it's acceptable.
You need to say to yourself openly w... (read in full...)
How long will a guy wait for sex??
Q. So heres just a general question to see what everyones point of view is. How long is a unreasonable amount of time to expect a guy to wait for sex? What I mean is, say a girl isnt ready to have sex with her bf (whether she be a virgin or not) but...
A. 29 November 2007: my experience is I can have sex with anybody oposite sex looking normal any time any place.
But, to make love I need at least two months of liking somebody intensivly. This doesn't mean casual sex can't turn into love making but it's less lik... (read in full...)
We still make love after the break up but he won't get back with me officially!
Q. My ex and I broke up a month ago we still say we love each other and make love and he says he doesn't want to get back together and that because he wants to see what else is out there and i am so lonely without him do u know what i should do??...
A. 16 November 2007: There are no compromises in love. He is either all yours or he is history. Tell him that and stick to it and he might chase you back. Tell him you need love he can give, not him and that he is replaceable. If you don't do this you will be hurt and ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my crush?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't satisfy me enought lately. He's always says he's tired and I have to beg for more. I really love him no matter what, but there's another I am crushing on and wanting to have sex with. What should I do? thank...
A. 15 November 2007: You have planned your collage. You plan your shopping or going out to the city!
You need to plan your love life. you need to have a goal! If you are not having direction, life will choose it for you.
Think strategically. Would you like this to... (read in full...)
She feels dirty.
Q. Alright...I recently found out that my girlfriend of over a year and half cheated on me. This guy kissed her and tried to put the "moves" on her but she said she stopped it. She said this guy made her feel like I used to make her feel when we were ...
A. 15 November 2007: You are less then 22! Ditch now!You need to move on. Date other women. Tell her you can be friends and move on! It's a must. Trust me on this. Once this sort of mindset is established it will be extremely hard to undo it.
move on. she will lik... (read in full...)
Advice on MFM threesome... I'm a little nervous.
Q. I am about to have my first MMF threesome with my boyfriend and another guy, both straight. I am a little nervous and just wondered can anyone give me some advice? Its all going to be at my pace, I wondered should I have the new guy first, then my ...
A. 15 November 2007: I agree with Eddie. if your guy is fine with this and you are nervous then think weather his fantasies are more important then you? He is fine sharing you with another guy, is he then the right one? also think more strategically about this. Once ... (read in full...)
Why are there double standards when it comes to men and women having sex?
Q. why is it that if a guy sleeps around hes just being a lad and its alright cos hes having fun, but if a girl sleeps around shes a slag and a slut and dirty... even if she just wants to have fun why is this?...
A. 14 November 2007: THIS IS NOT TRUE!!!
Women don't like men that sleep around!!! At least mature, attractive high quality women!
Would you like to have a guy who had casual sex all the time, who does not know how to connect emotionally or who does not respect... (read in full...)
Is nsa sex ok with my friend??
Q. I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready fo...
A. 29 October 2007: What do you want in life? I mean in future? Would you like to have a boyfriend that is realy a fantastic man? The one that you respect? The one that is THE MAN! Would you like to meet that big love of your life? Would you like to experience deep ... (read in full...)
Why do our cultures teach boys that women who are sexually active are "damaged goods”?
Q. I have seen so many postings by men of all ages who are having problems dealing with the sexual past of their girlfriends or wives. As many of you know from reading my posts, I have been one of them. These teachings were figuratively beat into my ...
A. 29 October 2007: I am really sick of this men-women discussion and would like to talk about people who have and people who do not have SELFRESPECT no matter which gender. I will repeat this to all people on this blog: If you sleep with somebody just becouse you are ... (read in full...)
What is the right age to start having sex?
Q. What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...
A. 27 October 2007: what age???? Come on! You can't decide it's 16, it's legal and now I'm gonna find somebody for sex.Look at circumstances. If you are drunk and are in the bed with somebody you met third time in your life then it would be catastrophy even if you are ... (read in full...)
Why is it that at the age of 21 I've never had a boyfriend, been kissed or had sex?
Q. I'm 21 years old, never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, and definitely never had sex. I'm always the girl "guy-friend" if that makes sense. I just feel like something is wrong with me especially on the aspect of having never been kissed. I feel ...
A. 26 October 2007: YOU ARE NOT HOPELESS! This is one of the most normal of many mails I red till now. You haven't felt close to anybody till now but that will come. Just patience and live up to your standards. Don't fall for the story about experience and changing ... (read in full...)
Does he think I'm easy?
Q. Hi i'm 20 and i met this guy at uni...for the whole year we've been doing the whole eye contact, showing up at the usual places, small wave and a smile sort of thing and only at the end of the year we actually got together. We hung out and had a ...
A. 26 October 2007: This is great! You are a great girl and not easy at all. Get to know him better, just to see if your hormones and brain sys the same. If he stays careful and has patience just enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)
Why do our cultures teach boys that women who are sexually active are "damaged goods”?
Q. I have seen so many postings by men of all ages who are having problems dealing with the sexual past of their girlfriends or wives. As many of you know from reading my posts, I have been one of them. These teachings were figuratively beat into my ...
A. 26 October 2007: I DO NOT AGREEE! I think this goes both genders. Women who respect themselves don't want to have ex male sluts for boyfriends and husbands! I do not want to have emotional relationship with somebody who considers sex as sport or fun but with som... (read in full...)
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