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... Send *ighland Help a private message | | | *ighland Help's profile:I am in my early 40's and I am recently married for the first time but have been in a couple of relationships previously. I am a professional engineer as well as having other outdoor interests and live in Scotland. I have always had time to sit down and listen to friends problems and give advise and would look to assist on here by helping people learn from my own experiences as well as those of my friends. |
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I'm gay but I think I'm turning and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi i have been gay for nearly 7 years and am currently in a relationship. however for a while now i have developed feelings for girls. Recently i was in a potential situation where something could have happened however i stayed away so it couldn't ...
A. 19 April 2006: I think having been a gay man you certainly need to have some health checks done for the sake of the girls you may sleep with just in case you have picked anything up and you do not know about it. It is only fair to your new partner. So have you ... (read in full...)
We love eachother but he doesn't want me to tell anyone we've said it, is something wrong?
Q. Hi, I just told my boyfriend of 10 months that I loved him on Easter, it took em a long time to say it (seriously, 20 minutes)and in fact my bf helped me out by asking if what I wanted to tell him was that I loved him.. I said yes and then was ...
A. 19 April 2006: You need to sit down and ask him why he is so concerned about you saying anything to anybody. You both sound very young and maybe you just need to learn to talk to each other.... (read in full...)
He's lied to me many times and when I suggested getting him a present he freaked out, what do I do?
Q. Hi there. On July 3rd 2006, me and my boyfriend will have been together for a full year, and I wanted to get him something special, so i thought i could get him a plain silver ring with my name engraved on it. Nothing too expensive and nothing ...
A. 19 April 2006: Lots of alarm bells going off here, I do not think he is being honest with you and does not have the nerve to say he just does not want to get married or commit long term.
If he lies to you constantly you really need to consider walking I am afra... (read in full...)
No sex from my husband for a whole year, and I'm sure he's not cheating... Is this possible?
Q. I have been with my husband for 7 yrs now and we have not had sex for 1 whole yr. It's not me. I'm very sexual with the person I love but I don't know what his problem is. He just doesn't touch me anymore. I used to try but got tired of being re...
A. 19 April 2006: You really need to go to counselling I think he still loves you by the sounds of things and you need to find a way to approach the problem and resolve it. Do not worry and do not do anything silly in the meantime and stop worrying till you have both ... (read in full...)
Can our profound love and care for each other get us past the fact that I feel starved for sex?
Q. HELP!!!...boyf has low/erratic sex drive. I am a female in my mid 20’s. My boyfriend is in his late 30’s. He is the most wonderful man I have met. He has had A LOT of problems in his life, I can’t even begin to explain them all, but he is a nice d...
A. 17 April 2006: Sounds like you have a good man and a good realtionship and I do not believe that is worth losing because he is not a rampant stallion 24hrs a day. I would stick with it and try and be affectionate as often as you can and you are feeling frustrated ... (read in full...)
Problem with my foreskin, how can I fix it without circumcision?
Q. I have a problem with my foreskin, I can't manage to pull it below my head when erect (not a problem when non-erect). I can manage to get it about half way before it hurts quite badly. I read a few websites about people with similar problems and ...
A. 16 April 2006: Yes you need to go and visit your doctor and discuss what can be done, he will have most likely dealt with this before. I do not like the idea of circumsism either and I am sure it can be sorted. You may also try the pulling every day and see if it ... (read in full...)
Abortion advice needed!
Q. Hey people, first post on here. I'm 17, going to university in september to study veterinary medicine. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months and having sex for bout 6 months... few weeks ago we had sex in the middle of my cycle, ...
A. 16 April 2006: Very sorry but I gave you the wrong website address that is an American one. Try this for the UK Site: http://www.family-planning.org.uk/ . You will find lots of advice as well as where your nearest clinic is. Good Luck and try not to get caught out ... (read in full...)
My new wife is into exhibitionism. I love it now, but where will it all end?
Q. I have been having an relationship with my current partner for almost 8 months now and I think we have a great sex life but I am not sure where it will end ? We slept together on our first date and it was really good, we had known each other fo...
A. 16 April 2006: Well you are one very lucky guy by the sounds of things and all the guys reading this will be very jealous, me included !! Just enjoy it while all is good and do not worry yourself too much. Discuss things as a couple before trying anything new or ... (read in full...)
Abortion advice needed!
Q. Hey people, first post on here. I'm 17, going to university in september to study veterinary medicine. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months and having sex for bout 6 months... few weeks ago we had sex in the middle of my cycle, ...
A. 16 April 2006: You can get lots of advice from the Family Planning service run by your local health service. They also have a webiste: www.familyplanning.org . I do not have big beliefs about abortion one way or the other and because this was not planned you ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to give -- or receive -- oral sex! Says she doesn't like it...
Q. My girlfriend doesn't want to give me oral sex Hi, I was wondering if you could give me a tip of how to handle this situation. I have been dating my girl for a few months and she is fantastic. Our sex life is great except for the fact that she do...
A. 15 April 2006: Well it is not the end of the world if there is no oral sex surely, not every relationship involves oral sex. However i am quite sure the more you make it an issue the longer it will take to resolve. Do not even talk about it and just spend some ... (read in full...)
Missing my boyfriend so much now that he's joined the Air Force! Any advice to help me get through this?
Q. My boyfriend of eight months recently left for the Air Force. I'm having a very hard time with it, as you could imagine. We spent nearly every day together, and we love each other very much. My life just feels so empty without him. I am only 18, but ...
A. 15 April 2006: It is very difficult being in a relationship when you are both apart and so much in love. But it is your love for each other that will keep you together and your relationship can flourish even when apart. Try to communicate as much as possible, ... (read in full...)
My wife accused me of having an affair (which I wasn't), but now it looks like she might have!
Q. Hello, I am currently in the Navy and am deployed a lot. The day returning from a 9 month deployment, my wife came to me, wanting a divorce, saying that she loved me but was not "in Love" with me anymore. She had found some things that made her ...
A. 15 April 2006: Kendall, I sent the first reply as anonymous. You are obvioulsy a good person and she is not and you need to walk away from this before it cause you more hurt and start again. Working in a job where you have to be away so much can cause great ... (read in full...)
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