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writes: I have been having an relationship with my current partner for almost 8 months now and I think we have a great sex life but I am not sure where it will end ?We slept together on our first date and it was really good, we had known each other for a long while and had been writing for months and no alcohol was involved ! After about a month she let it be known she wanted anal sex and was already giving great oral and swallowing. We decided to get engaged and as soon as we did she wanted me to buy a whip and whip her till she orgasms, which she wants most days. Then at Xmas I had to buy he leather handcuffs so she can be tied to the bed, which she loves, combined with whipping and/or me pretending to be a doctor doing internal examinations. She loves dressing up and gets me to take explicit photos of her and now wants me to send them to magazines. I think all this is great and now we just got married. I am not sure where it will all stop. She has said now that she might be an exhibitionist and really wants to go on holiday somewhere that she can walk around topless with a very small thong. I am very worried about where this will all stop. Or should I just stop worrying and enjoy it all? I do not want to start introducing a third partner for sure or upsetting neighbours and friends with the exhibitionism.
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reader, Highland Help +, writes (16 April 2006):
 Well you are one very lucky guy by the sounds of things and all the guys reading this will be very jealous, me included !! Just enjoy it while all is good and do not worry yourself too much. Discuss things as a couple before trying anything new or radical and if you are not happy just say. If you are not sure how you will feel about doing something my best adice is "DON'T DO IT"
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reader, lea22dc +, writes (16 April 2006):
ENJOY!!!ENJOY!!!ENJOY!!! You married her and knew who she was, fortunatly for you, she was honest and herself from the start. That is a great startfor any relationship. Enjoy, you never know she might calm down by herself, but don't try to change her.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (15 April 2006):
 Lots of guys will be reading this thinking you lucky bugger!!,
If you are comfortable with what she wants then enjoy but be sure to tell her when she wants stuff you are not comfortable with, and that includes introducing a third party.
There are lots of nudist beaches you could go together and there is a magazine that gives you information on were they are called H&E (I think that is what it is called)
You can go online and look up the naturist sites, and you could go to a holiday place called hedonism, she would be able to explore her naughty side to the full out there, it is just finding what keeps both of you happy and fulfilled.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (15 April 2006):
Lots of guys will be reading this thinking you lucky bugger!!,
If you are comfortable with what she wants then enjoy but be sure to tell her when she wants stuff you are not comfortable with, and that includes introducing a third party.
There are lots of nudist beaches you could go together and there is a magazine that gives you information on were they are called H&E (I think that is what it is called)
You can go online and look up the naturist sites, and you could go to a holiday place called hedonism, she would be able to explore her naughty side to the full out there, it is just finding what keeps both of you happy and fulfilled.
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reader, sanda +, writes (15 April 2006):
I would strongly suggest that you just indulge your new wife justnow as us women have a habit of blowing hot and cold and she might turn round one day and say 'what whip' or 'what thong' as she wil havegone off the whole idea and might be into something completely different.Of course as your wife she will still have obligations to fulfill and Im sure she will continue to enjoy your fun and games for many years to come. Why not buy her a mini gym and a sunbead so she can look her best and then take her on a sunbreak where nudity is not frowned upon and she can release her inhibitions without fear of repercussions from the law
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