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I really like her but I'm not sure if she's still dating someone else?

Q.   Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl ...

A.   4 April 2013: what i have to say about this is you may not know if she feels the same way if u dont tell her your heart. If u are scared of her reaction thats no priority. But anyway why dont you try out ur luck before someone does for you.... (read in full...)

Why? Why did he not react? Does he not like me?

Q.   Why did he not react? Does he not like me? So this cute, shy guy has been staring at me for months. We got talking and we hang out now and he’s like the cutest sexy thing ever. OMG him and his friends are always staring at me. He makes me so...

A.   17 March 2013: your friend may be right... (read in full...)

Three days or three months, as soon as we have sex, they dump me!

Q.   I'm always used for sex. I could be with a fella 3 days or a could be with a fella for 3 months but as soon as I have sex with them they say " its not working out ". This has happened me 5 times now!!! My last fella asked me out the day after we had ...

A.   17 March 2013: if i hav to be harsh with my words, i'll call u cheap. And where i come from, guys dont fancy girls that give themselves easily to sex. To be realistic i think you should give yourself to serious thinkin about ur attitude towards this guys. A man ... (read in full...)

I should marry him, yes? or marry him not?

Q.   Should I marry my boyfriend? Reasons for I love him and know he loves me He is willing to take on my thirteen year old daughter He loves my family He cooks well, haha He loves my cooking He is warm and loving in his ways generally Reasons ...

A.   17 March 2013: u know best d answer to ur question. If u love him n u r sure he feels the same way u do and he has asked u to marry him, y not?... (read in full...)

In private he is affectionate towards me. But in front of others he pushes me away. How do I handle this?

Q.   So, this is going to be a little long so bear with me. + I have been talking about this on a forum anonymously for over 3 years now, and it hasn't gotten any better. I even turned to y! answers one other time to ask about this, but I am in a diffic...

A.   17 March 2013: If you are suspecting that he is gay, why not come out and discuss it with him, let him know how much you care about him? Because from what I have read, I see him going through a lot battling with his sexuality and his religious relief. But so... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I can trust him. Should I date him?

Q.   i've known this guy for close to three years now, and he has been there all this while doing nothing but watching me. He is eight years older than me, and i just liked him, because he was one person who loved to put smiles on my face. We went along ...

A.   17 March 2013: thanks for your answers, it did really encourage me, since i haven't accepted his proposal. I just think because he is rich, he just want to entice me with his money, and i think i'm going to turn down his proposal. One thing that hurts me so much... (read in full...)

Misfire with recently single girl. What's the best way to proceed?

Q.   In the past couple of weeks I've started seeing a girl who I really like. Until recently she had a boyfriend so the terms of our going out were sort of up in the air. A few weeks ago, we went out for some beer and had a great time, talking for ...

A.   16 March 2013: i think giving her a space, will do for now since she just came out from a relationship. Please don't try to rush her. Goodluck.... (read in full...)

It's not what she did, it's that she lied about it

Q.   My gf and I have been together for two years now. She is known to lie now and again. A few weeks back we got into a big fight because I was getting an apartment but didn't think it was best for her to move in. I told her we could still hang out as ...

A.   16 March 2013: i dnt c any reason y she should be angry bc she's the one who isnt honest here. She doesnt really know how to come out from her shadow n start been honest with everyone especially u since u are together.... (read in full...)

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