How can I stay strong?
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years he cheated over ten times! I finally kicked him out. I don't wanna be stupid anymore I see now that he will never change. I thought I could help him change and now I know he can only change his self! So ...
A. 26 March 2008: well its good that u took a firm decision,d first step 2 stayin strong is 2 remind urself constantly that u r better off without him,then u could try gettin urself very busy,get a hobby,change ur looks maybe ur hair style,cut or color,look 4 ways 2 ... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my age and I'm scared to tell him now in case he dumps me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, we are deeply in love, but there's a problem, I'm starting to feel guilty as I've been lying to him this whole time. Basicly he thinks I'm older than what I am, I'm starting to feel guilty for lying as I lov...
A. 26 March 2008: well its really bad 4 u 2 build ur relationship on a lie,but he deserves 2 know d truth and the sooner u tell him d better 4 u and ur relationship,As 4 whether he will dump u or not,if he really luvs u he will stay with u... (read in full...)
I gave him my virginity and now he says he doesn't want to be with the same girl his whole life!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for a really long time. i'm in love with him. seriously in love with him. he told me that he didnt want to be with the same girl for the rest of his life, because we're still young. i dont know what to do. we've ...
A. 26 March 2008: well,its quite unfortunate but if he wants 2 go u cant stop him,u r still young and u definitely can live witout him.If he says he wants 2 go pls let him,dont force urself on him,dont humilate urself honey.I wish u good luck... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my alcoholic boyfriend or leave?
Q. i have got a alcholic boyfreind i have been with for 3 years had a kid with him with is 18 months old what shall i do should i stay with him or shall i leave him cause he is drinking more than what he did when i first got with him ...
A. 21 March 2008: well,d decision 2 leave is entirely urs,love can change anything and anyone,so if u love him stick 2 him and pray.... (read in full...)
At times he is nice, at time he calls me nasty names. What do you think?
Q. I am seeing guy who is like two people sometimes he is very nice and then later he calls me a s___ and a w____ and says that I am fooling around which I am not. Is there any hope of him calming down and being always nice?...
A. 13 March 2008: If a guy accuses u unjustly,it only means that he is guilty of wat he's accusing u of,if he disrespects u often,talk 2 him and let him know how u feel but,if he continues 2 disrespect u then he doesnt deserve u... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know that I am still waiting for him?
Q. My ex-bf and me have been together for 5 years and during these 5 years, he has been a very loving bf. He loves me alot and we really wanted to be together forever. However, during the 5th year of our relationship, he found out that I was cheating ...
A. 13 March 2008: What baffles me is if u luv him this much then why cheat on him,d deed has been done,if u really luv him then respect his decision,there is this saying that if u luv something then u should set it free,if it's truly yours it will come back 2 u.... (read in full...)
I thought her religious upbringing frowned upon premarital sex, but her almost inexistent desires continued to be a problem after our marriage!!
Q. I have been married now for almost 3 years. Prior to marriage, we dated for a few years and during that time there was a gradual decline in our sexual relationship. I spoke to my wife about this and she said it was a moral issue since we were not ...
A. 13 March 2008: I honestly feel sorry 4 u but wat ur case reguires is a lot of patience,continue 2 talk 2 her,show respect for her feelings,let her know u appreciate wat she is giving u but also tell her u expect and need more.Finally dont put much pressure on ... (read in full...)
Is he with me only for sex, if he has an erection every time he sees or touches me?
Q. My boyfriend gets an erection each time he sees or touches me, is that a good sign? or does it mean he is with me just for sex. i need much response from the male sex....
A. 12 March 2008: thanxs a bunch ya all!i appreciate d fact that u took time 2 answer dmy questions,now i av a sense of relief.... (read in full...)
I appear to be the one making all the sacrifices, is this relation worth it?
Q. I met this 37 years old guy who is single,i am a lady of 26 years and single too,the problem is that the guy appears to be too busy with his work so leaving us little or no time to spend together.The guy is also broke,while i have a good job and i ...
A. 10 March 2008: thanx oldersister,i just need him 2 pay more attention,how do i acheive this?... (read in full...)
How do I know if my man loves me for sure??
Q. How do i know for sure that my man loves me enough for me to stick with him,i need answers,pls help...
A. 9 March 2008: thanx a bunch... (read in full...)
I have lost my sex drive after pregancy and now I feel like I am pushing my man away.
Q. Before I had my first child who is almost 2 now my sex life was fabulous. I was great in bed and pleased my man. I thought to myself I was going to make a man very happy when I settled down. During my pregnancy we barely ever had sex, I was sick a ...
A. 9 March 2008: i dont know if something is wrong with u or not but wat i know is that if u keep up this attitude u will soon loose ur man 2 more willing females.Try 2 awaken d passion u once felt 4 him,during sex fantasize abt him,assume or pretend u are enjoying ... (read in full...)
Why does he snap at me all the time?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 26 years and have 3 children, he always snaps when we have a conversation, What's wrong with him, has the relationship gotten stale? Or has he falling in love with someone else, thanks :-)...
A. 9 March 2008: he might not not have falling in love with someone else although its a possibility.Wat i think u should do is talk 2 him let him know how u feel each time he snaps at u.hearts are usually broken wen communication is abadoned... (read in full...)
I have some major relationship problems.
Q. I have some major relationship problems. There is this guy that I really really like but I'm not sure if he likes me. Whenever we are at parties together we always end up dancing together. But when my friend asked him if he likes me he said no. I li...
A. 9 March 2008: i dont think he likes u cos if he does like u and he is shy 2 admit it 2 u,it is understandable but he should be able to admit it 2 ur friends or his friends... (read in full...)
Is it stupid of me to keep my virginity so long??
Q. Hi all, I am writing to this website again because my mind is in a mess right now and need someone to offer me some enlightenment. Today, my ex-girlfriend messages me online and told me she gave her virginity away to another guy. I don't know why...
A. 9 March 2008: well dear its not a stupid act rather its an act of discipline.u need to move on with ur life ur ex propably wasnt meant 4 u.i really admire u 4 keeping r virginity till now.... (read in full...)
He slept with a girl I met in the pub...should I forgive him or move on alone??
Q. I met the most wonderful guy on holiday 10 months ago and i fell head over heels for him. He is amazing, and although i am only 18 i want to spend the rest of my life with him. However, last night he hurt me in the worst possible way. He phoned me ...
A. 9 March 2008: D only gud thing about ur b/f is that he didnt hide d truth from u but all d same he cheated on u,u r 18 and too young 2 tie ur self down 2 a cheat,cos there are chances that he will sleep with many other girls once he stupidly gets drunk again.... (read in full...)
I am currently having problems with going to the toilet. Please help!
Q. Dear cupid I am currently having problems with going to the toilet. I seem to want to go and poo but everytime I go their nothing comes out. This is going on for nearly one month. been doctors and all they gave me is tablets. also does not going t...
A. 9 March 2008: Try living on fruits a whole day cos fibres in fruits help bowel movement... (read in full...)
I appear to be the one making all the sacrifices, is this relation worth it?
Q. I met this 37 years old guy who is single,i am a lady of 26 years and single too,the problem is that the guy appears to be too busy with his work so leaving us little or no time to spend together.The guy is also broke,while i have a good job and i ...
A. 9 March 2008: I need answers pls help me... (read in full...)
I appear to be the one making all the sacrifices, is this relation worth it?
Q. I met this 37 years old guy who is single,i am a lady of 26 years and single too,the problem is that the guy appears to be too busy with his work so leaving us little or no time to spend together.The guy is also broke,while i have a good job and i ...
A. 9 March 2008: well am not even sure he loves me,wat are the signs to watch out for in a man who luvs his girl.i need to know... (read in full...)
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