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*arbbey3000
writes:My boyfriend gets an erection each time he sees or touches me, is that a good sign? or does it mean he is with me just for sex. i need much response from the male sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Usually it means he's hot for you. It could also mean he wants to have sex and that's all. How much do you think of yourself? Is a afternoon having sex the answer to all your problems on does he love or what!True love is waking up next to the same bearded face with morning breath and smiling ear t ear and kiss him with all your worth and tell him you love him. See? there's no sex involved unless you are both ready for the responsibility it brings on. Hope I helped you move to square two from the dugout,
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): Oh god, the erection, it always gets in the way between people (well except lesbians I suppose).
Another poster is complaining her guy doesn't get an erection, you seem to get to many.
I don't think you have anything to worry about unless he ACTS like he is only after sex. Men can be after a woman just for sex, doesn't mean they are hard when ever she is around.
He just sounds like a guy who is really into you or just horny. It says nothing about his intentions with you.
Does he push you into sex when you are not ready? Loose intrest if you are not in the mood?
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reader, Harbbey3000 +, writes (12 March 2008):
Harbbey3000 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanxs a bunch ya all!i appreciate d fact that u took time 2 answer dmy questions,now i av a sense of relief.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): Peaches83 has made a good point. As a man, I have been in the company of someone I admired and respected, and the way they treat will bring me to an erection. I must admit that sometimes I will get embarrased because it can happen anywhere. I also will feel uncomfortable for awhile to, it is like my temperature goes up and the throbbing in the penis seems to signal the brain to start taking the clothes off. Conditions in ones personal life also has an impact on reasons why we do or not do something, like act upon the erection.
I can't speak for all men, and the way they treat you all the other times will provide an indication as to their love for you.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Hey be proud
He finds you really attractive enough you can turn him on just through looks, its happens to most males with one or more girls throughout their lifes.
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reader, love-him +, writes (11 March 2008):
 HEY!!
Babe he finds you attractive.. a compliment!!!
Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 I believe we don't have the information to say whether the boyfriend is with the poster only for the sex. His being turned on easily is no indication of his intentions.
If his being quick to have an erection indicated little love, then no erection would mean a lot of it. I don't think anyone would agree to that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): Well, I gotta be honest and say that his intentions do seem a little shallow. You're obviously an enormous turn-on for him and that's fine as far as it goes but you are seeking something long-term and meaningful. You haven't mentioned any good qualities he may have so I assume that your relationship is based on the physical. Keep watching points - does he show any genuine affection? Is he romantic? Is he thoughtful? Does he take you anywhere other than bed? If the answer is an honest "yes" to these questions then you seem to have the perfect relationship!
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reader, pyan  +, writes (11 March 2008):
Hi
all men are differant and yes some of us do that, when i was younger i could get hard any time and somtimes now things happend when i get hard. even at the gym the other day. if i saw my wife undress i would be hard in seconds.
you should look past that and see what else he does. is he kind caring and loving as well.
message me if you want more info
take care
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Ok i may not be male but i could give a response.
My husband is the same i only have to give him a peck on the cheek and he has an erection. Yes he is highly sexed, but i assure you that he is not with me just for the sex.
I think you should feel quiet proud that you can make a reaction like that by doing basically nothing.
Enjoy it
Peaches
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Im not a man but this to me means he finds you VERY!!!!! attractive and you turn him on very much and thats a good thing sweetheart, He could be with someone else who doesnt do that for him like you do, Hunny your hot to him so he likes you very much. SHHHHH! Dont say anything my fellas like this and we have been together 2yrs ok but thats between me n you ok!!!!! TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, AgonyChantelle  +, writes (11 March 2008):
He just wants you for sex.
Dump him and send him to me!
Either that, or chop his dick off. :)
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