I really want to give him head. Is this normal?
Q. Dear cupid, I'm 19, I've been seeing this guy for 5 months, he's 23. I've known him for a year now, but only started taking it further in Sept 2011. We've been through our ups and downs, and we do communicate a lot, he's very straight up with ...
A. 5 February 2012: This is a huge turn on for a guy. You're already active, and you want to take it up a notch because of your horniness? That's a winning scenario in any guy's book. Oh, yeah, and I've never heard of "secretly wanting a handjob instead." Dive right ... (read in full...)
Why don't I love my brother?
Q. Hi agony aunts! I'm having a problem with love. Not romantically though. My problem is I don't really love one of my brothers. I have 4 sibs. 2 brothers and 2 sisters. (All halves two at each house.) I love my first born brother and used to love my ...
A. 5 February 2012: It sounds like you're older than your brothers. Being the older sibling carries a lot of responsibility, and you already identified that this could be a problem. You can't force yourself to feel a certain way, but you can affect what your siblings ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend back!
Q. How do I get my Ex-Boyfriend want me back? My boyfriend broke up with me last Saturday when I called him and asked is that you don't want to be with me anymore and he simply said 'no' and said he had to go. Then he removed his relationship stat...
A. 5 February 2012: It's really over. You cry, you bitch to friends, and you post questions to dearcupid. And slowly, you get over it. That's the important part. Re-read your questions, and think about what hurt the most, but when you get a point where you say "I hope ... (read in full...)
I cause myself to have nervous gas and I can't focus
Q. There class when the classroom gets quiet I get reall nervous because I'm scared my stomach will make gas noises. Its not because of what I eat it's because I get so nervous I cause my self to get nervous gas. I've tried not eating and a pill once ...
A. 5 February 2012: Now, I didn't read your previous questions, so I don't know what's been suggested already. Is "nervous gas" like farting, or burps? Or is it just an internal sort of grumbling noise? Either way, everybody farts and poops, and all the stuff we never ... (read in full...)
A guy I recently met just told me he is being set up with the gorgeous daughter of a family friend
Q. Hey so I met someone recently, let's call him 'M'. Anyways we hit it off great, we oovoo every night and we text most the day. When we hang out, which has been once officially since we met about a week ago as he moved in with his dad (which i...
A. 5 February 2012: Aww, this situation sucks. In doesn't sound like the guy is a player, but you need to figure out what the situation is, and fast. Tell "M" that you are interested in him. If he's dancing around the subject, then it means that he's waiting for a sign ... (read in full...)
I can't believe anything he says anymore!
Q. Ok i need honest objective advice. I'm 24 years old and been with my boyfriend for just over a year. It's a fairly good relationship - aside for some trust issues. Over the past year my boyfriend has lied to me - about big things and little...
A. 5 February 2012: It sounds like he has some serious issues, but it sounds like you do, as well. You've already admitted to bringing in issues from past relationships, so no trying to get away from that one! It sounds like he is feeling a snowball of emotional debt. ... (read in full...)
Is too much sex bad for my relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have shared a brilliant and adventurous sex life. I have a very high sex drive and he has always been able to keep up until recently he is turning me down more and more. I initiate the sex I'd say 4 ...
A. 5 February 2012: Funny, I was just reading some questions about this same scenario with the sex roles reversed. It's ultimately your relationship, and you are both going to have to talk about it, but calling you a pervert? That sounds like a red flag. I hope he's ... (read in full...)
This guy used me and I dropped him out of my life. Then why am I feeling jealous about his one-night stand?
Q. Coming up 2 years ago I fell head over heels for this guy I knew through a mutual friend. We became best friends so quickly and we had an amazing bond. He began purposely leading me on and generally finding fun in messing with my head. But I was ...
A. 5 February 2012: Right on, CindyCares. In the past, but still hurts. Next time you see his FB change to something hurtful, just shout "FUCK YOU" at your computer screen. It will feel good at first, and then eventually you'll realize how silly it is to be worked up ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps teasing me about being loud in bed, and it's making me self-conscious!
Q. Hello everyone! I'd like to know if you think I'm being too sensitive about this issue or not. Every so often, my boyfriend starts teasing me about the fact I can be rather, erm, vocal in bed. I know he doesn't do it to be horrible, but he does like ...
A. 5 February 2012: Being loud is a great thing for your guy. However, making you feel uncomfortable is not. Are you okay discussing your sex life outside of your relationship? If not, that's a line that you need to draw. You could tell him "It's great that I can be ... (read in full...)
She's my best friend's girl!
Q. I don't really know where to begin. In short, my best friend is infatuated with this girl. I never really paid much attention to her, but recently we started talking more on facebook and I realised that we have an unbelievable amount in common. ...
A. 5 February 2012: And from the Y chromosomes, totally what srhmr said. You're friend is "infatuated" while you've been developing a connection. Talk to your friend, and say you're sorry, and ask him if he's ok with you pursuing this. If not, then say sorry again, but ... (read in full...)
I'm not into incest but I'm sexually attracted to my cousin and it's freaking me out.
Q. I have a problen that's been really bothering me now for the past year and a half that I don't know how I can get myself out of. I'm sexually attracted to my cousin and it's scaring me. I'm sure there are many others in my position who feel the same ...
A. 5 February 2012: Woah! How long has it been since you were there? Ok, I get the attraction thing. You both have bodies, and from your story are heterosexual, and are of an age where hormones are in gear. "Didn't bother her".. wishful thinking. Look, by the time you ... (read in full...)
B/f accused me of being with someone while I was lying at home and watching tv!
Q. Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we're long distance at the moment but see each other every weekend. Last night he went out with his work colleagues but called me after an hour saying he was bored and going home... we spoke on the ...
A. 5 February 2012: I'm glad that you've taken the time to search for answers. Search the internet more, and do not become a victim. You sound like a really kind person.
Anyway, as you search more, you'll learn that often accusations come from someone who is guilty t... (read in full...)
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