Feeling guilty for cuting off a friend.
Q. Hi, I feel so guilty and awful. Quick story is that my relationship with this girl I know who I have become friends over the past year or so, got to the point where I could not be friends with her anymore. She is a difficult personality. A...
A. 27 January 2011: Good riddance. It is not your burden to fix her. Characteristics like that are ingrained very deeply in people, making them nearly impossible to change.
Over the last few years, I have slowly eliminated every negative influence like that from my ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'll leave me if he sees my stretch marks
Q. Can guys answer this please espically the younger ones thank you so I'm 17 ,my boyfriend and I have been sexualy active and we have been together for three months about to make four. So we have been doing the same positions for some time now an...
A. 27 January 2011: If he loves you, it won't matter. My last girlfriend had stretch marks, but I loved them about her. They made her no less attractive to me.... (read in full...)
How do I win his trust back?
Q. hey i have tricky question. i am 23 and my boyfriend is 24. we have been dating for almost 4 months now. we are in a long distance relationship he is in South Africa and i am in London. i really love him so much and he loves and cares about me too. ...
A. 27 January 2011: This guy seems to have some trust issues that are not your fault. It is absolutely absurd for him to say he can't trust you when all you did was have a little wine and even told him about it. It is not like you got plastered, or kept anything secret ... (read in full...)
He had a way out but didn't end it and I'm really confused!
Q. Hello, I am so confused about a relatonship that I recently got into. I met a guy on an online dating site in September. I was really taken with him he swept me off my feet and was so romantic we spent about three days a week together and we start...
A. 25 January 2011: You should break it off. He has no intention of this being a lasting relationship and just wants to use you for your weekend visits for as long as possible. If you two are meant to be together, you will find each other again. It is not going to work ... (read in full...)
A friend who is letting me down
Q. im sitting here typing, wondering what ive done wrong. i have a male friend who has recently moved to another team-same job due to a manager clash. we worked together for 18 months. during that time we were on the phone all the time. he rang me ...
A. 21 January 2011: I doubt you've done anything wrong. Are you attracted to this guy, or is it strictly platonic? He might just be very busy, and calling you keeps slipping his mind. Since he has now gotten to where he wants to be with the job, there is no imme... (read in full...)
How do I gain experience with women this late in the game?
Q. I'm an adult whose always struggled with confidence issues around women. I've made changes to my physical appearance, so I don't consider myself a bad looking guy. So obviously, I expect a woman who takes pride in her physical appearance too. I ...
A. 20 January 2011: Sounds like you're stuck in a Catch-22. My advice would be to start with girls below your level of standards. It will increase your chances of landing some dates, and will give you the experience that you need. Plus, if you know you don't want them, ... (read in full...)
Do I stand my ground? She wants an open relationship, but I want none of that
Q. This is going to be a bit long, so I apologise. I am 22, and have never been fantastic with girls, and met my first (and current) girlfriend about 9 months ago. I had previously just come out of a failed attempt at a relationship that had left me ...
A. 19 January 2011: You need to break up with her immediately. It is almost impossible to see her for what she is because of your feelings for her, but she is not a good person. I promise you that she is still cheating, and you don't deserve that. If she loved you, she ... (read in full...)
Now I've got doubts about moving in with him. Can I trust him?
Q. My boyfriend has just been telling me about some of his usual behavior in relationships, and I'm not sure what to make of it. He said he's had one relationship that lasted over 3 months and all the rest he gets bored with and wants change, so sudd...
A. 19 January 2011: That is a major red flag, but it may not be as it seems. He may have disclosed that information to you because he trusts you and wants to be as honest as possible. He may have intended for you to perceive it as him displaying love; that he is still ... (read in full...)
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