How do I get these negative thoughts out of my head?
Q. I am an extreme pessimist but that never bothered be till now, I have a wonderful boyfriend who is amazing and treats me amazing he has never done anything to hurt me, but I have become paranoid in my relationship with my boyfriend due to everyone ...
A. 23 December 2006: hi.firstly i think you should advise some of your friends to seek councelling because there passing off their negative energy on you and they clearly have issues that they need to sort out from their past relationships. secondly,remember, out of you ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt the first time you get fingered?
Q. Hi, I'm 17 and I have never been fingered. I was woundering does it hurt the first time you get fingerd?...
A. 23 December 2006: hi! my first time was great,just tell him to be gentle,go slow and maybe stimulate the outside area(clitoris/all over) first and you should be fine.xxx.... (read in full...)
I've had panic attacks when he went away in the past - what can I do about the next time it happens??
Q. Hi everyone Does anyone have any suggestions for dealing with high anxeity and panic attacks My bf is going away on holiday for 3 weeks He has been working hard and needs the break but i am going into panic mode about it Its not that i ...
A. 22 December 2006: hi!this mite be easier said than done, but you should try and take your mind off him as much as possible,as mean as this mite sound,but it is your health on line.work for one will take your mind off him and help the time to go faster, so you could ... (read in full...)
i always get scared that the guys I want will want a relationship, is this normal!?
Q. does this happen to anyone else? every time, and i mean every time, i meet a guy and get along with him --meaning we have great conversations, have fun, etc.-- i get terrified that he will want a realtionship with me. however, at the same time, i ...
A. 22 December 2006: hello! ask yourself how it would make you feel if the guy was more of a bad guy and left you wondering if he likes you or not.would this attract you to him more?maybe your a girl that likes more of a bad guy than a good guy or maybe once you get ... (read in full...)
Any tips for flirting with older guys (I'm 21, he's 31)?
Q. Im 21 and a guy that i like is 31. The problem is that he is a manager in one of the departments at my the store that i work at so he's not my manager. But i have been developing feelings for him that i cant explain. Its freaking me out cuz...
A. 22 December 2006: hi.i agree,just be yourself and remember,your age or not hes still a guy so its safe to flirt in the same way you usually do but maybe try being a bit more lady like,attitude and dress wise.good luck.xxx.... (read in full...)
She wants a divorce, so why does she still want sex with me?
Q. I split up from my wife 7 months ago and have since moved out. We were married for 9 years and have 3 children together. None of us have met anybody else, I dont intend to. We split because we were having communication problems and could not talk to ...
A. 22 December 2006: hi! i feel that your wife is still sleeping with you because she either doesnt want you and at the same time doesnt really want anyone else to have you or she could just be sticking to what she knows,what she has known for the last 9 years(a long ... (read in full...)
All these feelings from a past relationship, keep interfering with my new relationship! What can I do?
Q. my ex is with one of my mates now, and all though i dont won't him back cause he's a bad person, i still get horrible feelings towards her and stil think about him and its intefering with my new relation ship will this ever end?...
A. 22 December 2006: thanx 4 the reasurance guys xxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't need sex!
Q. My boyfriend says he doesn't need sex, could that be true? He says he's getting old and his body doesn't function right, does anyone have a clue whats really going on? ...
A. 22 December 2006: hi! it would help if i knew the age of your bf, but all i can say is if he is, say 40+,then this maybe true.he may feel that he is less able,depending on his health and just wants to have a cuddle from time to time.on the other hand if he is fairly ... (read in full...)
I'm a size 6-8 but I am getting a pudgy belly and I'm worried. Any ideas on how to lose it fast?
Q. This may sound like the most pathetic question ever but its really gettin me down! im and 18 and im a size 6-8 BUT i cant stop eating all of a sudden and now im getting a pudgy belly and i hate it! I feel really insecure and concious wearing certain ...
A. 15 December 2006: hello.sit ups and basic steps xxx... (read in full...)
I think it would be better if i went out with my ex
Q. Hey ok well Im dating this boy and we have kissed and stuff, but i really want to get back with my ex as I like him more then my present boyfriend. I dont really feel brave enough to dump him though but i think it would be better if i went out with ...
A. 15 December 2006: hi. its better for you and him in the long run if you let go of your new boyfriend before it is too late and one of you end up geting hert,and its most likely to be him.but before you consider leaving your new partner be sure that your ex is right ... (read in full...)
I'm worried. Dating my bf for one month and our conversations don't last long anymore!
Q. i have a boyfriend we have been going out for a month but our discussions we dont talk long on the phone and mostly its about other people. why is that? ...
A. 14 December 2006: hello.have you and your bf been sexually intimate.......if yes then,maybe he feels he knows all ther is to know about you.What i mean is 1 month isnt really a long time and rushing into things is a big turn off from a mans point of view.Many women ... (read in full...)
I orgasm just fine but he can't. I find this frustrating and I blame myself. Any advice?
Q. I am in a relationship with a man. When we have sex everything is fine, he has an erection and have no problem but he never comes. I have orgasms with him but then he justs asks that we stop because he can't come. It is really frustrating for me' ...
A. 13 December 2006: hello my names di and im 20. every time a man has an erection,d oesnt always mean that hes turned on, so try asking him what he likes, and tell him to feel free askin you what you like, even if this envolves using toys, this will or should turn him ... (read in full...)
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