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I'm worried. Dating my bf for one month and our conversations don't last long anymore!

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Question - (14 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2006)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have a boyfriend we have been going out for a month but our discussions we dont talk long on the phone and mostly its about other people. why is that?

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A female reader, goodaz +, writes (14 December 2006):

goodaz agony aunthello.have you and your bf been sexually intimate.......if yes then,maybe he feels he knows all ther is to know about you.What i mean is 1 month isnt really a long time and rushing into things is a big turn off from a mans point of view.Many women get confused as to why men do not return there calls or show no interest after rushing in to being intimate, but as far as a mans concerned all has been explored if he doesnt know the real you,which is all the time before that special night of passion.the mor you make them wait is the more respect they gain for you and a special kind of respect at that. If this isnt the case and you havnt had sex, then why not do more things together,then maybe the conversation is based on the two of you.or finally you could just cut to the chase and ask him if he thinks this relationships going anywhere....but remember that is only last choice. good luck xxxx

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A female reader, want2die +, writes (14 December 2006):

want2die agony auntOne month into it and already nothing to talk about..Imagine what will happen a few yrs down the line. Maybe you both are just not compatible .. This is the time you should talk and talk and talk, and if the opposite is happening, t is surely something to think about..

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