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I hacked into his email account... how do I tell him?

Q.   ok so my boyfriend went to another state for thanksgiving with his family and he started acting weird he wouldnt call me and when I called, one night his brother answered and sang and hung up.... then I called back, he answered and I heard a girl in ...

A.   25 November 2008: I can't really change it back to the original password because I don't know it! Also he has cheacked my phone messages and e-mail... this is the first time I felt I had to snoop... but thanks for the answers!... (read in full...)

Have I been dumped?

Q.   i want to know what i should do about my boyfriend that hasn't called or texted me in 2 days. he has never done anything like this before. i dont understand what is wrong with him plz write back ...

A.   25 November 2008: the best thing to do ( i know its hard and it hurts) but dont call or talk to him...its not cool what he did! even if he starts to call you dont pick up! show him that you are better than that and you deserve someone to treat you better....dont buy ... (read in full...)

Confused... does he love me? or her?

Q.   hey guys, quite new to this but really need help on this one! I have asked everyone I know for their opinion and now I am asking you! please help!! When I was at college 2 years ago I had a best friend there who just also happened to be my "friend ...

A.   25 November 2008: life has a funny way of working out my advise is ....think about being in a relationship with him....would he stay or go? do you want to risk it? love is weird but if he really loved you he would have no doubts. stay friends and maybe later in life ... (read in full...)

I want to break up with my girlfriend. she doesn't cook, doesn't clean, is messy...I want her out !

Q.   i want to break up with my girlfriend. she lives with me and has no where really to go if i break up with her. she is a sweet girl. we lived together for about three months and things just aren't goin the way i thought they would. she doesn't cook, ...

A.   25 November 2008: one do you like/love her still...if so tell her that if she wants to stay she needs to get a job and do her part around the house.....other wise she needs to leave .....but dont feel bad if you just want to break up with her she is an adult she can ... (read in full...)

His sister hates me, what should I do?

Q.   hi my name is kimberly and im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 10 months and his 23 yr old sister hates me! shes really jealous of the girls her brother dates and she always tells me mean things and i answer nice back to her and ...

A.   25 November 2008: have youve ever done anything to hurt her brother? that maybe it but it seems like shes being overly protective...i wouldnt worry about it too much you are in a relationship with HIM not her....dont let it bug you too much and keep being nice, but ... (read in full...)

Where are all the decent men who don't lie? Do they exist?

Q.   Where are all the decent men who don't lie? Do they exist? If they do where would they be or how do I find them?...

A.   14 November 2008: No they don't, sorry to burst your bubble but through my experience they don't! No one is perfect and even if you think they are good people they probably have somthing to hide... anyway there are really awesome human beings out there but they are ... (read in full...)

I need his help with out son..how can I convince him to move in?

Q.   how can i convince my boyfriend to move in with me so that I have help taking care of our son???...

A.   8 September 2008: if you guys are together and have children together he should want to.....maybe there is a bigger picture you may not be seeing....just ask him....tell him why you want him to....it shouldnt just be for help it should also be because you want your ... (read in full...)

Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinions?

Q.   Am I Stupid or What. I really need all your opinion? I've been seeing this guy for 7 months now and he lives in Sarasota and I'm in Ft.Lauderdale. I met him down here and when he was here he never wanted to leave my side. Eventually he told me he wa...

A.   7 September 2008: ok first of all your not stupid....ive seen many women do this for men....i have to...you just want them to want you ...but what you may not understand is he sounds like a soul sucker....like someone who just plays with you and takes all your energy ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mom that I'm gay?

Q.   well im almost 14 in like 2 months nd im gay im scared to tell my mom because everyone in my family thinks im trying to be like my sister and my sisters gay to and my dad is very religous and he told me not to tell him if i was ever gay but im ...

A.   6 September 2008: if you are absolutley positive your gay then i think you should talk to your sister....you should feel that you can be open to tell your family whatever is bothering you and you should feel like you should be yourself....maybe you dont have to tell ... (read in full...)

He hit me again today but I still love him. Please, someone tell me what to do...

Q.   Hey, i'm 19, I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. About 4 months ago, he started hitting me. Nothing really to start with but it got worse. Today he burst my nose and strangled me, I think that it was probably the most terrifying ...

A.   6 September 2008: you really need to get away from him...it could cost you your life if you stay....do you have friends or any family to help you get out of that at all if he does it again you need to call the cops....sorry but it needs to happen... (read in full...)

What was that attracted me about her? I was never attracted to her physically!

Q.   Hi there. I dated "her" for 4 months. LOVED everything about her but...when it came time for sex..I wasnt attracted.or was I ...cant figure it out!!.We did a few times a week after much effort on my part...I always had to think of other women ug...

A.   6 September 2008: first of all you got a great friendship confused....you cant really be with someone sexually if you are not attracted to them! its better to be just friends if all the elements to a relationship arent there than you wont have a healthy ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of getting an abortion but I would like some information about it first.

Q.   I am pregnant and considering having an abortion. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I drank and smoked reguarly the first month of the pregnancy because I didn't know I was pregnant (I'm a college student). I've probably already harmed the baby since ...

A.   6 September 2008: most likely not... i know a lot of women that did the same thing....and all of their children are fine im prgnant as well and i did the same things but the baby is fine you should call your doc and ask them! the baby is really strong in there so i ... (read in full...)

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