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Should I be upset about the mens magazines?

Q.   I recently talked to my boyfriend, last chrsitmas he brought home some "men's magazines" from home and had them in our bathroom. Technically I guess they weren't considered porn, but i think they were as they had naked girls EVERYWHERE. Anyway, s...

A.   6 January 2010: Hello all, thank you for all of your advice. It has been helpful for me to see different perpectives on this issue which was what I was going for. To set things straight, I have tried the whole"watching it together" thing and has worked out nice... (read in full...)

Futanaria..anyone give me any info about this web site?

Q.   I have a question... This really weirded me out when I found pictures of girls with dicks on his computer. Futanaria iswhat it's called and I think it's kind of messed up. Can anyone give me anything about this??I m kind of freaking out. He...

A.   24 December 2009: It is not anime though, they are real people...... (read in full...)

Fall of something wonderful

Q.   I never thought I knew what the word 'agony' meant until I left my girlfriend of three and a half years. Something so simple and pure...and I destroyed it in one afternoon. All she ever wanted from me was love. She gave more than I did, and asked ...

A.   19 June 2009:  This is only a moment in time where everything seems to stand still and the pain is agonizing because time can't pass by slower. Just remember "Good things fall apart so that greater things can fall together. - Marilyn Monroe ... (read in full...)

I love the soul, spirit and essence of him, but our relationship is troubled

Q.   How can I have feelings for a man that feels to me like they are on a different level - as if I love the essence, the soul and spirit of the man and I feel he loves me the same way but he keeps behaving in a way that hurts and upsets me - yet i ...

A.   19 June 2009: When it comes to relationships, it is tough to see past the love that you have for the other person. You love them for them but they keep doing things to hurt you enough that you've thought of leaving. You think -- my life could be so much bet... (read in full...)

He's more interested in looking at porn pictures than being with me

Q.   My husband and I are 23 and have been best friends since we met in high school and started dating our senior year.We have been married for four years and have two children that are four and two. We have a great relationship except for one problem. I ...

A.   19 June 2009: www.sexualcontrol.com-- i am giving this website to you because someone gave it to me and it helped reasonably. It must be tough, and so many of us girls have to go through with this because our men are too selfish to admit they have a problem ... (read in full...)

Had drunken sex but haven't talked about it

Q.   OK, men, I need your input. I've been hanging out with this guy for a few months now. A week and a half ago, we got drunk and had sex. The next morning we woke up about 930 or 10. Layed around in bed until about 1. Didn't cuddle or anything. ...

A.   19 June 2009: Sounds like this guy likes you! He can say those things to your kid because he feels comfortable around them as they wont judge him like he thinks you will. It's understandable for him not to want to talk about that Saturday night for a few reasons.... (read in full...)

I feel as if I'm in a loveless void... how can I find love?

Q.   I am a hard working person in a loveless void, I would love to have advice on how to find a girlfriend, but it just does not happen. I see people every day hanging out with their lovers and it makes me so sad, because I know I probably will never ...

A.   18 June 2009: I know it is hard to find love. But you are 16-17? you are very young. I will tell you that highschool relationships are the biggest waste of time. (No offense to anyone's who has worked one out). Honestly, i know it's hard to see now, but come time ... (read in full...)

I'm trying to decide just what my responsibility is with my child's education...

Q.   My daughter is going to university next year after high school. I'm very happy for her, but it is very expensive, especially room and board 1500$ a month. But it is a big city and she will live in the dorm, and that is how much. So we can't reall...

A.   18 June 2009: I think the best option is to make her work in the summer. I know how expensive living and education costs, i'm right in the middle of it! Getting a job during school really depends on the amount of work the child can handle. University in the f... (read in full...)

I need to cheer up but just cant!!

Q.   Ok ive been trying to find a vent and im out of ideas so let the internet pick at my problem, ok im a 23 year old engineer and I was dating a girl for over a year when we decided we should move in togther. All was good or so I thought I went to work ...

A.   18 June 2009: If I was her and I was ust telling you that i just fell out of love, it would be because i'm embarrased to tell you what's actually wrong. Your Ex sounds just as stubborn as me and it comes off as real bitchy and uncooperative, i know! At this poi... (read in full...)

So confused by ex boyfriend's signals.

Q.   Help! I have an exbf who keeps texting me to have sex. He is seeing someone else for the past month. I think he was cheating on me before. Anyway, he says he and this woman have just been kissing the whole month. It disgusts me that he is with ...

A.   18 June 2009: I write because i care! I've had a fair share of assholes. They are all the same. Boys will say just about anything to get a girl, it's kind of repulsive. To have fun, get away from there for a few days! Go to the salon, get a great new haircut ... (read in full...)

I need to cheer up but just cant!!

Q.   Ok ive been trying to find a vent and im out of ideas so let the internet pick at my problem, ok im a 23 year old engineer and I was dating a girl for over a year when we decided we should move in togther. All was good or so I thought I went to work ...

A.   17 June 2009: Mate, You don't seem to be too shook up about the fact that your girlfriend left you, but more upset at the fact that you've never been dumped. Maybe it is just an ego trip that is still a bit sore. Did you do anything to make her break up with you... (read in full...)

So confused by ex boyfriend's signals.

Q.   Help! I have an exbf who keeps texting me to have sex. He is seeing someone else for the past month. I think he was cheating on me before. Anyway, he says he and this woman have just been kissing the whole month. It disgusts me that he is with ...

A.   17 June 2009: This guy sounds like a huge jerk to be honest, and I think for the sake of you and your sanity, you should stay away from him. I know you love him. You were with him for a long time. BUT, it's time you think a little selfishly and with some co... (read in full...)

So confused by ex boyfriend's signals.

Q.   Help! I have an exbf who keeps texting me to have sex. He is seeing someone else for the past month. I think he was cheating on me before. Anyway, he says he and this woman have just been kissing the whole month. It disgusts me that he is with ...

A.   17 June 2009: This guy sounds like a huge jerk to be honest, and I think for the sake of you and your sanity, you should stay away from him. I know you love him. You were with him for a long time. BUT, it's time you think a little selfishly and with some co... (read in full...)

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