Am I really everything he says I am?
Q. I ended a relationship a few weeks ago due 2 an abusive incident. My ex and I argued over the dumbest thing and he chose to choke, hit, and yell at me. I left him a week later with no warning or calls; just disappeared. I know leaving like that is ...
A. 23 March 2010: I agree with everything said so far, and just pray that you will listen. Good for you for having the brains, and the guts, to get yourself out of an abusive relationship. Keep up the good work. Don't look back.... (read in full...)
How do you touch a woman so she knows your interested without being too forward?
Q. How does a man touch a woman to communicate interest in her without being too forward or too stiff?...
A. 23 March 2010: Yos and Aunty BimBim have some great advice there. I would also say that intimacy has a lot to do with eye contact. A hand on the shoulder is also very nice.... (read in full...)
I go on dating sites, but no luck. How can I find a partner?
Q. i am a gay man but i cannot get a partner, i go on chat date sites but no luck, i cannot go up to guys in the street and say i fancy you as they might be affended and punch me, my last partner left soem time ago so how i get a partner?...
A. 23 March 2010: I agree with Victoria. The more people you meet, the more likely you are to meet that "special someone". So, get out there, and get involved in your community, or hobbies, or volunteering somewhere, or a sports or hiking club, or anything that you ... (read in full...)
He said he loved me, but had commitment issues to work on. Help!
Q. Me And My Ex Bf Have Been Together A Year And A Bit, We Fight All The Time, Due To The Fact He Lives 15 Hours Away From Me, But Comes And Stays With Me Often, His Family Hate My Guts, Even Tho I've Never Spoken To Them Really, And They Are All Close ...
A. 23 March 2010: Good thing he doesn't live close, because then you won't have far to run. What are you thinking? This just has seriously dysfunctional written all over it. If you are not accepted by his family, you have no future. If you fight all the time, you ... (read in full...)
What physical attributes do you like in a man?
Q. What physical attributes (body parts) do you like in a man? Ladies, here is a question which I hope you take your time in answering. I bet you Women hear that most guys love a women's "butt" or Breasts" or even "Height"...so now its your turn....
A. 23 March 2010: I have never really been into this sort of dissection in body parts.
What I can tell you is that fitness and good nutrition are a must. For me, healthy is good looking. I like a guy who cares enough about himself to get fresh air and regular ... (read in full...)
What are some symptoms of pregnancy, and how soon can I take a pregnancy test?
Q. Hi there.. I'm in a bit of add situation last time I had my period was 10 feb, 3 weeks ago I my bf and I had sex after that last week we did again. Problem is I can't remember when last I have had my period since the 10th of feb, I actually don't ...
A. 23 March 2010: Well, perhaps congratulations are in order? Do keep us posted. Go see the pharmacist at your local drug store and she can recommend an at-home pregnancy test. Usual early symptoms are: feeling a little green first thing in the morning, and ... (read in full...)
I feel like the years are passing me by and I'm missing out...
Q. Hi Everyone, I hope you can help. I am a 24 year old female and my bf is a 39 year old male. He is perhaps the best bf ever; loyal, loving, thoughtful and very mature. However, I have a problem with where we are in our lives. At the moment I live ...
A. 23 March 2010: It sounds like maybe you are an extrovert, and he is an introvert. Is it really a good match? Are you missing out on the life you really want? There is no lifetime rehearsal.... (read in full...)
Chronic Unemployment
Q. My boyfriend of 7 years is chronically unemployed. He is well educated, and has some good skills, but has been on a consulting gravy train that has allowed him to live, albeit meagerly, on very little actual work. With this has come the leisurely ...
A. 22 March 2010: Thanks for all your good responses. Maybe I should clarify a bit. In the 7 years we've been together, he hasn't been continuously employed for more than about 10 weeks, and most of his contracts are for about 3 weeks. His "rate" for consulting is ... (read in full...)
I feel like the years are passing me by and I'm missing out...
Q. Hi Everyone, I hope you can help. I am a 24 year old female and my bf is a 39 year old male. He is perhaps the best bf ever; loyal, loving, thoughtful and very mature. However, I have a problem with where we are in our lives. At the moment I live ...
A. 19 March 2010: You might have to jolly him along to get him out of the house, but it will be worth it. Try to tap into his interests, for example buy tickets to go see a band he likes when they come to town. Sometimes men can be a bit of a stick in the mud. ... (read in full...)
I am 16 and want to go to college and have a baby!
Q. I am 16 and my boyfriend and i have been talking about having a baby for months, we know we are sufficeintly mature enough. He has an evening job which earns a good amount. what i would like to know is.. if you are a hard working person, is it ...
A. 19 March 2010: This is just a supremely bad idea. First, education. Then, first job. Then, CONSIDER baby.
College is a lot of work, sure. It's also a time to make lasting friendships, and explore the world, and become the adult you are going to be. Tak... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I want to try sex with a guy???
Q. How do I tell my girlfriend I want to try sex with a guy?...
A. 19 March 2010: Say something like, "you know honey, I've never been with a guy, and I've always wanted to try it."... (read in full...)
4 months into his marriage and he started dating me... how do you see my future?
Q. He asked me out and i said no for a whole year because i thought he wasnt serious. Then he got married but didnt stop, i thought my feelings would disappear but they havent. 4 months into his marriage we started dating and i have never been ...
A. 19 March 2010: NO. NO. NO. Do not bring a child into this disfunctional picture. Why would you want to be with someone whose idea of marriage commitment is 4 months? Why would you have a child with someone with these values? Back away slowly. Don't make eye ... (read in full...)
Why is my 42 year old boyfriend obsessed with young girls?
Q. My fiancé is 42 years old and I am a 24 year old girl. We've been together since I was 20. We get along great about 85% of the time and he treats me very well but it seems like he is obsessed with young girls and youth in general! Most of his/our ...
A. 19 March 2010: Because he is afraid to grow up. You need to grow up and find a new boyfriend that you can have a real future with. You deserve it.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me with another girl, now I'm concerned about it happening again
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for about 4 years with a few breakups in the first couple. One of the problems early on was that she cheated on me. She is bi and she cheated with a girl. After a long time of soul searching and working things out ...
A. 19 March 2010: Perhaps you're being paranoid, perhaps you have good radar. Either way, if a monogomous relationship is very important to you, and you have feelings of doubt that she doesn't feel as strongly about that as you do, then you have a problem brewing, ... (read in full...)
My husband has lost his sexual desire - is it me?
Q. My husband lost his desire ,and erection. He thinks it is a medical problem,but the doctor says he is OK. No heart ,d, or any problems, not even with hormones. So, this is tremendous impact on our marriage. I don't know how to accept this...What ...
A. 19 March 2010: Most men experience some problems like this at some point in their lives. Relax. Might I suggest some relaxing massage, bubble baths together, lots of cuddling? Sometimes we put way too much emphasis on penetration and intercourse and forget ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's past
Q. Girlfriends past. I have seen this topic discussed elsewhere with similar situations of mine but have yet to see consistent helpful replies, I know its not anyone’s job to help me out but I was just hoping that someone could shed some light on wh...
A. 19 March 2010: I think that this issue is coming up for you now because of the baby. You're entering a new phase of your life, where being responsible for another person takes precidence over your own needs.
The woman you are with isn't just your girlfrie... (read in full...)
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