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He always wants to brush his teeth and use a mouthwash after oral sex!!!!!

Q.   My boyf of 18 months has always wanted to brush his teeth or use mouthwash after performing oral sex on me. I have never been with a man who does this and I always come away feeling very offended and undesirable. Why does he do this..... help!!!! ...

A.   5 March 2010: Maybe he doesn't like the taste in his mouth afterwards. I try to brush my teeth eventually/soon after oral sex, especially if he finished in my mouth, or at least pop a mint. There's nothing wrong with no enjoying the aftertaste or to not want it ... (read in full...)

The idea of oral sex turns her off

Q.   Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...

A.   1 March 2010: Interesting question. Normally I would say to not NOT do anything you like doing - you mentioned how you liked to give her oral. But it seems a little selfish on her part to want to receive but never to give. Pressuring her into doing somethin... (read in full...)

B/F thinks I'm disrespectful to him, and I'm worried he's getting too close to my friend

Q.   hi aunts and uncles, I have a problem, my bf is really upset at me at the moment, im going out to dinner with my ex later, bf has expressed how much he dosent like me seeing him as it is for coke and a chat in the pub, but he says its not right we...

A.   1 March 2010: Why shouldn't he get along with your friends? Isn't that the same as you getting along with your ex? Its pretty selfish, and if you've given him reason for concern in the past ("Zeke") then he's well within reason to be concerned about you meeting ... (read in full...)

What is this bleeding I am experiencing?

Q.   ok so i am a week late on my period and today i started bleeding the color is red not light pink is it implantation bleeding or my period? i have no symptoms of pregnancy no nausea, tender breast all i have is the flu! thanks ...

A.   21 January 2010: Take a pregnancy test. ... (read in full...)

What does this guy really want from me??

Q.   ok so i met this guy on plenty of fish..we've been chatting on there for a month now... and went on a date on sunday.. he was really nice.. and thought i was soo beautiful.. after the date..he told me..he wants a serious relationship an...

A.   19 January 2010: He's telling you what he wants from you. He wants a relationship.... (read in full...)

Its really getting to my that My friend really dislikes my boyfriend!!!

Q.   Lately I have been feeling kind of confused because I recently found out that my best friend does not like my boyfriend at all. She has seen me get verbally and physically abused in my last relationship and knows I deserve better. My boyfriend is ...

A.   21 March 2007: Does your friend have a boyfriend? If so, try double dating situations so that your friend can see for herself how he treats you. The more she's around you and him, she may warm up to him and change her opinion.... (read in full...)

He said I was boring on our date! What should I do?

Q.   i've been seeing my boyfriend since the beginning of the week so we decided to out out just the two of us on sunday and we had a really fun time but then we ran out of stuff to do and were just sitting on a bench in the end we were so bored i said i ...

A.   21 March 2007: I'm pretty sure that at age 13-15, she isn't dating casually as in seeing multiple guys. At this age, they tend to be like, "Oh hey, you're cute. Do you want to be my girlfriend/boyfriend?" And bam. Relationship before they've had their first ... (read in full...)

Is it normal NOT to enjoy open mouthed kissing?

Q.   Right, Aunts. I just wanted to know if it is normal not to enjoy open-mouth kissing? Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now and we still haven't kissed properly. Neither of us think it is exactly romantic but it does seem wei...

A.   15 March 2007: If it truly bothers you that you haven't open-mouth kissed yet, gradually change kissing techniques. Instead of going at it like you're trying to suck each others' face, try some lip biting or gentle sucking on the lips. For me, that adds a spice to ... (read in full...)

We live long distance, he comes over... and spends more time playing his online games than he does with me!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we see each other only during the weekends. After one week of work, I look forward spending time with him. However, he on the other hand, would play his online games when he’s over at my ...

A.   13 March 2007: Oh man. I had the same problem with my boyfriend. I'd go to visit him 6 hours away one or two weekends a month in college, and he'd play World of Warcraft the whole time I was there, every time I was there. It definitely sucks, and I don't have any ... (read in full...)

Is it unreasonable to ask my boyfriend to get an STD test before we stop using condoms?

Q.   Is it unreasonable to ask my boyfriend to get an STD test before we stop using condoms? We've been together for three years and hes cheated on me before, we split recently for 2 months, and I think he slept with other women although he wouldn't ...

A.   11 March 2007: Go get tested together. It's a lot easier to not sound accusing when he sees that you're getting it done too. Its a precautionary measure for both of you, not just him.... (read in full...)

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