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writes:Right, Aunts.I just wanted to know if it is normal not to enjoy open-mouth kissing?Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now and we still haven't kissed properly. Neither of us think it is exactly romantic but it does seem weird as in previous relationships it just came naturally.Any help/thoughts would be appreciatedxx
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reader, chachacha +, writes (15 March 2007):
I had a partner who would only kiss DURING sex - not at any other time.
If you don't enjoy it, it is worth thinking about whether you feel nice & clean in your mouth - it's not nice to kiss someone after they have smoked, eaten strong tasting food, drank alcohol, or are otherwise unfresh. Try making sure both of you are feeling fit and healthy and have flossed and cleaned your teeth.
Some people are also just bad kissers. It's not comfortable anyway to kiss with your mouth "open", but using a little tiny bit of tongue (think of a cat licking its lips with its tiny tongue) can be really nice.
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reader, funkilla  +, writes (15 March 2007):
If it truly bothers you that you haven't open-mouth kissed yet, gradually change kissing techniques. Instead of going at it like you're trying to suck each others' face, try some lip biting or gentle sucking on the lips. For me, that adds a spice to the kiss, and makes it more fiery for me, and its still not open-mouth kissing.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (15 March 2007):
 I am the same, I hate kissing, unless it's in the heat of the moment and very passionate. I find it disgusting and forced the rest of the time.
It's like anything it a relatiosnhip: if one of you doesn't want to do it, you don't have to. There's no rules about things you must do when you're in a relationship.
Just relax and enjoy the things you do like. If neither of you are too bothered about then, that's even better! But I must stress that you must make sure the reason you don't like kissing is not because the sex is all that matters in the relationship. I know when people are using one another for sex, kissing is the first thing they won't do.
But if you're happy in the relationship and love and respect each other then just do whatever makes you happy.
Good luck
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