Am I being portrayed as the underdog?
Q. I have known my friend for 5 years and our friendship has grown over years. I have trust issues opening up to people who get close to me, thou I am bubbly and the life and sole of the party and get on with everyone. Most of the time I am perceived ...
A. 30 July 2012: As you say yourself, "I am left guessing". It sounds as though you're concerned about what your friends are saying about the relationship, but you don't have any evidence to support what you're feeling - as you put it, "Am I just a little ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that my ex-boyfriend is essentially my "muse" even though we've been broken up for a year?
Q. Hi all. So, I like to write poems, and sometimes I write to sort of have a release for my emotions. So sometimes I may feel a bit crappy about my ex-boyfriend, so I write poetry that kind of expresses how I feel. My question is, is it kind...
A. 9 July 2011: Sounds like a plan and you know best what will help in this situation. Sometimes it's not good to dwell. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so badly when I should be excited?
Q. My question is more of a concern. I've been with my boyfriend 3 years and we are very much inlove. We've talked about marriage/kids etc and at the moment were looking to buy a house. However I am so nervous, I'm on complete eggshells every ...
A. 9 July 2011: Bless you, this must be hard. However, I'm a bit believer that it makes no sense to say that you "should" feel a certain way about anything. You can help the way you act, sure, but you can't help feeling the way you do and so in a sense there is no ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that my ex-boyfriend is essentially my "muse" even though we've been broken up for a year?
Q. Hi all. So, I like to write poems, and sometimes I write to sort of have a release for my emotions. So sometimes I may feel a bit crappy about my ex-boyfriend, so I write poetry that kind of expresses how I feel. My question is, is it kind...
A. 7 July 2011: No, I don't think it's lame. I actually think it's pretty healthy. But it doesn't even sound like you're really writing about him - as you say, more the way you feel about everything. I actually think you've probably moved on completely, and are ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he likes me but is bothered by the age gap?
Q. I have an attractive, single friend (we worked together last summer and have kept in touch) who I get on with like a house on fire. I'm pretty smitten and I get the vibe that he's attracted to me too. Only problem is I'm 23 and he's 38, and we're ...
A. 1 July 2011: Thanks for your replies, everyone, loads of help! Babygirl - actually, I'm the one living in a different country (Spain), and he's a local boy. Which I actually really like - I feel like we learn a lot from each other, but our cultures aren't so ... (read in full...)
Can't make friends or make any impact on anyone. No-one cares for me as I do them.
Q. Hi there, I have a problem with making friends with people. I get nervous around people and don't know what to talk about. I don't do much minus work and sleep and it takes a second to say I went shopping at the weekend or went to church. Peopl...
A. 30 June 2011: This is just a suggestion, and I don't pretend to have all the answers to your problem, but have you thought about doing some kind of voluntary work i.e. with the Samaritans? It sounds kind of selfish, but helping other people is a really good way ... (read in full...)
Found out my friends are a little two faced - what now?
Q. My bestfriend who i have known for around 4 years now had started turning a bit cold recently and its been bugging me. We still go out and have parties and talk about everything, but i was on her social network account tonight she left unattended at ...
A. 30 June 2011: They sound like idiots. Unfortunately, a lot of people are idiots and it's just one of those fun life lessons. If you get a tattoo or not or how it will look has absolutely nothing to do with them (unless for some reason you're planning to get their ... (read in full...)
Will my shorter penis please her as much as a longer one?
Q. Hi, been lurking here, and have seen all the questions on penis size. I know these get asked a thousand times, but I have another one, sorry. I have never been insecure about my size before, but I am with a girl who was with a guy much, much ...
A. 28 March 2011: I don't like men that are too big, it can be uncomfortable.... (read in full...)
Together three years and she didn't give me a birthday present.
Q. ME and my girlfriend have been together for over 3 years now and my birthday just past a month ago. She did not buy me anything for my birthday. I always buy her stuff for her birthday. Is this a bad sign?...
A. 27 March 2011: Sometimes, these things depend. For example, my Dad always forgets my birthday, but I know he loves me to bits and is always there for me. It's just that when he was growing up birthdays weren't considered to be very important. People have different ... (read in full...)
Why is it said that you should hang out with people your own age?
Q. why do some people say that you should hang out with people your own age ?. I'm almost 27, but the men i have liked in the last few years have been between the ages of 39 and 47, and i hang out with some women who are in their thirties and forties ...
A. 8 January 2011: I wonder if you´re the youngest child or an only child? I think sometimes you just feel comfortable with what you´re used to. I´m the youngest of nine cousins and have always felt comfortable spending time with people a bit older than me.... (read in full...)
Her poshness intimidates me!
Q. Well, I'm a 19 year old guy, haven't had a girlfriend for about 4 years, never been smooth with the ladies and get pretty nervous when it comes to speaking to girls that I don't know. A few weeks back we had a xmas party for work at an event that...
A. 7 January 2011: If it helps, I came from quite an upper class background and was always really embarrassed about it. I used to worry that guys would think I was stuck up because of my accent. In other words: lacking self confidence happens to everyone!... (read in full...)
How do I stop liking my teacher?
Q. So, i know loads of teenagers get crushes on their teachers and youv probably gotten a question like this millions of times before, but i really need some advice! So, im 14 right now, and Iv had a few teacher crushes before, but they werent this...
A. 7 January 2011: Fantasies can be really fun, and, as I´m sure you probably know, this one is fairly common and you definitely shouldn´t feel guilty or embarassed about it (that said, do make sure you´re careful who you tell about this because your friends might not ... (read in full...)
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