If it's okay for men to meet visual and sexual needs through porn then surely its okay for married women to date and go on romantic outings with other men to have their romance 'needs' met?
Q. I often hear men (and some women) claim that porn is ok for men within relationships because they are 'visual' and only seeking thrills....etc If this is the case and these people like to stereotype then the other side of this argument is that wom...
A. 5 July 2009: no it's not right. For one you're completely stereotyping here. What makes men only want porn? Many females watch it too and what of the other situation for men? You're comparing something which is a slight perv like attitude in comparison to ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do, to prevent C or my ex, B from making up bad lies about me to A?
Q. Im 19 and I went to school with this guy (lets call him A) who recently sent me a message over msn. We havent really seen or spoke to each other since school, just the odd 'hi how are you' when we run into each other at places. In school we werent...
A. 30 July 2008: I think its best not to worry as it is only a possibility of this happening. However you could explain to A about what C has done and surely he can understand.... (read in full...)
What does "giving head" mean?
Q. What does "giving head" mean?...
A. 3 October 2007: Giving head means giving someone a blowjob... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are crazy for each other! So why do I always think I'm going to lose her?
Q. hi, i have the most amazing girlfriend i could ever ask for...in my eyes shes perfect in almost every way. i love her more than i have ever loved anyone else. and shes always saying she feels the same way. so why do i always think im gona lose her...
A. 20 September 2007: Its simple really, you are so in love you don't thin you are good enough for her when in fact you're likely perfect for her. All this is, is your self esteem. Dont worry about the worst possiblity when you have something that makes you happy.... (read in full...)
He tried to rape me, but I want to give him another chance. Is this wrong?
Q. umm, i have a question 4 you. i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago because he tried 2 rape me. i was in a state. but now i am starting 2 ave feelings 4 him again. I want 2 give him another chance. is this wrong?...
A. 28 June 2007: Simple answer no. Dont go near him, hell get a damn restriction order to prevent him going near you. It might seem cool to go for the bad boys but in the end things like this happen and it can cause a lot of problems.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me and has now he's with my best mate! I still love him...
Q. My boyfrend dumped me about 4 months ago,he is now dating my best freind...I am not talking to either of them and they both hate me. But the problem is I still love him. He cheated on me wit my other mate but i forgave them both for it...what do i ...
A. 28 June 2007: This may be hard to accept but he doesnt love you, so there's no point in it. I know it sounds harsh but it is the truth, you're better going for someone else and ignoring him, and your friend is not a friend to do something that cruel.... (read in full...)
is there anything I can do to forget him? Should I date other guys, or focus on something else?
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday, he is off to college in September, and he says he wants to get ready. And when we were watching a movie the other nite, one of my ex-friends Roxy called and asked wat he'll be doing that nite...he says ...
A. 28 June 2007: I fell in love unfortunately with my best friend. I saw her a lot and as hard as it was I got over her. What to do is spend some time apart. If he texts dont reply for a while, if on msn dont talk or maybe even block for a little while. Try and ... (read in full...)
I fancy my ex's best friend. We had a one night stand when I was drunk but I have feelings for him.
Q. Here's the deal: I do really stupid things when I am drunk (that is, when I "overdrink"). A few weeks ago I was so out of it that I briefly slept with the best friend of my (now ex) boyfriend. Only problem is, it wasn't just a crazy night - I ...
A. 28 June 2007: This is a toughy. You see in my opinion the ex has every right to be angry about this and not want this because face it no one wants their best friend and ex sleeping together. As a best friend you should respect the persons feelings towards their ... (read in full...)
If a guy takes a long time to ask you out, does he have doubts about you?
Q. If a guy takes long to ask u out,does he have doubts about u? All he does is stare at my hair, earrings, lips then back into my eyes, when he's close by he will look deep into my eyes.. Its been going on for months and i doubt he knows that i like ...
A. 12 May 2007: It takes me a long time to ask out girls. It's personally because I am shy and have faced a lot of rejection. This guy might have the same problem, if you two are alone at one point and you seem interested in him he might ask you out.... (read in full...)
I don't want to screw up my date to the school prom - please, I need advice!
Q. Well my high school is ending and prom is coming up. I was really nervous about asking a girl, but I did eventually and got a yes! I today near end asked for her number incase anything goes wrong, and I got the answer: "sure can we deal with it ...
A. 6 May 2007: thanks maverick, she was with her friend wehn i asked for number and we are already going to prom together, she thought me asking her was sweet and Imthinking of asking her out sometime at prom.... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in the middle of an affair with my best friend and my ex!
Q. I was with a guy for a year and a half about 2 years ago and i was completely in love with him. He broke up with me and we tried to stay friends. It was very hard for me to be friends with him because i had such strong feelings for him and he made ...
A. 5 May 2007: I have to say this from experience it is hard to stay friends with someone you love. Though you feel you would be sad if they were gone, it is the best thing if they are gone. As for your current relationship, if this is serious and its going to ... (read in full...)
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