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*imino
writes:If a guy takes long to ask u out,does he have doubts about u? All he does is stare at my hair, earrings, lips then back into my eyes, when he's close by he will look deep into my eyes.. Its been going on for months and i doubt he knows that i like him, or is it because i'm indian and he's white thats the real issue here, i cant move on or forget what should i do?
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reader, fergiepunk  +, writes (12 May 2007):
It takes me a long time to ask out girls. It's personally because I am shy and have faced a lot of rejection. This guy might have the same problem, if you two are alone at one point and you seem interested in him he might ask you out.
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reader, Kimino +, writes (12 May 2007):
Kimino is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think its the race issue aswel,as some white parents are very against it,i dnt need that,im trying to avoid him as i want to come over him,but its difficult-he came to set up the printers in our area,and i didnt have my pc as yet so i told him that i'll mail him once i do,but the guy that set up my pc set up my printing,i mailed him to tell him that just coz i want him to reply but he never did
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007): I think he is very attracted to you, but something is holding him back, it could be possible that it is a race issue, we don't really know how he feels about that, maybe he is afraid of what others might say, you might try to let him know you are also interested in him by touching his arm and looking into his eyes and laughing at his jokes if he tells any. If you want to go out with him, you could ask him to have coffee with you or go to lunch and then see if he later asks you out for a date. Good luck.
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reader, kenny +, writes (12 May 2007):
 I don't think that because you are Indian and he is white is the issue with this guy. The likellhood is he is shy or scared of asking you out. It is so obvious he is in to you by thee things he does, like staring at your hair, and gazing into your eyes.
Why don't you take the bull by the horns and make a move on him, if you wait for him you could be waiting a long time.
Good luck x
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