So pleased to be pregnant! But worried the baby is not my boyfriends...
Q. I've recently found out I'm pregnant but something is nagging at me and bringing me down. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year (I'm 17 and he's 21). I really love him but I strayed a couple of months ago (when I got pregnant) and sl...
A. 8 September 2005: What about STDs? A friend of mine was diagnosed with an STD from a one night stand and passed it onto his partner. Thankfully he got it treated and it caused him no further problems. Kids cost money and they take up a lot of time and energy. You're ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to let any guys get close, because I'm sure they'll see my flaws!
Q. Can anyone help me? I am a 27 year old female - virgin. Not by any religous choice but purely because the fact of letting someone that close to me terrifies me (I feel sick, start shaking - like real fear!). On the outside I am fairly outgoing, ...
A. 8 September 2005: Beauty comes from imperfections, because if we were all 'perfect' then we would all be the same. The truth is, you are 27 years old, and I say just jump into bed with someone who does genuinely like you and that you like too and get naked with him, ... (read in full...)
I'm madly in love with another woman, but how do I cope until she decides about her own marriage?
Q. Can anyone help me with this...? My wife sits home every night and drinks scotch. I guess I use that for an excuse, but I have fallen in love with a woman who is married and we are madly in love, mentally and physically. I'm lost, confused and miss...
A. 8 September 2005: You are in love with the other woman who is married and yet you wont give her time and space to allow her to decide on her own marriage before she goes with you exclusively. This is a big time in her life and she must make the decision, not you. ... (read in full...)
How do I persuade my family to give my boyfriend another chance?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend who got me pregnant but promised me to acknowledge the baby when it came, but suddenly he changed his mind. My father was mad and decided to keep the baby and me away from him. Now he regrets his choice and asked for ...
A. 8 September 2005: Time heals all wounds. Your boyfriend may have changed as a person, but your parents are doing the right thing by not trusting him. If he wants to regain their trust and be an active contributor to your and your baby's life, then he must prove he ... (read in full...)
If my parents knew I'm in love with another man, they'd be devastated!
Q. Dear Aunt Agony Irish49/Bev Conolly/anybody!!! I'm in need of help. I love this guy and we want to be together forever. I know my family will have a complete fit if i tell them and definately break their hearts causing it to never be fixed again b...
A. 8 September 2005: Go and see a qualified counsellor and get yourself an army of people who are on your side to help you confront your parents. You will have to confront them eventually. The best you can do for yourself is to face your fears and realise that you do ... (read in full...)
We just want to be with each other, but we're both married, so things are complicated!
Q. I have known a man for 14 years, he has been my best friend for 10 years and now we have found out that we are attracted to one another and we would be happy if we were living together. Unfortunately we are both married, and we are both unhappy ...
A. 8 September 2005: The Grass is not always greener on the other side, but then again, you only live life once, so don't throw away your happiness when you could be happy. It sounds like you are a divorced woman in love with a divorced man living in the skin of a ... (read in full...)
As soon as I told him about my feelings, he stopped talking to me!
Q. Me and this boy have been talking and as we were talking I started falling in love with him... Now this has been going on for 2-3 months and I finally told him. Now he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. What do I do?...
A. 8 September 2005: He's just not that into you. Leave it, if he values your friendship, he'll call you. Otherwise, move on. A quote from the late great Luther Vandross "I'll walk away knowin, I tried my best and I'm going... I'm goin on with my day cause at least she ... (read in full...)
I'm terrible at oral sex, but I want to get better at it!
Q. I can't seem to get comfortable with giving oral sex to my partner. Actually it has happened with the only two sexual partners I've been with. I can't seem to pleasure them. I'm uncomfortable because I'm inexperienced and when I do try, I'm ...
A. 8 September 2005: Practice makes perfect, as they say. Practice with something like a banana or dildo and try to keep your teeth off whatever it is you are using. be gentle and make sure you are using lots of saliva. To stimulate the entire length of the shaft, use ... (read in full...)
Help - have problems controlling my sexual desires in public!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have problems controlling my sexual desires in public. I sometimes get an erection even when i am talking to a girl at work place. I look out for opportunities to flirt at work and try to build some sort of connection like ...
A. 8 September 2005: Both the responses already up talk about improving your out-of-work life but if you improve your social life, the behaviours you have problems with now, probably won't just 'stop'. They have been practiced every day for a while now, so you probably ... (read in full...)
We're expecting a baby in December, but my man disrespects me and says f*ck you!
Q. I am in a nice relationship and we are expecting a baby in December - we are great friends and things are fine mostly. However there have been a few occassions that he swears at me - saying F You and disrespecting etc, when I explain that this is ...
A. 8 September 2005: Firstly, you are absolutely correct that it is not acceptable for him to disrespect you in any way, and that definately includes verbally. The problem here is simply communication. I disagree with Delila, because you could irritate him and cause him ... (read in full...)
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