My parents don't like my Bf who's older. They're suffocating me with their over protection and treating me like I'm still a child. What to do?
Q. I live at home still because I am in post secondary and cannot afford to live on my own and I am fortunate enough to be able to live a home for free. But my parents are extremely over protective of me. I have tried sooo many times reasonin...
A. 22 April 2013: Hi everyone, thank you all again for the in depth responses, they are all very thought provoking and for sure making me think harder about my choices. I completely realize that a relationship with this guy is a difficult one and is problems do ... (read in full...)
My parents don't like my Bf who's older. They're suffocating me with their over protection and treating me like I'm still a child. What to do?
Q. I live at home still because I am in post secondary and cannot afford to live on my own and I am fortunate enough to be able to live a home for free. But my parents are extremely over protective of me. I have tried sooo many times reasonin...
A. 22 April 2013: Thank you all for the feedback! I do appreciate it. I just have a few things to say, I have proved to them that I am responsible and have done a lot to prove that to them. I would like to say also that my boyfriend is only one year older and the ... (read in full...)
I broke her heart with the high school thing. How do I tell her that I did so bad they took me off of aid? There's no easy way to tell her and I've held off for months.
Q. Hello everyone, My relationship with my mother has always been strained. We never do the traditional hug/kiss/I love you mom! thing. I just never understood it, however, I do understand that she cares for me and wants the best for me. I want to ma...
A. 21 April 2013: Don't beat yourself up about it! School is tough. Really tough. Especially with depression, financial issues and I am guessing a lack of a support system. There is no easy way to tell your mom, but you sort of have to tell her. I am sure she will be ... (read in full...)
I pushed her away in the past, but now we've rekindled the spark, but we are both married and not sure how to proceed.
Q. This is hard to share. I met the love of my life (I'll call her Jane) in High School. It sounds typical, but it's true. We dated for three years, and it was love from the very first moment. Those three years were the best of my life. The feelings...
A. 21 April 2013: I don't believe you will ever truly have happiness in either of your marriages again. You are both madly in love and I think it is unfair to both your spouses if you can't full commit to them. Maybe its just because I'm really young and can't yet ... (read in full...)
How do you leave a step child that is 5, but the relationship is a dead end
Q. How do I leave my stepchild, who is just 5 years old and adores me? I just can't take any more. My relationship and life are terrible. Partner isn't violent or drunk or anything, it's just all the controlling and weirdness. His brother hates me. ...
A. 18 April 2013: This is a very unfortunate situation and I really feel for you. Obviously, as you know, you must leave the situation you are in. The only thing you can really do is talk with the child's biological parents. Hopefully both the mother and father will ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gives her phone number out to other guys and texts them!
Q. My Girlfriend and I have been dating for about two months now. I dont talk to any other girls but she talks to other guys. what pissed me off to get mad at her and write this was she said something like "why wont this guy leave me alone, I dont want ...
A. 17 April 2013: I have a boyfriend and I still will give my number out and text other guys. You should respect that your girlfriend can talk to other guys and have male friends. You obviously like this girl and her talking to other guys and perhaps flirting a bit ... (read in full...)
No contact for 5 months, finding out things. What else is he hiding?
Q. Ok lets start from the beginning..... My friend set me up. I was leaving work and she calls me and asked me what I was doing after work. I told her I was going home she than told me I should stop by. So 2 busses latter I called her and said I would ...
A. 17 April 2013: If he just straight up left you for that long, hes not worth it. He could easily do it again. I know you care a lot for him but hes obviously got some serious explaining to do to you and if hes not willing to spill then I'd say you need o move on ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my girlfriend I got 2 drunken pecks on the cheek? Or let it go?
Q. Hello All, Quick overview on the situation: I have been dating this woman, whom I love deeply, for about 6 months now. We live about a short distance apart and I shortly plan to propose to her. She is definitely the one for me. I couldn't imagine...
A. 16 April 2013: It was a peck, and not even initiated by you. I don't think it is really a big deal and definitely not worth bringing up. You obviously are a very respectable boyfriend that you feel so bad about this so I know you would never cheat on her. You ... (read in full...)
How to tell if she's interested or just friendly?
Q. I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but it's been about 5 years since I've really dated someone. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only see each other every...
A. 16 April 2013: Well there really is no way to tell until you ask her out. This is the age old question thats virtually impossible to figure out sometimes. All you can do is casually ask her out and see what see says. You seem to have known her for a long time now ... (read in full...)
BF wants me to improve on my appearance, I feel hurt!
Q. I have a very good looking boyfriend . . . He loves me a lot . . . But he constantly asks me to change my hair style , to use cosmetics . . . But i like to be simple . . . He also gives examples of the girls who look beautiful . . . . This hurts me ...
A. 16 April 2013: I would bluntly just tell him that that is not you and you don't want to pretend to be what you're not and leave it at that. I think that that response would be enough to let him know you're not someone else.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out? Or is the age difference too much?
Q. So a bit of a random question, I have moved offices at work and now am at a office closer to home. Of which is next to a bakery.. over the past few months I have been in for my lunch and have met a nice young girl, who seems nice and has a nice ...
A. 16 April 2013: I don't see why anything between you two would not let her do things that 18 year olds do, just let her have lots of space in that regard and don't hog her completely to yourslef, that is if things do advance further. Obviously you must ask her name ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out? Or is the age difference too much?
Q. So a bit of a random question, I have moved offices at work and now am at a office closer to home. Of which is next to a bakery.. over the past few months I have been in for my lunch and have met a nice young girl, who seems nice and has a nice ...
A. 16 April 2013: When I was 18 I was in a relationship with a 25 year old. The age gap didn't matter to either of us at all, the only thing that mattered was we both got along and enjoyed spending time with one another. The only issue regarding age was that my ... (read in full...)
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