Do I act on these feelings for a male friend?
Q. I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend (wanting to rub cocks/jack him off). Could this be ...
A. 22 June 2008: Fight those thoughts, ideas and suggestions. Your straight, don't act on them. It might be the biggest regret of your life if you did. Guys minds are wild at times, but you don't have to do everything you think of.Focus your mind on something else ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay and in denial?
Q. Is my boyfriend gay and in denial ? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In the early days, he was somewhat distant.. I thought it was his personality. He was also sexual but not passionate with me. I felt it was because he had been alone f...
A. 22 June 2008: OK, what ,other than he's dating you, says that he's NOT gay.My first impression of this is that your a sort of "cover relationship" for him. I don't know what it is about this, but I get the feeling that the relationship you have is still distant. ... (read in full...)
Was I molested? What should I do?
Q. I'm in my early 20s (male) and this happened 7 years ago: so, in case you did not know, in middle east classrooms (which are of same sex), students who reach sexual maturity faster will molest others by force, I was the victim of this, i had no i...
A. 22 June 2008: I don't know what your beliefs are, but Jesus was the only thing that got me through those times. When I was about your age a girl friend convinced me to come forward about it. With men in general, it's tough to just come forward and say that. HA! I ... (read in full...)
Found out my fiancee is still married to another guy! What should I do?
Q. my fiance is married! She gave me some lame story of how she and her ex got married overseas and neither did anything to get a divorce. now we're scheduled to be married soon. do i leave her for lying to me or try and work through this? ...
A. 21 June 2008: Man, you need to step away, and do it quickly. You definetly DO NOT need to marry this person right now or maybe never. If you were looking at this post from someone else, you'd probably say "Run while you still can!" Eh? If she'll hide a little ... (read in full...)
My GF will not have sex until she is married. I don't want to cheat on her but I have my urges...
Q. My girlfriend is a virgin and will not have sex until she is married. I respect her and her wishes. But I want her so bad it's killing me! I don't want to cheat on her but I have urges what should I do?...
A. 21 June 2008: IF you love and respect her, then you'll wait. society has sex all mixed up and misplaced. Wait til your married because if you don't , you'll cheapen it. You'll rob you and her of something special. There is more to a relationship than sex, and if ... (read in full...)
My partner has a split personality, will he ever change?? What should I do??
Q. My partner of 5 years has a split personality. He is a paranoid, possessive boozer. I love him to bits when he is Hyde. He is the most kind, loveable, generous, entertaining, knowledgeable man. Whan he is Jeckel I hate him with a vengence. If he ...
A. 21 June 2008: I agree with the rest, he ether has some mental illness or a drug problem. He needs to get help and so do you. IF he is abusive then you need to decide about how bad it is and is it worth ending up in a coffin. Drugs and mental illnes is something ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but want my builder
Q. Hi Im confused! I am 21 and have always been very headstrong! 4 years ago i met a married man who i instantly fell for. I found out he wasnt happy in his marraige and made a play for him...it worked and i am now married to him! He worships the grou...
A. 21 June 2008: You need to control yourself with men. Look hard at your life and look at the pattern that you've started. OK your husband of now was married while you were seeing him now you are married to him and this "builder-friend" comes in and your ready to ... (read in full...)
2 of my friends like the same girl as me. Should I let them ask her out?
Q. Hey, theres this girl shes really nice and i like her bt its not that simple 2 of my friends like her aswel she like me and one of my other mates who likes her.Should i let my mate ask her out or ask her out myself ...
A. 21 June 2008: Look, in this game it's every man for himself.... (read in full...)
When will this get easier after his cheating?
Q. Ok question to those cheated on. When will this get easier. Done the shouting, the soul searching, the anger, the bitterness, the forgiveness etc. Still love him despite everything and he is the one who is trying really hard after a silly one off ...
A. 21 June 2008: You may not like what I have to say or ask, but where is your heart at on beliefs? We are as strong as what we believe in. Do you believe in God? Because the trust or faith we put on some is only meant for for God because that faith will always ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know what being a prostitute is really like? And is it dangerous?
Q. I'm 20 and i have a house, which i'm renting, but i recently lost my job and i owe rent. I also owe money for other things. Someone i know has said they can get me a job as a prostitute, i don't know if i can do it, or if i'm that desparate. Does ...
A. 21 June 2008: If you want to end up with a disease, dead and/or basically in self submitted slavery sure. Wake up!!! There is nothing but death there. The money ain't worth it! YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A COUPLE OF POUNDS!... (read in full...)
She broke up with me for her ex. She broke with her ex 3 days ago. Upset!
Q. A couple of days ago the girl i liked finished her boyfriend and wanted to be with me, we hung out and did alot of stuff kissing and we would stare into each others eyes. I fell for her and today just 3 days after she broke up with him she was ...
A. 21 June 2008: Man, i know it hurts, but don't obsesses over it. If you've got friends or family, go do something. Or, you could do like I did with one and just go somewhere and cry. Just get it out and over! Nope, don't seem like the man thing to do but when your ... (read in full...)
My manly man likes to see she-male porn! Is this a common fetish for men?
Q. My husband of five years is looking at shemales. He's always had a healthy sexual appetite. However, he has been less interested in me lately and has been acting suspicious so I started monitering his computer. He looks at craig's list everyday, ...
A. 21 June 2008: OK, here's the truth from a guy who has struggled with this crap for a bit. 1. Shemale porn is a deception for men who have looked at it are just ridding the fence ; no they're not gay but yet the true love they should have for a woman has been ... (read in full...)
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