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I am in a sexless marriage! What can I do?

Q.   Hello. I have been married for almost three years now. When we were dating our sex life was great. My then boyfriend was spontaneous, he would initiate most of the time. But after we got married and I got pregnant our sex life just dwindled...

A.   4 July 2019: Thank you all for your advice. I really appreciate it. and just to clarify some things. yes both pregnancies were planed. And my husband is always the one in the forefront about having kids. He only makes serious effort when he wants to knock me u... (read in full...)

I am in a sexless marriage! What can I do?

Q.   Hello. I have been married for almost three years now. When we were dating our sex life was great. My then boyfriend was spontaneous, he would initiate most of the time. But after we got married and I got pregnant our sex life just dwindled...

A.   3 July 2019: Thank you wiseowlE for your advice. I like the way you outlined all your points. my husband is the nicest man I have ever met. He treats me well in all the other areas of our life together. I can't complain about that. I lean on him, he is my rock... (read in full...)

I don't know if I made the right decision by getting back with my ex boyfriend.

Q.   hey everyone.i just got back with my ex boyfriend.we had broken up for about one year six months.it has been a month since we started dating again.we broken up because he cheated on me and a week after we broke up he started dating another girl.he ...

A.   15 November 2012: thank you very much for your advice.i will do just that.it nice to hear the opinion of someone who is neutral to the situation.thank you.... (read in full...)

Is it normal to enjoy being single?

Q.   What is wrong with me? is this normal? will I feel better soon? I loved my ex bf so much, he said he loved me and I believed him cos he was a nice sweet guy. But he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore. I found out after ou...

A.   14 November 2011: am also in the same situation as you.its been six months.am enjoying being single,i don't miss being in a relationship.i think am over my ex but am not interested in anyone at all, i turn down guys every now and then.i believe that with time it will ... (read in full...)

I feel like he's flown off and I'm stuck on the ground

Q.   So, things are a mess with my ex. Help? I'm sorry if this is one huge ramble, I really need to let it all out somehow. I broke up with him at the start of July earlier this year. We'd been together a while, a year and a few months. Each other's ...

A.   30 October 2011: am kind of like in the simillar situation.me and my ex broke up in june this year.we are at the same university, we stay on the same campus and we go to the same church.so you can imagine how often we run into each other.the first two months were ... (read in full...)

How can I get over this, and still be friends with his brother, and not see my ex?

Q.   Hello, I am really having a hard time getting over my ex. I met him thru his brother, aand now it feels like i have to cut his brother my friend off, because things are, well nothing is happening with us. I was doing ok with not communicating with ...

A.   27 October 2011: hey i understand how you feel.from what i have gotten from your story, i can say that you need to forget this guy.just move on.its for your own good.i mean he knew you had a child when you started dating.somehow i think he is just using that as an ... (read in full...)

Do I become friends with my ex or do I move on?? or secretly wait for her?

Q.   Its been about 3 months since I broke up with my girlfriend, we broke up because of past resentment, pent-up frustration and constant fighting (which was mostly started by me). I apologized to her and how my actions affected our relationship and ...

A.   27 October 2011: i agree with the other agony aunts..just let go.cut off all contact and look forward to a brighter future.it will hurt but it will eventually stop.we have all been there.... (read in full...)

Girlfriend is not virgin! How do I forgive her?

Q.   i have a relation with a girl since march 2011. after 2 months when she come to know that i love her, she told me that she is not virgin. she cried the whole night and told me that she was force by her ex-boyfriend when she was having a severe ...

A.   13 October 2011: you know even if your girlfriend had sex willingly with her ex,it doesn't give you the right to judge her.if you love her this wont be an issue coz its in the past. "are you a virgin yourself?".if not will ask for forgiveness from your ... (read in full...)

He was texting with his ex and now I don't know what to think!

Q.   So i went out with my boyfriend to his works party they were throwing and i noticed that he was texting the whole time. Then on the way home (i drove cuz he was pretty drunk) i was able to see that he was texting this girl. After we were done ...

A.   11 October 2011: hey,your boyfriend is a lair.i can say am in a simillar situation to yours except am the ex girlfriend.my ex bf has a new gf but he texts me most of the time,sometimes we even meet up to chat.he tells me how he misses me,and how he wishes things ... (read in full...)

My ex is confusing me.Is he doing it on purpose?

Q.   hai everyone.Am in a confusing situation.My ex boyfriend and i were together for 11 months,we broke up 4 months ago.We are at the same university.i broke up with him after i found out that he cheated on me when we closed school.The girl he cheated ...

A.   29 September 2011: Thanks alot for your advice..at the back of my head i know i deserve better than this.there are alot of guys interested in me now that they know am single.am moving on and making progress.i think i will give my ex a piece of my mind when i see ... (read in full...)

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