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30-35,
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writes:What is wrong with me? is this normal? will I feel better soon? I loved my ex bf so much, he said he loved me and I believed him cos he was a nice sweet guy. But he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship anymore.I found out after our split that he was sleeping with some girl behind my back but dumped her as soon as I found out and said she was just a booty call.Anyway, is been 8 months now and am over him. But I want to be single, I don't miss having a bf, kissing or anything like that. I feel numb. and I've found that I've turn down so many guys that have come to me in the last 8months cos I feel they will break my heart like my ex did.I also feel like I can't be attracted to anyone else. What is wrong with me? I see my friends jumping from guy to guy.Am just into college, job and working out, friends..But am not bothered. Is this. Normal? Am 22 next month..xxThanks..xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 November 2011):
 Does anybody else think moon river's avatar looks like Steve Buscemi?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (14 November 2011):
 Doesn't sound like you are enjoying being single unless feeling numb has a different meaning then I think.
Feeling numb sounds more like you are depressed. Rejecting any advances even just to flirt sounds like you are afraid of getting hurt. Saying you are afraid of having your heart broken again sounds like you... are... afraid of... getting your heart broken...
Oh okay, sometimes you don't need to read between the lines.
Yes, some people enjoy being single... however when you have to tell it to yourself between bouts of crying, it doesn't really count.
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reader, moon river +, writes (14 November 2011):
 yes! and enjoy it whilst it lasts because men can sense your strong by your self and will probably be attracted to you
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reader, euphrasia  +, writes (14 November 2011):
am also in the same situation as you.its been six months.am enjoying being single,i don't miss being in a relationship.i think am over my ex but am not interested in anyone at all, i turn down guys every now and then.i believe that with time it will all get better.and when i meet the right guy i will fall in love again.so we have to enjoy this time and use to build ourselves.gudluck.
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