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writes:Weird situation I guess.There are two girls involved. I shall refer to them as just A and B.A I am very close with, and I once started pursuing her as a possible romantic interest which just wasn't to be. B I have started to really like, and I believe we could hit it off. I hadn't seen A for ages, but when I did I realised I still like her. I know I can never have a relationship with A. But we are very close friends. This makes me feel it would be wrong to pursue anything with B.Help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is we are very close. VERY close. And I feel that it might create problems. And if it were to, I might feel that I would have been terribly unkind and unfair to B.
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reader, EN_Ken  +, writes (30 September 2009):
Anonymous,You can have feelings for more than one person because our feelings are simply reactions. Your feelings for A should not prevent you from exploring other possibilities. As you said, you feel for A but you know that nothing can ever come of it. If that's the case, then you must move on. If you feel that there's a possibility that B and you could potentially hit it off and have something, then you should go for it. What determines whether or not you pursue something with her is not how you feel about another girl, but it's how you feel about her.-Ken
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