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... Send *mily Ophelia a private message | | | *mily Ophelia's profile:Hm, what qualifies me to help people? Generally liking helping people and being rather good at imagining what other might feel like.
Where do I live? Hamburg, Germany. Best city ever, closely followed by London, though ;)
My relationshipstatus? Guys keep telling me I am beautiful, funny, caring and whatnot but I still must be horrible because they all said they don't want a relationship. well, whatever. |
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Help. I'm doubting whether he means it when he says he loves me, or feels the way I do about staying together for the rest of our lives.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and eight months. He was my best friend for about a year and a half beforehand, and I love him with absolutely all my heart. We have a fantastic relationship, and tell each other everything. I want t...
A. 11 November 2012: Don't doubt that he loves you! He does now and the moment is what counts! I have been with my first boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and I was entirely certain that we'd end up being married. Turns out things don't out the way you want them to when you are ... (read in full...)
Help!!!! My confidence and self esteem are at an all time low...
Q. My self esteem and confidence was shattered by my ex boyfriend, he would always call me fat and make nasty comments about the way i looked and my weight. In the bedroom he would constantly tell me how crap i was at some things and how sometimes i ...
A. 11 November 2012: Oh dear :(
I feel rather sorry for you, even though this is probably not really helping. However, if you should feel like talking to somebody else and just getting to know other people who will not judge you on what they see, give me a shout =)... (read in full...)
My good friend told my crush bad things about me, do I confront her?
Q. Hello, I'm really troubled now. I'm in love with this boy from my school, Matthew. He has hinted that our feelings are mutual recently but does not wish to take our relationship to the next level yet, because he wants to focus on his studies. I'm ...
A. 11 November 2012: You should definitely confront her about that! Apart from her approach being morally wrong it is never a good thing knowing somebody is walking around, sabotaging your almost-relationships! Especially, if it is a friend!
About the guy... talk to ... (read in full...)
Are there solutions to this problem or do I need medical advice?
Q. Im 19 and I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. I am not that sexually experienced, im still a virgin but i've done foreplay. Yesterday, i allowed him to try and finger me for the first time, but it didnt work. He could only fit 3/4 of h...
A. 6 March 2012: I hope I can be of help here... I kinda had the same problem- I hate tampons and when I had sex the first time it hurt like hell (despite being relaxed and in the mood)... I haven't tried tampons since but I hope using them might now less ... (read in full...)
Crush on my teacher....can we still be friends in the future?
Q. If a male teacher has a family (a wife and a son of 3 years old) and had a crush on a quiet, hardworking student at school 2 years ago, 2 years later, on the day of her graduation, will he still remember and miss her? Do you think he has forgotte...
A. 6 March 2012: Hey there :)
Funny story, something not that different happened to me a few years ago. Despite having a boyfriend I had a major crush on my philosophy teacher. He had a girlfriend at the time (they now have a little boy) and while I wasn't t... (read in full...)
I'm a student tutoring younger students and I have a crush on one of them them!
Q. Hey everyone, a new one from me... I'm in my third semester at University and I'm leading a Tutorium (kind of an extra class) for a lecture. Obviously, I'm a student and it's about students of older semesters helping the ones who just started....
A. 2 January 2012: Thank you so much you two! I'll be seeing him on wednesday- update promised, if there is anything to tell... =)... (read in full...)
I'm a student tutoring younger students and I have a crush on one of them them!
Q. Hey everyone, a new one from me... I'm in my third semester at University and I'm leading a Tutorium (kind of an extra class) for a lecture. Obviously, I'm a student and it's about students of older semesters helping the ones who just started....
A. 1 January 2012: Hey Frank,
thanks for your answer! And no, there aren't any regulations. So this is not my problem. It's more like... how could I approach him? Even if I wait till the semester is over (which is the case in about 4 weeks) I have no clue how.
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Is he worth fighting for? He said he doesn't want a relationship.
Q. So. Hey everyone. Here's my story. I know this guy since about three years and I've had a number of crushed on him since about a year and a half ago. I never acted on them because I had a boyfriend at the time but no matter how strong I fought t...
A. 31 December 2011: Hey, if anyone is interested in how things turned out... well here goes nothing.
We wrote some emails, saw each other on a concert of his band (I got wobbly knees when we hugged) and that was about it. And I'm really quite fine with it :)
Anyho... (read in full...)
Both me and my crush are shy, what's the best approach to take?
Q. Hello :) Basically I really like this guy, but he's SO shy. I'm pretty shy too, but i like him so much that I've tried to just sort of go for it. I've dropped some hints so I'm sure he knows i like him, but I think he's too shy to make the first ...
A. 27 July 2011: Hey :) A few years ago the same thing basically happened for me. And although you may be dropping hints like crazy, guys are blind. And maybe even a little stupid about that. If I were you I wouldn't be too sure if he really got it. Try smiling ... (read in full...)
How can I make a move on this guy I like?
Q. Hi people I'm a 17-year-old guy leaving school next summer. I haven't kissed a girl in ages, and I don't really want to any more. There's a new boy that joined my school a few months ago who's cute, gorgeous and really hot, and I can't stop fan...
A. 26 July 2011: Hey you,
do you get along with him? Because maybe it could be worth a try to just meet up and I don't know, talk, play some football, what ever you like. You could get to know him, maybe show him a little more of your feelings and you can try to f... (read in full...)
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