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Is there somethint he's not telling me, or is it me?

Q.   Someone give me some good advice, PLEASE! I`m 31 and a mother of three and also three months pregnant and live with my partner, he is a great dad and great partner but the thing is three years ago i thought and accused my partner of having an affai...

A.   11 October 2007: thanks for the advice mandy7 and tellulah, it makes sense but what if he fails the lie dectector test? and i have been right all along? /then i would be a single mother because i wouldnt and couldnt forgive anybody who has cheated on me. i love him ... (read in full...)

I love him but I can't resist the temptation to cheat on him. Any advice??

Q.   hi, I am in a turmoil.I have been with my current boyfriend for about 3 years on and off.I'm 17 and going to university in september, about 2 hours from where i live now. I know that you will all probably start having a go at me, but i have cheated...

A.   23 March 2006: just finish with him, its the only way that you are gonna be fair to him, you say you get tempted to cheat, well you will probably find that these feelings will become stronger especially as you are starting university, where you will be seeing new ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for gay guys to flirt with girls they don't fancy?

Q.   I have a friend and his gay, the thing is he seems to flirt quite a bit with me. for example he would touch and sqeeze my leg, he wanted to give me a eskimo kiss, and he rub his face against mine, mirroring my body language. I dunno , is he ...

A.   23 March 2006: he is gay darling, i repeat GAY, if he wanted sex with women then he would be straight. hes just playing with you as a friend, nothing more. ... (read in full...)

He took his female friend out for dinner and then to his place for wine. What's going on here?

Q.   Hey, I need an opinion. I am a 47 year old woman. My bf (46) called me last night and told me he took a female friend (25) out for dinner. I have met this female friend-one time-don't know her that well. Then they both went back to his place and ...

A.   22 March 2006: tell him to get lost! sorry darling but this so called man sounds like a insensitive pig, hes behavior is totally unacceptable, i can relate to how you feel and i feel for you so much, if the shoe was one the other foot would he be ok with it? i ... (read in full...)

Am I a feak for having a "fat" vagina?

Q.   im kind of worried about something, and i could use some honest answers from guys (or girls if they know!) well its weird, but i think my vagina is too fat. im not overweight, but for some reason it seems like the outer lips are too "puffy". im ...

A.   22 March 2006: dont worry, your not a freak, every ladies parts look different, have more confidence about your body, just feel great that you are female, the best sex to be, id say, its the men who have all the worries about their sexual parts, believe me! ... (read in full...)

I'm too young for sex. What other options do I have?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I'm 12 and i really want to have sex but I'm too young. Is it okay to masturbate or is there any other options?...

A.   22 March 2006: you are too young to be thinking about having sex young lady, far too young. get this out of your head until you are old enough, concentrate on school work, study! ... (read in full...)

Why did he stop chatting with me so quickly?

Q.   I met this guy through some friends a year ago on my birthday. I didn't really know him then but I could tell he wanted to chat to me. We got chatting a couple of months ago and I started to really like him - I could tell he had some feelings...

A.   20 March 2006: forget him, he sounds like a real jerk! that special someone will come your way, someone who will appreciates you and give syou the respect you deserve. as i say forget about this guy and move on, dont blame yourself or feel bad cos he has stopped ... (read in full...)

Am I reading too much into this email?

Q.   What do you think? I really like this guy and I think he likes me. But I am not sure. We are both a board of a charity and yesterday afternoon we had a meeting and were discussing an idea with the whole group. Him and I disagreed on a tactic,...

A.   20 March 2006: i think that maybe you are reading a bit too much into this, i mean it was only an email! im sure if this man was interested he would surely express hes feelings another way! it sounds like he is just being polite. maybe it could be you who is ... (read in full...)

Is there anything suspect about my girlfriend's close male friend, or shouldn't I worry?

Q.   I hope someone can help me with this. A little background: My girlfriend has had an extensive sexual past. In an effort to keep from hurting me she has lied about it until recently. I have been able to deal wih the majority of the pain that com...

A.   19 March 2006: i think that you have every right to feel suspitious about your g/fs male friend, you are her her partner after all! i have been in a similar situation like yourself and its unfair that your g/f should be making you feel this way, dont feel guilty ... (read in full...)

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