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writes: I have a friend and his gay, the thing is he seems to flirt quite a bit with me. for example he would touch and sqeeze my leg, he wanted to give me a eskimo kiss, and he rub his face against mine, mirroring my body language. I dunno , is he flirting with me? Is it normal for gay guys to flirt with girls who they don't fancy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): I have a lot of Gay friends who are touchy-feely. It's quite normal for gay guys to flirt with girls - it's their feminine side. Don't worry about it - take it in the fun way it's intended. Steve www.gayflirt.co.uk
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): ALL the above comments help me to understand now. Only problem is when you have feelings for them and they start
to touch you, it is hard to seperate playfulness from
affection.
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reader, agonyaunt247 +, writes (5 April 2006):
 Hay, Yea i think that is normal for gay guys to be really flirty. My gay guy mates always flirt wif me. I just do it back even though I know and he knows that its just fun. It's a way of showing them that your friendship is secure,Catt xxoo
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reader, mystify +, writes (24 March 2006):
 i have a few gay friends , and they all are touchy feely and a little childlike (eskimo kisses) but none of them are straight, i think they see it just like having a laugh with your girlfriends.
i guess it might be flirting , but i dont think flirting is sexual 100% of the time , sometimes its about displaying confidence.
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reader, d4u04  +, writes (23 March 2006):
 As a gay man myself I agree with the below comments that it's just friendly flirty kind of things. I do it to my girlfriends all the time :-) x
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reader, dr good advice +, writes (23 March 2006):
he is gay darling, i repeat GAY, if he wanted sex with women then he would be straight. hes just playing with you as a friend, nothing more.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (22 March 2006):
 i had the same thing happen to me i though a friend was gay but he was'nt, maybe he isnt gay maybe bi sexual, i have a gay male friend who is in a serious gay relationship with a man but he has told me that he still finds women a major turn on and often how hot women look etc i have even caught him checking me out a couple of times. so maybe is bi and is very attracted to you but has no intentions to go any further with it.
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reader, xxhoney69xx +, writes (22 March 2006):
 i belive when a homosexual man flirts with a woman it is his way of showing fun within the friendship, there is nothing wrong with harmless friendship, it is a way as a girl we flirt with our girlfriends all the time...showing off our bodies and make up 2 one another to make ourselves look good this is the same concept... just have fun!!!
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