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female
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anonymous
writes: im kind of worried about something, and i could use some honest answers from guys (or girls if they know!) well its weird, but i think my vagina is too fat. im not overweight, but for some reason it seems like the outer lips are too "puffy". im sorry its vulgar but i dont know how else to put it honestly. i just wanted to know if this is a turn off to guys? i've only had 2 boyfriends and they never said anything bad about it, only that it was larger than ones theyve seen. am i a freak?
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female
reader, BigSis +, writes (9 April 2008):
"I say embrace your lips and show them to the world!"
He doesn't mean literally....I hope!
We are all built differently, and we should love every part of what nature intended us having. Now don't worry about them, i'm sure they are just fine.
I've learnt to love the few parts of my body that I hated or thought didn't look right, but now i'm happy with them. Trust me you are worrying over nothing, just like i was.
BigSis xXx
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): No all vaginas are beautiful! How boring would the world be without a demographic of fat labia? I say embrace your lips and show them to the world!
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female
reader, PrunellaGringepith +, writes (23 March 2006):
The question is, what are you comapring yourself to? If the answer is nude models or pornstars then you should know that these women are not particularly normal anyway!
The truth is male and female genitalia come in all shapes and sizes, with a surprisingly wide range. Just think of it this way...if you were a man...would you be complaining because you though your 'you-know-what' was big?
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female
reader, dr good advice +, writes (22 March 2006):
dont worry, your not a freak, every ladies parts look different, have more confidence about your body, just feel great that you are female, the best sex to be, id say, its the men who have all the worries about their sexual parts, believe me!
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female
reader, Sexybum +, writes (22 March 2006):
Hiya, everyones vagina is shaped in different ways. Some peoples outer lips are bigger then the inners, some people have bigger inners than outer!
Some people even have bigger lips on say the left side then they do on the right. You are not Abnormal, I'm sure every women have looked at their bits and wondered is it meant to be like that, the men too!!
The trick is to accept that you are an individual (without being vulgar-if you look in mens mags you will see that all women are different and same 'hang' more than others-and they are the models!!!)
Accept that you are an individual, everybodies bodies are UNIQUE and you must LOVE your body in all its glory!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2006): No, you're not a freak. My ex had some pretty big lips as well. 8]
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