I am lusting after my "brother-in-law" and am terrified he knows it! Any suggestions on what I should do?
Q. I am lusting after my "brother-in-law" and am terrified he knows it. I have been with my boyfriend for several years so I am a part of the family. I have been lusting after my boyfriend's brother for some time and am afraid he can see it. I a...
A. 17 January 2007: Before, I respond, I would like to know how or what precipitated these feelings. Then I will provide professional advice.
Dorfmeistersfan... (read in full...)
She has a mail friend who e-mails her and it upsets me, that she thinks about him way too often! Any advice?
Q. My wife has an e-mail relationship with another man. He is a mutual friend. The e-mails are not private, I can read them, but they are frequent. I know she gets excited to get e-mails from him and checks her e-mail a lot during the day (a lot ...
A. 14 January 2007: I am not the one who is creating issues of discomfort, un-easiness, skepticism within his marriage, his wife is!
Now, since my last post, his replying email stated, """. There were a couple of e-mails that my wife sent very early on in which sh... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is being abused by his parents!
Q. My boyfriend is getting seriously abused by his parents, physically and mentally. He's even been beaten up while we were talk on the phone, and has even called off dates after literally being in no condition to do anything but rest. I want to call ...
A. 27 December 2006: Wow, I am sorry to hear about your experience.
However, just be there for him. He seriously needs your help. I think his situation will get better with age. Just make sure he doesn't react and hurt his parents out of the sake or rage and impulsiv... (read in full...)
Not even a teen yet and I'm sooo ashamed I stripped for him, when all he wanted was a laugh!
Q. hi i'm not even a teen yet and i stripped in front of this lad who i thought liked me when really he just wanted to have a laugh. that was like a year ago and i still have nightmares and visions of what happened. i see him every day pratical...
A. 27 December 2006: Maybe when you don't see him on a daily basis or in your life, the dreams and nightmares will go away.
Why he laughed, probably b/c it was VERY FUNNY!
Apparently, you weren't very mature in expecting any possible outcomes of this experience.... (read in full...)
Can you ever take back someone who has cheated?
Q. What are your thoughts on cheating? It's a long story so I won't go into too much detail right now. If someone cheats and then realises they have made a terrible mistake...have taken steps to try and put things right...begging for you to take the...
A. 27 December 2006: Life, but not you can make that possible!
Good luck!... (read in full...)
She wants a divorce, so why does she still want sex with me?
Q. I split up from my wife 7 months ago and have since moved out. We were married for 9 years and have 3 children together. None of us have met anybody else, I dont intend to. We split because we were having communication problems and could not talk to ...
A. 27 December 2006: Bottom line, some men are not good for everything.
The existence or success of a marriage requires other things besides sex: good parenting, financial stability, looks, interest, providing security, fun, peace, enjoyment, etc.
Sex is probab... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't need sex!
Q. My boyfriend says he doesn't need sex, could that be true? He says he's getting old and his body doesn't function right, does anyone have a clue whats really going on? ...
A. 27 December 2006: No man loses the ability to be ATTRACTED TOWARDS ANOTHER WOMEN!
The idea of someone saying they are not interested in sex is similar to saying he's not interested in having sex WITH YOU-unfortunately.
The interest, attraction and sparks have ... (read in full...)
She has a mail friend who e-mails her and it upsets me, that she thinks about him way too often! Any advice?
Q. My wife has an e-mail relationship with another man. He is a mutual friend. The e-mails are not private, I can read them, but they are frequent. I know she gets excited to get e-mails from him and checks her e-mail a lot during the day (a lot ...
A. 27 December 2006:
All the posters are SO WRONG HERE...
This is your wife, not your girl friend, and what's more important is the stability of your marriage. No women or man should be sharing intimate, or caring emails with anyone besides their spouse.
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It's a new relationship, so should I dump him for not getting me anything for christmas?
Q. My bf didn't get me anything for christmas. He asked me what size i am and I said small or x small, and then he said i'm not getting u anything!!! so don't think i'm gonna buy u anything. He didn't get me anything for christmas. The relationship is ...
A. 27 December 2006: Okay, use this experience as a standard to observe his "caring" behavior. If it doesn't improve or if it remains the same, then DUMP him.
That simple!... (read in full...)
Should I give him a third chance?
Q. me and my boyfriend has been together for 3 years and then i found out that he cheated on me twice. I left him it's been 3 months now and now he wants me back he said that he was sorry he made a mistake and this time he will give everything he has ...
A. 27 December 2006: I don't anyone can provide your any advice about this one.
The problem is not what you should do in this situation, the problem is what to do with YOU(a person who has been violated, and have developed a tolerance for accepting: cheaters... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother and having sex with him
Q. I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. T...
A. 27 December 2006: This may appear sick and digusting to some, b/c they never been in this situation or may have had their part of a "brain center"-the amygadala, ever challenged in this capacity.
True, it's genetically risky to be having sex with someone who has ... (read in full...)
Does my "hugging" doctor want more than just to make me better?
Q. How can I tell what this Doctor is up to and want from me. I go to him twice a week for therapy and in the past lets say three month he always touches me like on my shoulder and keep his hand there for a while, he has his arms out three times when I ...
A. 2 December 2006: I am not with Medical Doctors, dentist, etc., buying patients lunch, unless they are hungry or in need of nutrition.
Not the arm actions, as I was reading, seemed acceptable until I read further he wanted to buy you lunch. Now the arm actions ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to someone else and it's not my husband, what can I do?
Q. Hi, I am married but am really attracted to another guy. We are good friends - worked together, have since left my job, so at least the temptation is not so much there. I know for a fact if this person asked me out(I know he had feelings for me)i ...
A. 2 December 2006: You don't need to work on your marriage...You didn't work on your marriage when you two first met and thought you two were happy for each other.
Well, attraction is normal and may not be acceptable by society or the rules of marriage. What you... (read in full...)
I made out with my brother in law! We both knew it was wrong..so how do we cope?
Q. i know this isn't exactly a question, but i just needed to write this or tell someone! i was out last night and saw my brother in law! we made out, but both knew how wrong it was, i just feel awkward about the next time i have to see him....
A. 2 December 2006: Forget the feeling of weirdness or awkward. What you did may have been unacceptable, but it was entirely normal and experimental.
Having regret and bad feelings about it is wrong. You love your brother in law, and if seeing him made you happy or... (read in full...)
Anyone have experiences with golden showers?
Q. My boyfriend and i like to watch porn, while in the sex shop recently he bought one on golden shower porn, he mentioned he would like to try this out on me as it is one of his fantasies. We always talk about what we would like to do to each other ...
A. 2 December 2006: If you perform a Golden shower, your uterus is going to contract one of the worst urinary tract infections ever. Sine urine is not allowed or produced anywhere in the uterus, once inside the uterus, toxic effect(due to extreme basic properties of ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my sister-in-law! Please help!
Q. I told my sister in law that i fancy her a couple of months ago she lives 200 miles from us but i can't stop thinking about her sexual ,i am married with a son but feel traped in the marriage very distent from my wife.My wife has put on weight that ...
A. 2 December 2006: When you told your sister in law you had a fantacies of her....how did she react? what words did she use to respond to you?
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