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I am falling for my best mate, help!

Q.   Ok, i'm an 18 year old woman and my best friend is a guy and i've known him for a year. Over the past few months or so, i have realised i am falling in love with him, but i have never told him this because he has a girlfriend and lives some miles ...

A.   18 June 2006: As much as he obviously likes you, he probably only wants to fill in the gaps in his current relationship. You won't know for sure until they break up and you both start dating. If he has sex with you and is with her sill, you can expect him to do ... (read in full...)

Yes, he has a girlfriend already, but he flirts with me outrageously!

Q.   I know this question's been asked hundreds, if not thousands of times before, but I really like my friend that I know has a girlfriend. I wouldn't normally go there for obvious reasons, but he flirts outrageously with me, and I don't know his other ...

A.   18 June 2006: He is an open cheater which means if he cheats on the girl he's with now and lets you know it, he will cheat on you too. You should expect that. If you just want a relationship with him forget it, it won't last long.... (read in full...)

She used to say she loves me, then she cheated, we got through it, now she doesnt say she loves me, what should I do ?

Q.   i have been going out with my girlfriend for 1.5 years. she told me that she loved me a few months after we started going out then a few months ago, she cheated on me. we made things work and got through that but ever since she has never told me ...

A.   18 June 2006: I'd need more information to properly comment, but I'd say that she did feel love for you but lost it for some reason before she cheated on you. She felt bad because the new guy was a jerk and she wanted you back. Odds are she will break up with ... (read in full...)

He spends more time with her than me, as I'm working, I dont want to ruin his friendship, but I dont want to be muscled out either!

Q.   i work 3-4 12hr shifts a wk. my guys best friend is the neighbor girl who works w/him,they ride together to work and spend an average of 1-2 hours a day after work together.im sure there is nothing going on but i still dont like the fact that they ...

A.   12 June 2006: Find yourself a male friend from work (preferably gay, but don't tell him that) and hang out with him all the time. See if his attitude changes.... (read in full...)

GF cheated but I just can't seem to forgive her but I really want to!

Q.   My girlfriend and i have been going out for nearly 2 years. She went to uni and we have been trying to keep things together. She cheated on me (just kissing) with someone I considered to be a threat from the day I met him. She says she instantly ...

A.   12 June 2006: Ok, so she kissed another guy early on in your relationship, and feels bad, and even told you about it later. She didn't cheat on you, she just wasn't sure about you yet. What is the big deal? She didn't even have sex with him or carry his child in ... (read in full...)

14 years old & pregnant. What do I do?

Q.   I am 14 and i know you are all probably thinking what is 14 year old doing with a sex life and I know I shouldn't be thinking of boys and sex yet, but I slept at my boyfriends house for the first time and we ended up having sex for the first time. ...

A.   11 June 2006: Go talk to someone at your local Planned Parenthood office, they will give you advise on your options and what you can do. Good luck!... (read in full...)

How do I know when I've turned my boyfriend on?

Q.   heya just wondering - how do u know when a teenage boy has an erection? do they act differently or have a different facial or body expression? do they give off any clues to having an erection? also second question me an my boyfriend have been tog...

A.   11 June 2006: You're too worried about whether his dick gets hard and what it gets hard to. You should be more worried if he likes spending time with you or not. Afterall, it's not all about sex.... (read in full...)

I dated a guy at 15, then found out "he" was a "she", now im confused about my sexuality!

Q.   I got into a long-distance relationship [my first relationship] with a guy at age 15, found out that "he" was actually a "she" at age 16, and broke up with him/her at 17; about 6 months ago. Before I found out about the person's real identity, I had ...

A.   11 June 2006: So you found out your online lover is not the gender they claimed to be. They were a fraud so hopefully you don't take what they said too seriously and let if effect you. Well, you could be bisexual, gay or straight. It doesn't matter. You were ... (read in full...)

BF of 9 years was unfaithful but says he doesn't have feelings for this other woman!

Q.   I need help please. I recently found out that my boyfriend of 9 years was being unfaithful to me. He is at university and we live 300 miles apart. I discovered as I had a gut feeling that something wasn't right and looked on his mobile phone, and ...

A.   11 June 2006: Unfortunately some long distance relationships lack sex, and some people really want sex. It is possible for many men to disassociate sex from love, and have sex with someone they don't or won't love, just for the fun of it. Women can't do this as ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin lesbian - when she found out, she left! Did I make a big mistake?

Q.   Cupid.. I am a lesbain.. my friends make fun of me.. it hurts my feelings.. I was kissing this girl and she said that she wanted to take it further so we went up to this room and i told her I was a virgin and she left. Did I make a big mistake? ...

A.   11 June 2006: You didn't make a mistake, she did. She probably did what she did because she wasn't interested in a relationship with you. Often when someone has sex for the first time, the feelings are powerful and they want a relationship with the person. ... (read in full...)

Was he really talking to his sister?

Q.   My b/f and i were at his apartment last night. We were in his bedroom and his phone rang indicating a text message. It was almost 2 am. He goes to the other room to get his phone and said it was his sister. He stays there for a minute or two and i ...

A.   11 June 2006: First of all, he could be completely innocent, or maybe he really is stupid enough to talk to his girlfriend in front of you at 2 a.m. and even ask you to call her. That's not the real issue though. The real issue is why you don't trust hi... (read in full...)

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