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He spends more time with her than me, as I'm working, I dont want to ruin his friendship, but I dont want to be muscled out either!

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Question - (11 June 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i work 3-4 12hr shifts a wk. my guys best friend is the neighbor girl who works w/him,they ride together to work and spend an average of 1-2 hours a day after work together.im sure there is nothing going on but i still dont like the fact that they spend more time together than me and him do.when we are together we have very little to say to each other,they talk all the time about people i dont know from work.i cant even join in.im feeling like she is taking over my life and im watching from a distance.this weekend they took my 3 kids out to eat and went to wal-mart while i had to work.how can i fix this w/out ruining someones relationship w/him.i love him and i trust him but how long will it be before im out of the picture for good.no longer needed!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006):

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thanks for your advice but its too late he did it he cheated already w/the snott!im ok but i dont understand why after *yrs he couldnt just tell me he didnt want me anymore.we are still on talking terms but i have to fight being a b--ch and killing her so anyway thanks for all your advice!

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A male reader, DoctorGayLove +, writes (12 June 2006):

Find yourself a male friend from work (preferably gay, but don't tell him that) and hang out with him all the time. See if his attitude changes.

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A female reader, Annabelle +, writes (11 June 2006):

No woman.Dont do this to yourself!There is probably nothing wrong with him having a lady friend but that is just too much.How would he react if you got a male friend nd spend so many time wt him while he was at work?This is a disaster waiting to happen.There might be nothing between them now but they spend so much time together there might just develop something.His friendship or ur relationship?

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