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writes:Ok, i'm an 18 year old woman and my best friend is a guy and i've known him for a year. Over the past few months or so, i have realised i am falling in love with him, but i have never told him this because he has a girlfriend and lives some miles away from me too.Him and his girlfriend have a lot of ups and downs though, like every couple. But there has been a lot of things going on, i don't know how to explain it, but he drops a lot of hints when we are talking online like he is trying to tell me he has feelings for me but can't. At the exact same time, i am trying to do the same thing, but i can't bring myself to tell him either!He always talks about how good it would be if i lived nearer to him, and i think he has feelings for me but i can't say i'm 100% sure. It's just the things he does at times, subtle little hints.I don't know whether to just tell him how i feel or not, i'm really confused.We both get jealous when we talk about other people that fancy us, i can always tell he does get really jealous about it because then he tries to make me jealous too.So if he's jealous...does that mean he has feelings for me and wants to be with me?His girlfriend is treating him badly at the moment, so i think he is going to break up with her, though i'm not sure.I'm in such a mess about this, sometimes i feel like he just wants me to make the first move and say something but i really honestly don't know what to do for the best.He is the best friend i've ever had and i'd hate for things to go wrong...but i love him so much and i just want to be with him!What do you think i should do? Please someone reply to this question coz i'm in such a mess, i am so confused!Many thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2006): right my best m8 (boy) Fell for me and coz he kept it away from me when he finaly told me i didnt belive him. so he proved it to me and we are happy together so just tell him it will make u feel beter and if he carnt take it leave it to cool down a bit
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat does it mean fill in the gaps?
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reader, DoctorGayLove +, writes (18 June 2006):
As much as he obviously likes you, he probably only wants to fill in the gaps in his current relationship. You won't know for sure until they break up and you both start dating. If he has sex with you and is with her sill, you can expect him to do the same with someone else when you two get together, so hold off. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2006): Dive in and tell him. That's what I'd do in your position. Love is too precious to waste.
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